Romantic Reality Check
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Jupiter Square Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t overspend or make big purchases without thinking it through. Impulse shopping can bite you right now.
- Don’t jump into a new relationship just because it seems exciting. Attraction can cloud your judgment during this transit.
- Avoid overindulging in food, drink, or other pleasures. It’s easy to go overboard and regret it later.
- Try not to make promises you can’t keep, especially in love or with money. It’s tempting to say “yes” to everything now.
- Don’t ignore your current relationships for the thrill of something new. The grass isn’t always greener.
- Skip risky investments or gambling. Luck isn’t as strong as you might hope now.
- Don’t try to buy someone’s love or approval. Generosity is good, but don’t let people take advantage of you.
- Be careful about seeking validation through shopping, eating, or feeling “more is better.” Simple joys really are enough.
- Don’t let confidence turn into arrogance, especially when it comes to love or money decisions.
- If you’re already in a relationship, avoid bringing up unrealistic expectations or demands just now.
Do During This Transit
- Try new things in your social life- meet new people, go to gatherings, or say yes to invitations more often.
- Explore art, music, or any kind of creative hobby that catches your interest.
- Work on your self-worth and confidence. Treat yourself kindly and maybe give yourself a little indulgence.
- Look at your relationships- see where you might be overdoing it or giving too much, and bring things back into balance.
- Be open to learning from mistakes in love or money, instead of getting down on yourself.
- Experiment with style- try a new haircut, update your wardrobe, or change up your usual look.
- Practice gratitude, especially for the good stuff in your love life or your finances, even if it’s just the little things.
- Set boundaries when needed. If people are asking too much of you, it’s okay to say no.
- Take a close look at your spending habits and find a healthier balance between saving and enjoying yourself.
- Believe that you’re worthy of good things and let yourself have a little fun- just do it in moderation.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- Excessive Generosity Leading to Regret: Some old astrologers believed Jupiter squaring Venus makes you overly generous, giving away things or favors too freely, only to wish you hadn’t later.
- “Love Feasts” Gone Wrong: Medieval texts warn about indulging too much in “feasts of love”- that could mean parties, romances, or even literal eating and drinking with someone you’re interested in. The risk? Overindulgence leads to “disgrace or stomach aches.”
- Strained Friendships Over Money: Ancient interpretations say this aspect could spark tension in friendships or alliances- usually because of borrowed money, shared expenses, or conflicting values.
- The Gamble with Reputation: Some Renaissance astrologers linked this transit to taking foolish risks to impress others. The result? A setback in social standing or rumors started by jealousy.
- Romances Lacking Discretion: Old records mention “careless affections.” That means you could get tangled up with someone who seems fun but isn’t so great for you in the long run, causing complications or embarrassment.
- Regrets Over Purchases: Ancient Persian astrology brought up this angle- a tendency to blow money on luxuries that seemed like a good idea in the moment but lead to “turmoil of the heart” (buyer’s remorse).
Experiencing This Transit
When Jupiter forms a square to your natal Venus, you might feel like your wants and pleasures are in overdrive. This can be a time when you’re craving more fun, affection, or even fancy goodies than usual, but it can come with a bit of drama or going too far. Jupiter loves to expand- sometimes too much!- and Venus is all about love, money, and what feels nice. But with a square, these two energies bump heads and don’t always play nice.
Challenges during this transit
- Overspending: It’s really easy to justify spending too much on nice things- think retail therapy or way too many dinners out. You could end up with more debt or just a closet full of stuff you don’t wear.
- Getting Too Caught Up in Romance: You might dive into a relationship (or situationship) way too quickly, wanting that fairy-tale vibe. Sometimes this means ignoring red flags, or giving too much, too soon, and then feeling let down.
- FOMO (Fear of Missing Out): This transit can have you saying yes to everything- parties, events, invitations- even when you should rest or focus elsewhere. Burnout is possible!
- Trouble Saying No: Since Venus is about harmony and Jupiter is all about “more!”, you might have a hard time setting boundaries with people who ask too much from you- especially friends or loved ones.
- Conflict Between Values and Desires: You might feel torn between what you think is “right” and what feels good in the moment. This mismatch can leave you feeling guilty or dissatisfied.
Opportunities during this transit
- Fun and Adventure: If you’re usually a bit shy or reserved, this transit can give you a big dose of courage to try new things- maybe travel, new foods, or new social circles.
- Generosity and Warmth: Your urge to give and share can feel really good- like baking for friends, offering help, or just spreading good vibes. These moments of generosity can lead to lasting positive connections.
- Creative Inspiration: A square can light a fire under your creative side. If you make art, music, or cook, you could feel extra inspired to experiment and indulge your artistic taste.
- Learning About What Truly Makes You Happy: All the temptation can help you figure out what really brings pleasure and what’s just filling a void. Maybe you’ll discover a new hobby or realize you don’t need all that stuff after all.
- Potential for Lucky Breaks: Sometimes the mix of risk and optimism pays off- you could meet a cool new friend, find a great deal unexpectedly, or stumble into a fun opportunity by saying yes.
How the Sign of Transiting Jupiter Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Jupiter.
- Transiting Jupiter in Aries: You might take risks for love or spend impulsively. Excitement runs high, but so does impatience.
- Transiting Jupiter in Taurus: There’s a craving for comfort and luxury. Overindulging in food, shopping, or pleasures is tempting.
- Transiting Jupiter in Gemini: Flirtation and socializing get a boost. Communication hiccups or double-booked plans are likely.
- Transiting Jupiter in Cancer: Emotional needs in relationships get highlighted. You may try to fix things with gifts or affection, but it can feel a little smothering.
- Transiting Jupiter in Leo: Attention and grand gestures become irresistible. There’s a tendency to show off or go over-the-top in love.
- Transiting Jupiter in Virgo: You could nitpick your affections or get lost in the details. Chasing “perfection” in love or money causes hiccups.
- Transiting Jupiter in Libra: You want harmony but might go overboard trying to please everyone. Love triangles or juggling too many commitments could happen.
- Transiting Jupiter in Scorpio: Feelings intensify and desires run deep. Power struggles or jealousy may creep into flirting and spending.
- Transiting Jupiter in Sagittarius: Freedom and adventure clash with comfort. You crave new experiences, but might forget about current commitments.
- Transiting Jupiter in Capricorn: Ambitions rise in love and finances. You want to achieve but could come off as cold- or, conversely, overspend to keep up appearances.
- Transiting Jupiter in Aquarius: Unusual attractions or quirky spending patterns pop up. There’s more interest in unconventional relationships or ideas.
- Transiting Jupiter in Pisces: You’re extra dreamy and forgiving, maybe to a fault. It’s easy to ignore red flags or let wishful thinking lead your choices.