Transit Vibe: Tense passion or friction in relationships.
Here’s what to do and to avoid when you have transit Mars square Venus. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
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Avoid During Transit Mars Square Venus
- Don’t start big arguments with your partner- it’s easy to say something you don’t mean right now.
- Avoid making impulsive decisions about love or relationships.
- Don’t get involved in messy or dramatic flings- you might regret it later.
- Try not to spend a lot of money on things you don’t really need, especially to impress someone.
- Avoid letting jealousy or possessiveness take over- this transit stirs up those feelings.
- Don’t force your desires or needs onto someone else.
- Hold off on changing your appearance in extreme ways, like big tattoos or drastic haircuts.
- Avoid risky or reckless behavior just for the thrill of it.
- Don’t ignore boundaries- yours or someone else’s.
- Try not to hold grudges or dwell on past relationship disappointments.
To Do During Transit Mars Square Venus
- Express your feelings honestly, even if they’re messy- passion is high, so don’t hold back.
- Channel extra energy into creative projects like art, music, or dancing- let your inspiration flow.
- Try new things in your relationships, whether that’s spicing up romance or shaking up your routine.
- Get moving physically- work out, go for a run, or try a new sport to burn off that restless vibe.
- Focus on self-care and boost your confidence by doing something that makes you feel attractive.
- Take bold steps in love or dating- this energy gives you courage to make the first move or ask someone out.
- Work through relationship tension by having open, honest conversations- even if it gets intense.
- Keep things fun and playful, but know your boundaries so impulsive choices don’t turn into regrets.
- Start a new creative hobby or passion project- this transit is great for fresh inspiration.
- Trust your instincts when it comes to personal style- wear what makes you feel good, even if it’s a little bold.
What’s Interesting About Transit Mars Square Venus?
Mars square to your natal Venus is one of those wild cards in astrology, and over the centuries, astrologers have noticed a bunch of quirky things about it. Here are some lesser-known or old-school ideas you’ll probably never see on your usual horoscope site:
- In some Renaissance astrology books, it was said that this transit could lead people to act impulsively with money or possessions- like buying extravagant clothes, art, or luxury foods, especially things considered taboo or “decadent” for that time.
- Some old texts warn about risky liaisons, but not just romance- also alliances in business or politics that are based more on mutual “need” or attraction than trust or stability.
- Ancient Greek astrologers saw Mars squaring Venus as a sign that your own desires might accidentally offend or clash with the “spirit” of whatever place you’re in- a sudden brawl at a feast, loud laughter in a church, that kind of thing.
- In 17th century Persian texts, there’s an idea that this transit might bring trouble because of scented items- perfumes, oils, incense- and the drama they bring, like allergic reactions, jealousies, or even misunderstandings over “who smells like whom.”
- Old French astrologers used to say that Mars squaring Venus often coincides with music or art that “stirs the blood”- you might hear songs or see paintings that make you emotional or even angry, or inspire you to do something bold.
- Some Arabic tradition pointed out that this transit can make pets (especially cats and birds, associated with Venus) more feisty, hard to handle, or even get in trouble.
Experiencing Transit Mars Square Venus
When Mars squares your Venus, it’s like a tug-of-war between what you want (Venus) and how you go after it (Mars). Things get heated, passions flare, and sometimes your actions don’t quite line up with your heart’s real desires.
Challenges during Transit Mars Square Venus
- Relationship Drama: One common challenge is getting into arguments or misunderstandings with friends, lovers, or even coworkers. Sometimes, you (or they) might be a little too blunt or impatient, leading to fights over pretty small things.
- Impulsive Decisions: Venus loves pleasure and comfort, but Mars pushes you to act fast- sometimes way too fast. You might buy something expensive on a whim or chase after someone who’s not really right for you.
- Jealousy and Competitiveness: This transit tends to stir up jealousy, especially in relationships. You might feel more possessive than usual, or get irritated if a friend gets more attention than you.
- Clashing Desires: Major tension can come from wanting two things at once- like wanting to relax and have fun, but also feeling restless or irritable. It’s hard to be satisfied.
- Physical Aches: Sometimes, this can manifest as actual discomfort- like headaches, tension, or just feeling “off” physically, especially if you don’t let off steam in a healthy way.
Opportunities during Transit Mars Square Venus
- Creative Inspiration: That same spark that causes tension can also light a creative fire. You might suddenly want to paint, dance, write, or do anything that combines beauty and action.
- Healthy Confrontations: If there’s something you’ve been putting off saying to someone, this transit gives you the guts to speak up. Just try to do it gently.
- Spicing Up Romance: If you’re in a relationship, things can get a little more passionate. Sometimes arguments are just energy needing a better outlet!
- Learning Boundaries: It’s a chance to figure out what you really want and how to ask for it, whether in love, friendship, or at work. Setting boundaries now can bring way more harmony later.
- New Experiences: You might feel bolder about trying new things- new foods, new looks, new ways of expressing yourself. Go for it! Just maybe don’t max out your credit card in one go.
How the Sign of Transiting Mars Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Mars.
- Transiting Mars in Aries: Super impulsive energy. You might rush into love or conflict without thinking, and things can get heated really fast.
- Transiting Mars in Taurus: Stubbornness ramps up. Sensual desires are strong, but you may dig your heels in during disagreements about love or money.
- Transiting Mars in Gemini: Flirtiness skyrockets and arguments can pop up from misunderstandings or mixed signals. Restlessness in relationships is common.
- Transiting Mars in Cancer: Emotions run high. You could feel touchy, defensive, or crave more nurturing in your connections, but moods may lead to drama.
- Transiting Mars in Leo: You want attention and affection, but ego conflicts can flare up. Romantic displays are bold- and sometimes a little over the top.
- Transiting Mars in Virgo: Criticism in relationships can become a problem. There’s a push for perfection, and you might get irritated by “the little things.”
- Transiting Mars in Libra: You want things to be fair, but might swing between passivity and confrontation. Relationships feel extra “all or nothing.”
- Transiting Mars in Scorpio: Jealousy and passion intensify. Power struggles can surface, and your desires feel deeper and sometimes a bit possessive.
- Transiting Mars in Sagittarius: Restlessness shows up, and you want more freedom. Adventure and honesty take center stage, but tact can go out the window.
- Transiting Mars in Capricorn: You’re serious about getting what you want. Ambitions in love (and maybe money) get a boost, but you might come across as bossy.
- Transiting Mars in Aquarius: Unpredictable vibes. You want space and independence, and quirky or unconventional issues might crop up in your relationships.
- Transiting Mars in Pisces: Emotions are sensitive and smudgy. You might feel confused about what you want or get passive-aggressive if boundaries are blurred.
