Flirty & Fun Energy!
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Mars trine Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t rush into new relationships just because you feel a spark – enjoy the chemistry, but take your time.
- Avoid being too impulsive with your spending, especially on beauty, clothes, or dates. That Mars energy can push you to splurge.
- Don’t stir up drama in your love life for excitement’s sake. Things feel passionate, but try not to start arguments just for the passion of making up.
- Don’t ignore boundaries (yours or anyone else’s). You might feel more bold, but make sure everyone’s comfortable.
- Steer clear of flirting with people who are already in committed relationships – temptations can be high now.
- Don’t overcommit yourself socially. You’ll want to have fun, but it’s easy to say “yes” to too much and get overwhelmed.
- Avoid acting only on physical attraction; make sure you care about the person beyond first impressions.
- Try not to use charm to manipulate others into doing what you want.
- Don’t neglect responsibilities just because you’re chasing pleasure or romance.
Do During This Transit
- Start a new romantic relationship or take things to the next level in your current one.
- Go on fun dates or plan special outings with someone you like.
- Express your feelings openly- don’t be shy about flirting or telling someone you care.
- Work on creative projects like art, music, or writing; inspiration and motivation flow easily now.
- Spruce up your wardrobe or try out a new look- confidence is higher and you’ll get noticed.
- Host a party or get together with friends. Social vibes are at their best.
- Ask for what you want in relationships or even at work- you’re likely to get a “yes.”
- Invest time in self-care and pampering, like getting a massage, facial, or just some time to relax.
- Tackle a makeover project at home to make your space feel more inviting or beautiful.
- Reach out to resolve conflicts- charm and diplomacy come naturally now.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- Old astrologers sometimes said a Mars trine Venus brought a “luck in games or contests of pleasure.” This wasn’t just about love or sex, but also sport, chess, or poetry competitions.
- In some Medieval writings, this transit was believed to trigger “unexpected invitations to celebrations,” like feasts, dances, or friendly gatherings.
- Ancient texts mention that Mars trine Venus could bring about “healing through beauty,” so folks might’ve noticed improvement in health by enjoying music, painting, or a walk in a garden.
- Some old-school interpretations said you could “win quarrels with charm” under this transit- basically smoothing over conflicts using wit instead of muscle.
- Renaissance astrologers sometimes connected this aspect with finding new sources of income through “feminine arts,” meaning anything creative, artistic, or involving negotiation rather than brute force.
- Certain Persian astrologers thought Mars trine Venus could indicate “passion for justice”- feeling more motivated to stand up for a friend, or fight for fairness, especially in relationships.
Experiencing This Transit
When Mars makes a trine to your natal Venus, you might start noticing some new energy stirring in both your love life and your creative side. Things just feel a little bit easier, like you don’t have to work quite as hard to get what you want (especially when it comes to pleasure or connection). There’s a natural flow between what you desire and how you go after it.
You might feel more attractive, both to others and to yourself. It’s a great time for flirting, art, music, or just doing things that light you up inside. Friends may feel more drawn to you, and little bits of luck seem to pop up- maybe you get invited to a fun event out of the blue, or a project feels way less stressful than usual.
Challenges during this transit
- It’s tempting to go overboard with pleasure and indulgence. You might be inclined to overspend, overeat, or dive into love affairs a little too quickly.
- This easy energy can make some folks lazy- they wait for things to happen rather than taking action. You could miss out if you just coast along and let opportunities slip by.
- If there are problems in relationships already, this energy might just gloss them over for now rather than actually fixing anything. It feels good, but real issues might sneak back up once the transit passes.
- You could come off as a little too flirty, or someone might misread your friendliness as something more, which could create awkward moments.
Opportunities during this transit
- It’s a fantastic time to start new creative projects- music, art, writing, cooking, even redecorating your space. Inspiration seems to show up right when you need it.
- Flirting and dating? Go for it. This energy makes you more magnetic and charming than usual, so putting yourself out there is likely to get good results.
- If you need to fix a relationship, having those honest talks is smoother now. You can say what you need gently, and people respond better to your point of view.
- It’s easier to enjoy physical pleasures- anything from a good meal to dancing, yoga, or intimacy. You’ll actually get more out of it right now, so don’t hold back if you’re craving a little fun.
- Teamwork and cooperation shine- you can work with others towards common goals and actually enjoy it, whether it’s work, school, or just helping out a friend.
How the Sign of Transiting Mars Modifies This Transit Trine to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Mars.
- Transiting Mars in Aries: You’ll notice things move fast! Flirting and relationships feel super exciting and spontaneous, and you might make bold moves without second-guessing yourself.
- Transiting Mars in Taurus: Romantic energy gets steady and sensual. You’re patient, more focused on physical touch, comfort, and showing love through practical actions.
- Transiting Mars in Gemini: Conversations get flirty and playful. You’ll want to talk things out, send texts, and might enjoy connecting with more than one person at once, just for fun.
- Transiting Mars in Cancer: Emotions run deeper. You’ll crave caring and nurturing from your partner and might want to show your affection by taking care of others or spending time at home together.
- Transiting Mars in Leo: Love life gets dramatic! You’ll want attention, fun, and grand gestures. Creativity and passion go way up, so go ahead and make someone feel special.
- Transiting Mars in Virgo: You’ll show love in practical ways- doing little favors, paying attention to details, or helping out. You’re attracted to helpfulness and love organizing plans together.
- Transiting Mars in Libra: Romance is about balance, charm, and harmony. You’re extra polite and diplomatic, and you might enjoy shared activities that look or feel beautiful.
- Transiting Mars in Scorpio: Emotions run intense and passionate. Physical chemistry is powerful, and you’ll want deep connections- that “all or nothing” kind of vibe.
- Transiting Mars in Sagittarius: Your love life gets adventurous! You’re drawn to exploring new things with others, whether that’s new places, ideas, or philosophies. Freedom and honesty matter most.
- Transiting Mars in Capricorn: You take your goals seriously- even romantic ones! Your approach is practical, so you might set relationship goals or show love through commitment and support.
- Transiting Mars in Aquarius: Relationships feel more open and friendly than passionate. You’re attracted to unique, quirky people and might want more independence and intellectual connection.
- Transiting Mars in Pisces: Things get dreamy, artistic, and super romantic. You’re softer and more intuitive about others, so affection feels magical and compassionate.