Dreamy confusion about feelings
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Neptune Sesquisquare Moon transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t ignore your feelings – you might feel more confused or sensitive than usual, so pay attention to your emotions.
- Avoid making big decisions, especially about relationships or home life, because things can seem foggier or less certain right now.
- Don’t trust everything you hear – misunderstandings and mixed signals are common when Neptune is involved.
- Try not to escape into unhealthy habits like overeating, drinking, or oversleeping just to avoid stress or tough emotions.
- Avoid getting caught up in fantasies; what seems magical or too good to be true probably is.
- Don’t sacrifice your own needs for others just to keep the peace – take care of yourself, too.
- Try not to dwell on the past or hold onto guilt. Neptune can exaggerate regrets or make you feel overly sentimental.
- If you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t isolate yourself completely – stay connected with supportive friends or family.
- Be cautious with promises; don’t agree to things without thinking them through, as you might feel scattered or disorganized.
- Avoid getting lost in social media or unproductive daydreaming – try to stay grounded as much as you can.
Do During This Transit
- Pay attention to your dreams – Your intuition’s probably extra strong now, so jot down any dreams or gut feelings you have. Sometimes your subconscious knows what you need before you do.
- Practice self-care – This transit can make you feel foggy or drained, so look after yourself. Take naps, eat well, and make time for activities that recharge you.
- Get creative – Neptune inspires imagination. Try drawing, writing, painting, or playing music- even if you don’t see yourself as “artistic.” You might surprise yourself!
- Keep boundaries firm – Emotions run high and blurry during this time, so don’t be afraid to say no or protect your space from people who drain you.
- Trust, but double-check – Neptune can blur reality. If something seems off or too good to be true, pause and look closer before you commit or make a big decision.
- Practice meditation or gentle movement – Yoga, tai chi, or just sitting quietly can help you stay grounded if emotions feel overwhelming.
- Volunteer or help others – Compassion is heightened now, so helping someone else, even in a small way, can feel really meaningful.
- Cut back on substances – Avoid overdoing things like alcohol, caffeine, or anything that blurs the lines even more. Keeping a clear head helps during this time.
- Journal about your feelings – Write down what’s coming up for you, even if it’s confusing or seems dramatic. It’ll help you make sense of shifting emotions.
- Give yourself permission to feel – You might find yourself extra sensitive. It’s okay! Let yourself experience emotions without judgment. This is all part of the process.
What’s Interesting About This Transit
- Heightened susceptibility to psychic influences: In Sepharial’s The Manual of Astrology (1898), it’s noted that Neptune in hard aspect to the Moon (especially by sesquisquare, which he describes as a “semi-square-and-a-half”) can open the mind to “mesmeric or hypnotic forces,” making the native unusually susceptible to the moods and auras of people and places. This is a time when you might find yourself absorbing feelings that aren’t your own, almost like being a psychic sponge.
- Tendency toward “glamour of discontent”: In Charles Carter’s The Encyclopedia of Psychological Astrology (1924), he describes enigmatic Moon-Neptune aspects as producing a sense of longing and “yearning after the unattainable,” accompanied by a vague, dreamy dissatisfaction that can’t be easily resolved. Carter suggests this aspect is like having a mist over your emotions – you know something’s not right, but can’t say why.
- Disturbed sleep or strange dreams with spiritual content: In Vivian E. Robson’s A Student’s Textbook of Astrology (1922), Robson mentions that Neptune in difficult angle to the Moon can bring “invasion of troubled or exalted dreams, especially of a religious or symbolic nature.” Under this influence, dreams might feel more like visions or riddles from the subconscious.
- Emotional double life: Margaret Hone in The Modern Textbook of Astrology (1951), writes that when Neptune aspects the Moon by a minor but challenging angle like the sesquisquare, it can lead to “emotional duplicity, not always conscious,” and a divided inner world. You might secretly long for something you can’t name, or find yourself telling little white lies without quite knowing why.
- Temporary confusion over personal boundaries: Henry Weingarten, in a reissue of Alan Leo’s How to Judge a Nativity (original 1904), says that Neptune challenging the Moon sometimes causes “psychic invasion” or blurring of psycho-emotional boundaries, especially with mother figures or other women. Those relationships could suddenly feel murky or hard to navigate.
- Artistic talents hidden in daily life: Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson’s Astrology: Secrets of the Moon (1961) points out that these Neptunian transits to the Moon can reveal “impractical talents” deep within, like poetry, singing, or sensitivity to rhythm and music. You might notice spontaneous bursts of creativity, often surfacing while daydreaming or escaping routines.
- Unusual feelings of sacrifice or minor self-undoing: According to Frankland and Green’s New Directions in Astrology (1931), these Moon-Neptune stress aspects, especially the sesquisquare, bring “occasions of misplaced sacrifice” – perhaps agreeing to do things for others out of confusion, guilt, or simply not setting limits, leading to small but noticeable emotional drains.
- Fluctuating physical health linked to emotion or mystery ailments: In E.C. Matthews’ Astrological Aspects (1967), he links this Neptune influence to “mysterious or shifting ailments with emotional overtones,” especially digestive or sleep disturbances that don’t have a clear physical source.
Experiencing This Transit
This Neptune sesquisquare (that’s a quirky 135-degree angle) to your natal Moon isn’t the most famous transit, but it sure creates a weird, foggy vibe. It tends to blur the emotional boundaries, making you extra sensitive, maybe a bit confused about your feelings or what’s happening at home or with people close to you. Neptune never does anything straight-on- everything’s misty, indirect, and just out of reach, so don’t be surprised if it feels like you’re living in a dream or walking through a cloud.
Challenges during this transit
- Emotional Overwhelm: You might pick up on everyone else’s emotions and problems, feeling moody or anxious without knowing why. You could second-guess yourself a ton or even worry you’re being too “soft.”
- Confusing Boundaries: It’s easy to get mixed up about what feelings are really yours. Someone tells you their sad story? Suddenly you’re carrying it with you all day. If you have drama at home, it can feel extra-heightened and murky.
- Escapism: You might want to check out or avoid reality, whether that’s binging shows, sleeping all day, daydreaming about a fantasy life, or even just staring out the window.
- Homesick & Restless: You might even start missing old homes, people, or times that weren’t even that great, because everything gets covered in a filter of longing.
- Mood Swings: Your moods might feel like tides- up and down without much warning. Crying for no obvious reason sometimes happens here.
Opportunities during this transit
- Powerful Creativity: If you’re into art, writing, or music, your imagination might go wild (in a good way). Inspiration just seems to bubble up from nowhere.
- Deep Intuition: You may get little flashes of insight about yourself or others, like psychic dreams or gut feelings that come out of the blue. Trust them- they might be right on.
- Spiritual Awakening: This is actually a pretty spiritual time, even if you don’t think of yourself as “woo-woo.” Meditation, prayer, or just quiet time might reveal a lot.
- Learning Compassion: You can tap into super empathy. Instead of getting lost in other people’s feelings, you might learn how to offer support without losing yourself.
- Letting Go: Neptune is about dissolving boundaries- if you’ve been clinging to the past, old hurts or resentment, this transit makes it easier to let go, though sometimes it happens because you’re so tired of carrying it.
How the Sign of Transiting Neptune Modifies This Transit Sesquisquare to Natal Moon
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Neptune.
- Transiting Neptune in Aries: Dreams and emotions feel urgent or impulsive, which might bring up sudden hunches or emotional reactions out of nowhere. You might want to act on a feeling before you understand it.
- Transiting Neptune in Taurus: Emotions can get tangled up with your sense of security or comfort. You might feel extra sensitive about your possessions or changes at home throw you off more than usual.
- Transiting Neptune in Gemini: It’s easy to get overwhelmed by contradictory thoughts and feelings. Communication could get foggy, and you might second-guess what people mean or your own memory.
- Transiting Neptune in Cancer: You’re especially intuitive, but also more easily affected by nostalgia and family issues. Memories and mood swings might blend together, blurring what’s real from what’s imagined.
- Transiting Neptune in Leo: Creative inspiration is high, but so are emotional dramas. You might feel misunderstood, crave validation, or read too much into romantic situations.
- Transiting Neptune in Virgo: Emotions may express themselves as anxiety over details or health. You could worry about perfection or try to “fix” feelings that really just need to be felt.
- Transiting Neptune in Libra: Relationships and emotional balance are tricky; you might idealize partners or friendships, only to feel let down. You could struggle to see things clearly in love or decisions.
- Transiting Neptune in Scorpio: Deep feelings surface, but it’s hard to tell the difference between intuition and suspicion. Secrets, trust issues, and emotional intensity may get blurry or confusing.
- Transiting Neptune in Sagittarius: It’s easy to get lost in big dreams or wishful thinking about your future. Emotions can be tied to beliefs or spiritual ideas, maybe even leading to disillusionment with certain philosophies.
- Transiting Neptune in Capricorn: You might doubt your goals or become confused about what you really want in life. Emotions can feel restricted or blend with worries about responsibility or your career path.
- Transiting Neptune in Aquarius: Feelings might be influenced by friends or social trends. You could feel spaced out and find it tough to connect on a personal emotional level, or you might chase unrealistic ideals for humanity.
- Transiting Neptune in Pisces: Emotions and intuition are turned up high, but so is the risk of escaping reality or falling into wishful thinking. You could feel ultra-sensitive, psychically open, or easily swept away by your mood or environment.