Dreamy romance vibes!
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Neptune Sextile Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t rush into new romantic relationships- things might seem dreamier than they really are.
- Avoid loaning money to friends or romantic interests, since you might not see things clearly.
- Don’t ignore red flags in love or friendship, even if you really want everything to feel magical.
- Avoid making big decisions about beauty, fashion, or cosmetic procedures- your tastes could be extra idealistic right now.
- Don’t get lost in fantasies or daydreams about love and relationships; try to keep one foot on the ground.
- Avoid heavy drinking or drug use at parties or social events- you’re more open to influence, and it can cloud your judgment even more.
- Don’t make major investments related to art, music, or luxury items- you might be drawn in by something that looks better than it actually is.
- Avoid letting people take advantage of your kindness or generosity just because you want to help or save them.
- Don’t run away from real-life issues in love or money by escaping into fantasies or addictive habits.
- Avoid trusting everyone too quickly- some people aren’t as honest or well-intentioned as they seem.
Do During This Transit
- Connect with others on a deeper, more spiritual level- open up your heart and let yourself trust a bit more.
- Explore creative projects, like painting, music, or writing- your imagination gets a nice boost now.
- Do something romantic, whether that’s planning a dreamy date or just being extra sweet to your partner.
- Volunteer or help someone in need- this transit makes compassion come naturally.
- Start a meditation or mindfulness routine, or spend time in nature to get in touch with your inner self.
- Focus on forgiveness- let go of old hurts and find peace with others (or even yourself).
- Redecorate your space or try a new style- aesthetic sense is super strong now.
- Let yourself believe in magic a little, whether that’s through watching inspiring movies or reading uplifting stories.
- Work on healing any issues about self-worth or love- this transit is gentle and perfect for self-care.
- Listen to your intuition about people and situations; your “gut feelings” are especially accurate now.
What’s Interesting About This Transit
- In his book The Radix System (1942), David Anrias describes Neptune sextile Venus as a period when “the native feels sudden sympathy for the misfortunes of animals and may develop an interest in charitable acts connected with them.” It’s said to open the heart particularly toward non-human suffering, suggesting a unique turn of compassion.
- In The Message of the Stars (1922), Max Heindel and Augusta Foss Heindel mention that this transit can “arouse latent artistic talent in handicrafts and fine embroidery, especially among women,” suggesting that it’s not only about romance, but also hidden creative skills that involve fine detail.
- C.E.O. Carter, in Essays on the Foundations of Astrology (1928), notes that this aspect “can coincide with an increased psychic receptivity to the beauty found in the simplest natural forms, such as dew on grass or the pattern of leaves in shadow,” implying an uncommon, heightened sensitivity to subtle, everyday beauty.
- In The Astrological Aspects (1930), Charles E.O. Carter points out that Neptune sextile Venus may trigger “a wish to rename oneself or adopt terms of endearment or poetic nicknames in personal relationships,” which is a rather quirky or less-discussed effect focused on the desire to romanticize identity.
- According to Llewellyn George’s Astrological Keywords (1924), this transit is sometimes associated with “the urge to create perfumes, incenses, or blend oils for emotional or devotional use,” linking Venusian sensual pleasure with Neptunian longing for the mystical.
- Ivy M. Goldstein-Jacobson, in Here and There in Astrology (1961), writes that during Neptune sextile Venus, “one may attract secret admirers or become infatuated with unattainable individuals- like movie stars or figures from distant lands- due to idealization.” This ties the transit to fantasy crushes and mysterious attractions rather than everyday romance.
- John North, in Astrology and Relating (1969), suggests that this transit “may bring opportunities to experience profound connections in group spiritual singing or chanting,” highlighting an uncommon link with collective mystical musical experiences.
- Marjorie Orr’s Astrological Guide to Self-Awareness (1978) mentions, “During this influence, people sometimes receive gifts, not for anything they’ve done, but simply because others are moved by a sense of goodwill or inexplicable kindness.”
- In New Insights in Modern Astrology (1948), Nona Gwynn Press wrote that “writers and poets might find a burst of inspiration toward metaphysical or dreamlike love themes, producing works which may not make sense to the logical mind but feel meaningful emotionally nonetheless.”
Experiencing This Transit
When Neptune forms a sextile with your natal Venus, life gets a little softer, a little more magical- almost like you’re wearing rose-colored glasses, but in a good way. Your emotions, relationships, and sense of what’s beautiful and meaningful all become deeper and a little more dreamy. You might find yourself craving art, music, or romance, even if you don’t usually care much about that stuff.
This isn’t a wild or dramatic transit; it’s more like soft background music that lifts your spirits and makes things feel sweeter. You might notice you’re more forgiving, compassionate, or just more open to understanding where people are coming from. You’ll likely want more beauty around you- maybe you’re drawn to redecorate, try new clothes, or just sit and appreciate a sunset.
Challenges during this transit
- Idealizing people: You might see the best in people, which sounds nice, but it can mean you miss the red flags. If you’re starting a new romance or friendship, you could overlook obvious problems because you’re swept up in good feelings.
- Escaping reality: There’s a temptation to dodge practical stuff by daydreaming, binge-watching movies, or getting lost in music. You could let chores or responsibilities slide.
- Getting carried away with spending: Because everything feels more beautiful, it’s easy to want more- so watch out for spending too much on art, clothes, cosmetics, or things that just “spark joy” in the moment.
- Harder to say no: Your soft heart influences your boundaries. You could say yes to things you normally wouldn’t- doing favors, giving money, or forgiving someone who keeps crossing the line.
Opportunities during this transit
- Creative bursts: If you’re into any art, music, writing, or even cooking, inspiration flows easily now. You could start (or finish) projects that feel truly meaningful and “from the soul.”
- Healing relationships: Forgiveness comes more naturally. This is a good time to mend fences, let go of old grudges, or have open-hearted talks that clear the air.
- New romance or deepening love: If you’re single, you might attract someone by just being yourself. If you’re already partnered, the vibe is perfect for romantic dates, sweet gestures, or even just cuddling up and watching beautiful films together.
- Developing intuition: You might trust your gut more, especially in love or friendships. Pay attention if someone or something just “feels” right- or wrong.
- Finding beauty in the ordinary: Simple things, like how sunlight hits your bedroom wall, can suddenly seem profound. This is a great time for photography, journaling, or anything that helps you savor or capture these sweet, gentle moments.
How the Sign of Transiting Neptune Modifies This Transit Sextile to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Neptune.
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Transiting Neptune in Aries:
Adds a spark of courage to love and creativity, making you more willing to take a chance or confess your feelings. Things feel exciting, impulsive, and new in relationships. -
Transiting Neptune in Taurus:
Grounds those dreamy vibes, focusing them on comfort, security, and maybe a little bit of luxury. You’ll want more sensual, practical expressions of kindness and affection. -
Transiting Neptune in Gemini:
Sparks flirty conversations, poetic communication, and an urge to connect through words. Creative inspiration often comes through writing or chatting with others. -
Transiting Neptune in Cancer:
Highlights emotional nurturing, tender care, and family bonds. You’re extra sensitive to loved ones’ feelings, and it’s easy to show affection with sweet gestures at home. -
Transiting Neptune in Leo:
Turns the romance up to high drama! Love feels creative, bold, and passionate. Artistic projects or love affairs get a glamorous, showy boost. -
Transiting Neptune in Virgo:
Blends dreams with the details, making you want to help and serve others in practical ways. There’s a sweet, healing vibe to how you show love, and you notice beauty in the small things. -
Transiting Neptune in Libra:
Supercharges romance, making you crave harmony and soul-to-soul connections. You’re more idealistic about partnership and appreciate art, beauty, and social experiences even more. -
Transiting Neptune in Scorpio:
Adds a mysterious, intense edge, making desires deep and emotions stormier. Intimacy craves spiritual closeness, and you’re drawn to powerful, transformative connections. -
Transiting Neptune in Sagittarius:
Inspires adventurous, optimistic love, and you might bond over far-off places or big hopes for the future. You’re open to new experiences and spiritual growth in relationships. -
Transiting Neptune in Capricorn:
Grounds those Venus vibes but in a goal-oriented way. Love and creativity get a practical spin, and you’re likely drawn to build something lasting or make dreams more real. -
Transiting Neptune in Aquarius:
Adds a quirky, progressive twist- maybe you’re drawn to unconventional relationships, or want to connect with friends, groups, or artistic communities. Innovation mixes with compassion. -
Transiting Neptune in Pisces:
Makes everything ultra-romantic, spiritual, and dreamy. There’s a magical feeling around love and art, plus a strong urge to help and heal, or simply float away on a cloud of affection.