Love lessons and reality checks
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Saturn Sesquisquare Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t start a new romantic relationship unless you’re really ready for challenges- it’s not the best time for smooth beginnings.
- Try not to make big decisions about love, like getting engaged or breaking up, unless you’ve thought things through very carefully.
- Avoid getting caught up in self-doubt or being too hard on yourself about your looks or desirability.
- Don’t overspend or make large purchases, especially on clothes, beauty, or luxury items. Financial stress is more likely right now.
- Steer clear of borrowing money from loved ones or lending it out, as misunderstandings can come up easily.
- Don’t ignore relationship problems- sweeping things under the rug will make them feel even heavier.
- Avoid comparing your relationships to others or wishing things were “perfect;” it’s easy to feel let down under this transit.
- Stay away from social situations or parties if you’re not feeling up to it- forcing yourself might just leave you feeling more isolated.
- Don’t be afraid to set healthy boundaries, but don’t go overboard with shutting people out, either.
- Try not to rush into making artistic or creative choices that involve a lot of commitment- your taste might be going through a tough phase.
Do During This Transit
- Take a close look at your relationships- see what’s actually working and what’s not.
- Set healthy boundaries with friends, partners, or even family if you need to.
- Review your spending habits and get real about your budget.
- Spend some time alone and figure out what you really value in love and life.
- Let go of old attachments or habits that don’t make you happy anymore.
- Work on boosting your self-worth- treat yourself with a little more kindness.
- Put effort into making your relationships stronger, but be honest about what needs fixing.
- Appreciate the beauty in simple things- like art, music, or even a walk outside.
- Take your time when making big decisions about love or money- don’t rush.
- Practice patience and know that any disappointments now can help you grow in the long run.
What’s interesting about this transit?
Okay, so Saturn sesquisquare (that’s 135°) to natal Venus isn’t talked about as much as other Saturn connections, but if you dig through old astrology books, you’ll find some really curious stuff:
- “Candle in the Window”: In some old European texts, this kind of aspect was said to reflect a longing for love that always seems just out of reach, like seeing a light in the distance that you can’t quite get to.
- Aristotelian Restrictions: Some medieval sources used this aspect to describe “unseen governors” of affection- meaning hidden rules or restrictions governing love and pleasure, almost like unconscious vows or taboos.
- Salt in the Sweet: Ancient authors sometimes saw any Venus-Saturn hard aspects as “sweetness made sharp”- relationships or pleasures come with lessons, limitations, or just a bit of painful realism you can’t ignore.
- The Comb of Patience: A rare reference from a Persian astrologer compares this transit to “combing tangled hair”- basically, working through knots in your partnerships, art, or self-worth, and the whole process hurts a little, but it has to be done.
- Troubled Finery: In Victorian astrology, Saturn to Venus, especially in problematic angles, was noted for “discovering flaws in one’s velvet,” meaning you might notice imperfections in things you used to adore- whether that’s a person, an object, or even your own reflection.
Experiencing This Transit
Saturn sesquisquare Venus isn’t the biggest drama ever, but it’s definitely annoying and persistent. It’s like having a pebble in your shoe when you’re on a long walk. You might feel like your relationships, romantic life, or even your finances and self-esteem just aren’t flowing smoothly. There’s tension between what you want (Venus) and what feels required of you (Saturn). You get these little frictions that force you to rethink how you do love, beauty, and money in your life.
Challenges during this transit
- You might feel unappreciated by people you love, or maybe you’re stuck in a pattern where affection comes with strings attached.
- Social plans could get canceled or just not work out- friends or partners are busy, distant, or acting less warm than usual.
- Your self-worth can take a hit. Old insecurities could pop up, especially about attractiveness or value.
- Venus rules money, too, so you might run into budget hang-ups- unexpected bills, less income, or feeling restricted about spending on things that bring you joy.
- It can also show up as creative blocks; you may find it hard to enjoy art, music, or anything that normally lifts your spirits.
Opportunities during this transit
- This is a great time to re-evaluate your relationships. You’ll see what’s real and solid, and what needs work (or maybe needs to end).
- Personal boundaries can get stronger. If you usually say yes when you want to say no, Saturn will help you get clear on that.
- Financial discipline can actually skyrocket. If you’ve been meaning to save more or tighten your spending, the slight discomfort Saturn brings is perfect for building better money habits.
- It’s a chance to create more mature standards for both yourself and others- what you’re truly worth, and what you’re willing to accept in love or friendship.
- On the creative front, if you stick with the process (even when it feels dry), you can end up creating some deeply meaningful or long-lasting art, music, or other projects. The restrictions actually invite more depth.
How the Sign of Transiting Saturn Modifies This Transit Sesquisquare to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Saturn.
- Transiting Saturn in Aries: You might feel pressure to be less impulsive in relationships and more cautious about rushing into things. Independence issues could get spotlighted.
- Transiting Saturn in Taurus: Money and security worries can pop up, making you rethink how you value yourself and your connections. It’s about making things last, even if it feels slow.
- Transiting Saturn in Gemini: Communication in love gets tested. Misunderstandings or delays in messages can make things awkward, so you’ll want to slow down and think before you speak.
- Transiting Saturn in Cancer: Emotions can feel heavy and there might be boundaries when it comes to family or home life. You could feel a bit isolated or need more emotional security.
- Transiting Saturn in Leo: You might question whether you’re getting enough recognition or appreciation in your relationships. There’s a focus on self-worth and being seen for who you are.
- Transiting Saturn in Virgo: Perfectionism could create stress in love and money matters. You’ll be pushed to pay attention to details and fix what isn’t working, even in little ways.
- Transiting Saturn in Libra: Balance and fairness issues get real. You’ll see if relationships are too one-sided and where some work or boundaries are needed, especially around cooperation.
- Transiting Saturn in Scorpio: Trust and intimacy get tested. You may have to confront deeper fears around attachment, jealousy, or vulnerability in love and finances.
- Transiting Saturn in Sagittarius: You might feel restricted when it comes to freedom or exploring new things with others. Beliefs and values in partnerships could clash and need adjustment.
- Transiting Saturn in Capricorn: There’s a focus on practical, long-term commitments. You may be challenged to take responsibility or deal with relationship duties in a more grown-up way.
- Transiting Saturn in Aquarius: Unusual connections or progressive ideas in love get reality-checked. Friendships and group dynamics are tested for authenticity and respect.
- Transiting Saturn in Pisces: Boundaries could feel blurry in love or finances, making it a time to see what’s real and what’s just wishful thinking. Compassion is important, but so is clarity.