Passionate spark
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus conjunct Mars transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t start big arguments or jump into conflicts without thinking it through- emotions run high and tempers can flare faster now.
- Try not to rush into a new romance or hookup. Chemistry might feel super strong, but it can cloud your judgment.
- Avoid making impulsive purchases or spending a lot on things you want but don’t really need, especially if it’s for looks or pleasure.
- Don’t force your opinions or desires onto others- there’s a higher chance of coming off as bossy or pushy.
- Be careful with taking risks just for fun or excitement, like spontaneous road trips or games of chance- it’s easy to underestimate consequences now.
- Try not to pressure your partner or friends to do things your way, even if you feel really passionate about it.
- If you’re working on creative projects, avoid being too critical of others’ ideas or dominating group efforts.
- Don’t let jealousy or possessiveness get the best of you, whether in love or friendships. This energy can make you act before you think.
- Avoid big decisions about love, money, or partnerships- it’s better to wait until things feel more balanced and clear.
Do During This Transit
- Pursue romance: This is a great time to go on dates, flirt, or express how you feel to a crush. Your charm and confidence are extra strong right now.
- Be creative: You’ll have more inspiration for art, music, dance, or whatever creative hobby you enjoy. Let your emotions fuel your creativity.
- Work on relationships: If there’s been tension with someone, this is a good period to smooth things over and bring back the passion.
- Start something new: Whether it’s a passion project, a workout routine, or a new friendship, your motivation gets a boost during this transit.
- Treat yourself: Indulge in something that makes you feel good- buy that outfit, get that massage, or enjoy a special meal.
- Ask for what you want: You’ll likely get positive responses if you make your desires known, whether it’s at work, with friends, or in your love life.
- Reconnect with your body: Try out a new sport, dance, or another activity that gets you moving. You’ll likely feel extra energetic and attractive.
- Express yourself boldly: Share your opinions, show off your style, or just do something that lets the real you shine.
- Set intentions for love and passion: It’s a good time to focus on what you want in your relationships and take steps to make it happen.
- Be playful: Make time for fun, laughter, and a little adventure. Enjoy life and let others see your warm side.
What’s interesting about this transit?
Venus conjunct natal Mars is pretty popular in modern astrology, but if we dig into some old texts and ancient sources, there are some really curious takes on this alignment:
- According to Vettius Valens (2nd century), this transit can mark a time when people are “compelled to unite,” not just in romance, but also in secret treaties and quiet alliances- like people coming together for hush-hush plans.
- Firmicus Maternus warned that when Venus and Mars meet, the appetite for “forbidden pleasures” spikes. So in his view, this combo could make you more likely to break taboos or go after what you know you shouldn’t.
- In Persian astrology, some wrote that Venus and Mars together can bring a flair for artistic fighting, like using music or poetry to win arguments, or expressing rage or passion in really creative ways.
- Renaissance texts sometimes said this transit “arouses hot desires that can sweetly ruin,” hinting at passions that feel irresistible but might not end up being so great in the long run.
- One obscure medieval text links this transit with impulsive gifting- people are suddenly prone to giving away valuable things, sometimes regretting these grand gestures afterward.
- Some old Chinese astrological writings associate Venus-Mars combos with new recipes or creative cooking “by the fire,” maybe literally or just about spicing up romance with unusual flavors.
Experiencing This Transit
When Venus is conjunct your natal Mars, it can feel like you’re running on extra batteries, especially when it comes to stuff (or people) you find attractive or exciting. Your feelings, your passions, and your drive kind of get mixed together. Things you want, you want now. People you like, you feel bold enough to chase. You might flirt more, stand out a bit, or just feel more in tune with your body and desires. It’s a ‘follow your heart, not your head’ sort of vibe.
You could find yourself acting on impulse, acting spicier than usual, or just craving adventure. Creative juices flow easily, too- this is a time when you might want to make something beautiful, start a project you’re passionate about, or express yourself in a totally new way.
Challenges during this transit
- Impulsive actions: You might leap before you look, whether in love, with money, or decisions that don’t feel risky in the moment but could backfire.
- Temper flares: It’s easy to get into unnecessary arguments or take things a bit too personally. Venus adds sweetness, but Mars has a short fuse here.
- Over-indulgence: This transit can make you want all the pleasures- food, shopping, romance- which can lead to regrets if you aren’t paying attention.
- Jealousy or competition: Sometimes you (or people around you) get a little possessive, maybe even competitive in relationships or creative projects.
- Resisting boundaries: The combo can make you want what you “shouldn’t” have, tempting you to cross lines or get involved in risky situations.
Opportunities during this transit
- Creative breakthroughs: This is literally one of the best transits to make art, write, dance, or sing- anything that lets you express passion.
- Exciting romance: If you’re single, you might meet someone exciting. If you’re in a relationship, things could heat up- in a fun way.
- Confident self-expression: You’ll probably feel bolder, more attractive, and able to show your true colors without feeling awkward.
- Getting what you want: You have that extra drive to actually pursue what feels good or meaningful to you. It’s a “just go for it” kind of transit.
- Making peace: Venus loves harmony, so if you’ve had past arguments or tension, this could be a time to smooth things out, but with honesty and directness (thanks to Mars).
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Conjunct to Natal Mars
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: Things get gutsy and bold. You feel way more direct and quick to make a move, especially in love and creative stuff. There’s a lot of heat and a “just go for it” vibe.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: Everything slows way down. You crave comfort, good food, and physical closeness. You want real, lasting connections and pleasures you can touch and taste.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Flirty, chatty energy is everywhere. You want to connect with people through conversation, jokes, and maybe a playful debate. It’s less about commitment, more about fun and variety.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: You get extra crave-y for affection and emotional warmth. It’s all about feeling safe, cared for, and making real heart-to-heart bonds.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: You want attention, romance, and a little drama. There’s a big, sparkly energy to your actions- you might go big with gestures or want to show off a bit.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: Details matter now. You’ll want to do thoughtful, practical things for others and feel closer through acts of service. Little gestures mean a lot.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: Things feel smoother and sweeter- you’re all about fairness, charm, and harmony in your connections. Teamwork and balanced vibes win.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensity turns way up. You want deep, passionate connections that feel a bit magnetic, maybe even obsessive. Surface-level won’t cut it.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: Energy gets adventurous and free. You want to explore, try new things, or maybe take a little trip. Honesty and fun are what draw you in.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You get more serious, practical, and goal-oriented. You want your actions and relationships to lead somewhere real, maybe even long-term plans.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Unconventional stuff seems super attractive right now. You want freedom in love, plus lots of room for new ideas, group stuff, and weird adventures.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Emotions go dreamy and romantic. You’ll want magic, imagination, and deep soul connections. There’s a soft, forgiving energy around, like you’re seeing the world with rose-colored glasses.