Dreamy romance.
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus conjunct Neptune transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t make big romantic decisions- your feelings might be clouded by fantasy.
- Avoid getting into new relationships suddenly- things can seem more magical than they really are.
- Don’t spend a lot of money on art, beauty products, or luxury items- it’s easy to buy stuff you don’t need or regret your choices later.
- Try not to ignore red flags in friendships or love- you might be seeing people through rose-colored glasses.
- Steer clear of risky financial investments or get-rich-quick schemes- things could be too good to be true.
- Don’t procrastinate on important responsibilities, especially if you get caught up daydreaming.
- Avoid using substances or alcohol to escape reality- your boundaries might be lower now.
- Don’t believe everything you hear- double-check facts before trusting someone’s promises or stories.
Do During This Transit
- Let yourself dream- this is a sweet time for daydreaming and using your imagination.
- Get creative- paint, write, make music, or do any kind of art that helps you express your feelings.
- Soak up beauty- visit a museum, listen to music, or just enjoy a sunset.
- Be kind and compassionate- do something nice for someone, even if it’s just a small gesture.
- Connect with your spiritual side- try meditating, journaling, or spending quiet time in nature.
- Listen to your intuition- trust your gut when it comes to relationships and big decisions.
- Romance is in the air- if you have a crush or partner, plan a dreamy date or write a heartfelt note.
- Take care with boundaries- be gentle with yourself but try not to get lost in fantasy or let others take advantage.
- Pay attention to your dreams at night- they might have important messages now.
- Enjoy water- take a relaxing bath, swim, or just spend time near water to clear your mind.
What’s Interesting About This Transit
- Unusual inspiration in the arts: According to Alan Leo’s Astrology for All (first published 1899), Venus conjunct natal Neptune may signify sudden bursts of musical or poetic genius, even in people who haven’t shown these talents before. Leo said, “An unskilled hand may, for a brief season, dance lightly over the keys or wield the brush in a dreamlike manner.”
- Involvement in secret societies or esoteric groups: In The Manual of Astrology (Comte C. de Saint-Germain, 1901), this transit was linked to a heightened attraction to mystical fraternities, secret societies, or gatherings devoted to art and spiritualism. Members might feel drawn to hidden or exclusive circles just now.
- Fascination with perfumes and exotic scents: Sepharial wrote in The Manual of Astrology: The Standard Work (1909) that this aspect “may awaken a peculiar taste for perfumes, odours, or rare unguents,” and even spark a temporary business dealing with such items, owing to Neptune’s ties to etheric substances.
- Increased vulnerability to scams involving luxury or romance: Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson in Here and There in Astrology (1961) warned this conjunction can bring a tendency to believe in “rosy but unreliable promises from those who appear charming,” so one should be wary of tricksters during this time- especially those peddling love or lavish ventures.
- Temporary romantic ideals projected onto unlikely figures: Charles E.O. Carter mentioned in his Principles of Astrology (1925) that Venus-Neptune combinations can “induce a tendency to envelop wholly inappropriate persons in a nimbus of admiration,” possibly causing embarrassment or amusing stories in hindsight.
- Sensitivity to glamour, pageantry, and ‘glittery’ events: Llewellyn George, in A to Z Horoscope Maker and Delineator (1910), noted that this transit could make one “exceedingly responsive to spectacles, pageants, and gatherings of brilliant display which otherwise would go unheeded.” People might suddenly seek out plays, ballets, or artistic shows.
- Dreamlike states during ordinary social situations: Fomalhaut, a lesser-known early 20th-century astrologer, wrote in The Influence of the Stars (1926): “Venus aspecting Neptune renders the native prone to waking dreams whilst among companions, as if part of the company yet alone amid clouds of reverie.”
- Odd sleep patterns influenced by music: In Astrology and Its Practical Application (Henrietta Mason, 1923), the author ascribed to this transit “a tendency to blend the rituals of bedtime with serenades or listening to music, so that sleep is intertwined with tangible harmonies or melodies.”
- Tendency to regard ordinary things as ‘enchanted’: Evangeline Adams, in her late 19th-century practice, was quoted as saying this transit can make “commonplace objects invest with strange allure,” causing people to “delight in soap bubbles, candied violets, or moonlit glassware.”
Experiencing This Transit
When Venus moves over your Neptune, you’re in for a vibe that’s romantic, dreamy, and maybe a bit confusing too. Your senses get turned up, and everything might feel extra beautiful or magical. You might get lost in music, movies, art, or just your own imagination. Reality can feel a bit slippery, like you’re seeing the world through a soft-focus filter.
This energy isn’t about facts- it’s all about feelings, daydreams, and the gentle stuff you usually keep in the background. You might find yourself wishing for “perfect love” or getting obsessed with someone or something that just feels really ideal… maybe even a little too good to be true.
Challenges during this transit
- You’re more easily fooled. People might seem more charming or romantic than they really are, and it’s easy to believe what you want instead of what’s actually happening. You could get swept up in a love story- maybe with someone who’s not as genuine as they seem.
- It’s common to spend too much- money on clothes, art, music, or experiences that feel magical, even if you can’t afford them. Your sense of practical value slips.
- Sometimes you might gloss over problems in your relationships, or ignore red flags, just because you want the fantasy instead of the truth.
- If you’re creative, you might actually get overwhelmed by ideas or inspiration, and not know how to channel it all- it can be a bit paralyzing.
- There can be a heightened risk of escapism- like using alcohol, sleeping too much, or just zoning out instead of facing stuff that needs attention.
Opportunities during this transit
- You can fall in love with art, nature, or a creative project- and honestly, you might make something beautiful or totally original. This is fantastic transit for writing poetry, painting, singing, or anything that lets you escape the regular world.
- Your compassion and empathy are dialed up, so it’s a really lovely time to help others or connect on a deeper level with people who need kindness.
- Romance can feel way more magical- or at the very least, “movie-like.” If you’re already in a relationship, sharing music, dreams, or even just walking under the stars could bring you much closer.
- If you’re into meditation, prayer, or spiritual stuff, it’s way easier to get in the zone right now. Insights and inspiration seem to appear out of nowhere, and intuition is super strong.
- This is also a great time to forgive people or just let stuff go- you’re more able to see the best in everyone, including yourself.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Conjunct to Natal Neptune
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: You might feel dreamy about bold new crushes or artistic projects, often falling for wild ideas or people who seem exciting and different.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: The fantasy goes into overdrive about pleasure and physical comfort, so you may daydream about that perfect romance or indulge in luxurious treats.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Your imagination jumps into social and intellectual connections, so you could get lost in charming words or build up online flings in your head.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotional sensitivity is increased, making you romanticize home life or get lost in memories, daydreaming about heartfelt bonds and family warmth.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: Dramatic fantasies take center stage, so you might get swept away by crushes or creative ideas that feel glamorous and larger than life.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You might romanticize self-improvement or acts of service, wishing for an idealized, “perfect” love or obsessing over every little detail in relationships.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: Fantasies about harmony and beautiful connections flourish, and you may dream up “storybook” love scenarios or idealize friendships more than usual.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Obsessive or secret crushes might take hold, with imagination fixated on intense bonds, mysteries, or forbidden love stories.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You could get swept up in visions of adventurous romance, fantasize about travel, or fall for someone with a totally different background.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You might idealize stability and commitment, dreaming of building a perfect future or getting lost in the thought of a trustworthy, accomplished partner.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Quirky or unconventional relationships seem extra appealing, and you could find yourself fantasizing about friendships or love that breaks all the rules.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: The dreaminess gets turned way up- super romantic, creative, and sensitive vibes- making you want to escape into fantasy and idealize your connections more than ever.