Transit Venus Opposite Natal Mercury

Mixed messages in love and communication

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus opposite Mercury transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t have big, important conversations about love or money- you might misunderstand each other.
• Avoid making major purchases, especially if they’re beauty or luxury items. You might regret it later.
• Try not to gossip or spread rumors; words can get twisted more easily right now.
• Don’t sign contracts that involve relationships, art, or finances unless you double-check every detail.
• Avoid flirting with people who are already taken or where there’s confusion- you could end up in drama.
• Don’t make snap judgments about others, especially in texts or online; it’s too easy to misread things.
• Try not to force your opinions onto friends or partners, even if you feel you’re right.
• Don’t ignore feelings- yours or someone else’s- even if talking about them feels awkward.
• Avoid dishing out or taking critiques about your looks or style; people are extra sensitive to comments now.
• Don’t book cosmetic procedures or make impulsive changes to your appearance- you might not like the results.

Do During This Transit

• Work on creative writing – Your mind is buzzing with ideas, especially around love, art, and beauty. Jot them down or start a new creative project.
• Have heart-to-heart conversations – It’s a good time to talk about emotions, even if it’s a tough subject. You might find new ways to connect through honest chats.
• Listen to music or enjoy art – Let yourself be inspired by beautiful things. Visit a gallery, listen to your favorite songs, or make art yourself.
• Practice patience during misunderstandings – Miscommunication can pop up now, so slow down and make sure you’re hearing others clearly.
• Apologize or forgive – Venus helps bring more kindness, so say sorry if you’ve been meaning to, or let go of an old grudge.
• Focus on diplomacy – It’s a good time to smooth things over and find compromises, at school, work, or home.
• Send sweet messages – Write a love note, text, or even a thoughtful email to someone you care about. It’ll be well received!
• Try not to gossip or overthink – Tempting as it is, steer clear of negative chatter and spinning out about what others say.
• Notice your own thoughts about relationships – Take a little time to reflect on how you talk to yourself about love and friendships.
• Be open to feedback – Others might offer insight that helps you grow, even if it’s unexpected.

What’s interesting about this transit?

• Some old astrology texts say Venus opposite Mercury can make a person unusually fond of clever wordplay and secret riddles. There’s a boost to “the mercantile sense,” where folks might enjoy bargaining or trading more than usual, but not always honestly!
• Medieval astrologers believed this transit could bring “entanglements in the affairs of women,” meaning that news or gossip about women in your circle might cause headaches or confusion.
• It’s said this aspect stirs up “sweet lies and poisoned flattery.” Past astrologers warned that people may use charming words to deceive, or you might be tempted to fudge the truth trying to keep the peace.
• Some ancient writers flagged a tendency to “sing out of key,” literally and metaphorically. They thought you might misjudge tone or timing- either in expressing your feelings or in making jokes that fall flat.
• In certain medieval interpretations, Venus opposite Mercury meant “letters lost or love poems misunderstood.” Messages (especially romantic ones) can go astray, or what you meant as flirtation might get lost in translation.
• Another old-school note: this transit was thought to make contracts, formal deals, or even wedding vows more prone to errors or second thoughts, so scribes and lovers alike were advised to be extra careful!

Experiencing This Transit

When Venus is opposite your natal Mercury, your heart and your head don’t always agree. You might crave friendly chats and pretty words, but communication with others could get weird, confusing, or just off-balance. Old feelings could bubble up, or you may find yourself drawn to beautiful ideas, but struggle to make sense of them. It’s like your logical side and your social, loving side are pulling in different directions.

Challenges during this transit

• Mixed signals: You might say something light, but it lands the wrong way, or you misinterpret what someone else really means. For example, a flirty message could be taken as sarcasm, or a joke is misunderstood.
• Difficulty focusing: Your mind may wander to sweet daydreams when you need to be serious. Maybe you get distracted by love interests or social media during work or study.
• People-pleasing tendencies: Sometimes you might agree just to keep others happy, even if you don’t really mean it. This can show up as making promises you don’t want to keep or saying “yes” when you really want to say “no.”
• Awkward conversations: Important talks about relationships, money, or emotions might get awkward or tense. You could find yourself at odds with people who matter, struggling to get your point across.
• Over-analyzing compliments: If someone flatters or praises you, you may second-guess if they’re sincere. Reverse could happen- your compliments might be doubted.

Opportunities during this transit

• Creative writing and art: Your imagination gets a boost, especially in writing love letters, poetry, or making art. Even if you’re not an artist, this is a great time to express yourself with words or colors!
• Learning about relationships: You can see patterns in how you and others communicate about love, money, or values. Maybe you realize you always avoid certain subjects- or that small misunderstandings have bigger roots.
• Clever negotiations: If you need to bargain, make a deal, or work out compromises, Venus and Mercury facing off actually help you see both sides, even if it gets a little tricky.
• Opening up to new viewpoints: Conversations can open your eyes to new ideas, especially around beauty, love, harmony, and fairness. You may end up seeing someone’s point of view in a totally fresh way.
• Strengthening friendships: If you can laugh about minor mix-ups, this is a good time to play games, send silly messages, or just enjoy being a little goofy with friends.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Opposite to Natal Mercury

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries:
  You might blurt things out, act first and think later. Conversations can feel fiery or impulsive, with a tendency to be direct (sometimes a little too direct!).
• Transiting Venus in Taurus:
  You’re likely to dig in your heels during disagreements. Discussions could get bogged down if you or others refuse to budge. Might crave comfort or treats as a way to smooth over mental stress.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini:
  There’s extra chatter, social media, and texting. You might find it hard to focus, with your attention bouncing in ten directions. Get ready for clever quips, flirty words, or even misunderstandings due to scattered thinking.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer:
  Emotions can color what you say or how you hear others. There’s a pull toward talking about memories or feelings, and you may feel thin-skinned if others sound critical.
• Transiting Venus in Leo:
  Everything’s a bit more dramatic! You may crave attention for your ideas or want applause for expressing yourself. Small disputes can turn theatrical; don’t take things too personally.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo:
  You’ll focus on the details and might become critical or picky with words. It’s easy to get annoyed by sloppy thinking or poor manners; try not to overanalyze every conversation.
• Transiting Venus in Libra:
  You’ll aim to keep things nice- even if there’s tension. You might want to smooth things over instead of tackling issues head-on, which can lead to some avoidance or indecision.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio:
  Conversations go deep, and you can get obsessive or jealous about certain topics. There can be a desire to get to the bottom of things, but watch out for intensity or mind games.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius:
  There’s a restless urge for honesty and freedom. You might blurt out your truth or want to debate beliefs. Try not to get preachy- others might not appreciate your bluntness.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn:
  You’ll weigh the practical side of things in conversation. It’s easier to talk business or discuss plans, but emotions might feel a bit distant. Keep things real and respectful.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius:
  You’re more open to weird ideas or group chats, but conversations can feel detached or intellectual. You may rebel against routine or predictable points of view.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces:
  There’s a dreamy or artistic flavor, and messages can be vague or confusing. Compassion grows for others’ opinions, but boundaries blur- be careful of white lies or mixed signals.