Transit Venus Opposite Natal Venus

Love tug-of-war

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus opposite Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t start a new romantic relationship- you might not see things clearly, and attraction can be confusing now.
• Avoid making big decisions about love or relationships, like moving in together or breaking up. Feelings can be all over the place.
• Try not to overspend, especially on beauty, clothes, or luxury items. You might regret impulse buys later.
• Don’t get too caught up in trying to please everyone or sacrificing your own needs for others.
• Avoid jumping to conclusions about people’s intentions- someone’s actions might not mean what you think they do.
• It’s best not to borrow or lend money, especially to friends or people you have a crush on.
• Don’t ignore your own boundaries, just to avoid conflict or keep the peace.
• Try not to rely too much on flattery or charm to solve problems. It’s easy to miscommunicate now.
• Avoid big changes in your appearance (like drastic haircuts or tattoos)- you might not be happy with the result later.
• Don’t try to force harmony where there’s real disagreement. Sometimes it’s okay not to agree with everyone.

Do During This Transit

• Reflect on your relationships- think about what you want and need from others.
• Have honest conversations with partners or friends about your feelings.
• Work on finding more balance between giving and receiving love.
• Re-evaluate your values, especially around love, money, and what makes you happy.
• Give yourself a little extra self-care (pamper yourself, do something enjoyable just for you).
• Let go of old patterns that aren’t working in your relationships anymore.
• Try a new creative project or pick up an old hobby you loved.
• Notice any issues or tension in partnerships- use this time to understand where they come from.
• Make space for both your needs and your loved ones’ needs in your daily life.
• Be open to learning something new about yourself through your interactions with others.

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What’s interesting about this transit?

Venus opposite Venus is a classic time for matters of love, beauty, and harmony to stir things up, but let’s dive into some pretty obscure takes from the old astrologers:

• “The Mirror’s Rivalry”: In some older Renaissance texts, this transit was called the season of the dueling mirrors. They believed you’d meet people who either reflected your desires or totally clashed with them, sometimes making you question what you really like or value.
• “The Disruption of Girdle and Garland”: Some Hellenistic astrologers thought Venus oppositions meant losing a token from a lover- like a ring, scarf, or letter- and needing to replace it with something new, symbolizing a change in affections or tastes.
• “The Two-Color Candle”: In medieval astrology, it’s written that you’ll be drawn toward people or things that are opposite your usual ‘type’. So, if you usually love quiet, gentle folks, you might suddenly find yourself infatuated with someone loud and wild (and vice versa).
• “The Weighing of Fruits”: Old texts, especially from Arabic influences, suggested this transit brought “tasting fruits from another’s basket”- meaning you’d want to try what others enjoy, just to see if it fits you, even if your tastes have never lined up before.
• “Venus’s Shadow Hour”: Some sources warned this is when you can get dazzled by “false gold”: something (or someone) looks perfect, but isn’t as great up close. The lesson is about learning discernment in pleasure and attraction.

Experiencing This Transit

When Venus in the sky is opposite your natal Venus, it can feel like your heart and your desires are being pulled in two different directions. You might feel more social, flirty, or restless, but you’re also less likely to feel satisfied or completely at ease in your relationships and pleasures. It’s as if what you want now is somehow not what you wanted before- with the result that you crave more connection, but might not always go about it in the ways that actually satisfy you.

Challenges During This Transit

• Romantic Disagreements: If you’re in a relationship, you and your partner might have different ideas about what makes you happy right now. You want to go out, they want to stay home (or vice versa). Couple’s plans don’t line up, and it’s easy to feel a little disconnected.
• Taste Swings: You could find yourself drawn to people or activities you’re not usually into, and then feel confused or even regretful afterward. Ever had a flirty chat that seemed fun in the moment but made things awkward later? That’s this energy.
• Indecision: With Venus pulling in two directions, you might waffle over small choices: pizza or pasta? Spend or save? Be social or hermit? It’s hard to pick, and you might second-guess everything.
• Overspending: There’s a risk of trying to fill that restless craving with shopping or treats, but what you buy might not end up making you happy for long.
• Jealousy or Comparisons: You might look at what others have- especially in relationships or style- and feel a little envious or like you’re missing out.

Opportunities During This Transit

• Fresh Perspectives in Love: You might see your own needs and desires from a new angle. Maybe you realize you want more from a partner- or from yourself- than you thought.
• Trying New Things: This is a stellar time to experiment with new hobbies, foods, art, music, or even outfits. Sometimes the “opposite” of what you’re used to ends up being just what you need.
• Clearing Out What Doesn’t Work: If you’ve been holding onto a friendship, habit, or style just because it once made you happy, now’s when you might have the guts to let it go and search for new pleasure elsewhere.
• Better Boundaries: This transit can teach you the difference between what you want and what others expect of you. Learning to say “no” can be empowering!
• Creative Inspiration: Feeling a little “off” can actually make you more creative. Artists and writers often get a burst of fresh ideas during Venus oppositions, especially if they let themselves play with beauty that’s outside their comfort zone.
• Cheaper Thrills: Sometimes, the uncertainty leads to finding simple joys in unexpected places- a dollar-store treasure, a quick picnic, a spontaneous dance party in your kitchen.

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How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Opposite to Natal Venus

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: You might feel super impatient or impulsive in love and social stuff during this transit. You could get more direct or competitive, maybe even start chasing after what (or who) you want.
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: Comfort and security are huge for you right now. You’ll probably want things to be stable and might find yourself treating yourself to nice food, music, or just something cozy.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: Flirty, talkative energy! You might crave mental stimulation, get easily bored, or want to connect with others through chatting, flirting, or just hanging out with witty people.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: You’ll probably feel extra sensitive, maybe a bit nostalgic. Family and close friends matter more and you could want more emotional safety and deeper bonds.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: Attention, romance, and drama could be supercharged! You might want to express yourself in bold ways, show off, or feel a need for affection and admiration.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: You could be pickier or more analytical about relationships. There’s a chance you’ll want to fix minor problems or focus on acts of service and practical love.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: You’ll want good vibes, balance, and harmony, maybe more than usual. Relationships feel extra important and you might bend over backwards to keep things sweet.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensity, jealousy, or deep passion could show up. You might crave deep emotional or physical connections, and casual stuff probably won’t interest you much right now.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You’re more adventurous and restless. You could look for fun, freedom, and maybe want to meet new people, try new experiences, or do something out of the ordinary.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Relationships and money get serious. You might focus on commitment, responsibility, or set new boundaries, wanting things to be more stable and structured.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Friendships, personal freedom, and trying something different are appealing now. You could be drawn to unusual people or want more space within relationships.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: You become more dreamy, romantic, and sensitive. You might get lost in fantasies, feel super compassionate, or want that magical, soul-deep connection with others.