Transit Venus Quincunx Natal Mars

Awkward passion adjustments

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus quincunx Mars transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t pick fights with your partner or close friends- tempers can flare and misunderstandings might get out of hand.
• Avoid making impulsive decisions about relationships or money- things might seem urgent, but your judgment could be off.
• Stay away from overindulging in pleasures, like spending too much or partying too hard- you might regret it later.
• Try not to ignore your own needs just to keep the peace- resentment can build up without you even noticing.
• Don’t start new romantic relationships or intense flirtations right now- they’re more likely to be based on frustration, not real connection.
• Skip risky physical activities or sports if you’re feeling tense; accidents are more likely when your energy is scattered.
• Don’t bottle up your frustrations- find a healthy way to express them instead of letting them explode at the wrong time.
• Avoid making ultimatums or pressing for big changes in your love life- you might regret pushing too hard or too fast.
• Try not to lash out if you feel rejected or unappreciated; give yourself and others space to breathe and cool off.

Do During This Transit

• Take a break before reacting to conflicts- your emotions and actions might not line up smoothly, so pause before acting on impulse.
• Reevaluate how you go after what you want in relationships- notice if you’re being too pushy or too passive.
• Try out a new way of expressing your feelings, whether it’s through art, writing, or just saying things a bit differently.
• Use this time to tweak your self-care routine, especially if you’ve been overdoing it or neglecting yourself.
• Have honest but gentle talks if romantic or sexual frustrations pop up. This transit can make things feel off, but it’s a good time for open communication.
• Start a creative project that lets you play with both beauty (Venus) and action (Mars)- like dance, photography, or sports with a fun twist.
• Practice patience if you’re feeling restless. Channel extra energy into something productive, like organizing or exercising.
• Set new boundaries if you’ve been saying yes too much just to keep the peace.
• Experiment with your style- try wearing something bold or different, even if it’s just for fun.
• Notice any patterns where your desire for harmony clashes with your need to assert yourself, and brainstorm ways to balance both.

What’s interesting about this transit?

• Venus Quincunx Mars in Medieval Astrology: Some old sources say this aspect creates a “discordant sweetness,” where pleasure and passion are at odds- like wanting honey on a sword. People acted in ways that secretly made their own goals harder to reach, usually without realizing.
• Paracelsus’s Culpeper Variation: A rare interpretation suggests it stirs “restless blood,” making a person prone to sudden surges of infatuation or impatience in lovemaking, which often fizzles fast and leaves confusion behind.
• Al-Biruni’s Hidden Drive: The 11th-century astrologer wrote that Venus quincunx Mars incites a secret wish to mend quarrels with acts of indulgence- sometimes giving gifts to patch up conflicts, or impulsively seeking comfort food or sensual pleasures for distraction.
• Seventeenth-Century Misalliance: Early modern astrologers believed this transit sometimes brought “the union of odd pairs,” making folks attracted to people or experiences they normally wouldn’t choose- almost as if the universe wanted to shake things up a bit.
• Esoteric Incongruity: Some Hermetic texts mention that this aspect opens up small cracks in relationships that are fixed or routine, letting in a restless kind of energy that disrupts harmony just enough to force growth.

Experiencing This Transit

When Venus makes a quincunx (or inconjunct) aspect to your natal Mars, things can get a bit awkward- especially around love, relationships, and how you go after what you want. Venus is all about harmony, beauty, and affection, while Mars is about drive, desire, and sometimes aggression. The quincunx angle (150°) makes them talk past each other, kind of like they’re on different radio stations. You might feel torn between being nice and going after what you want, and it can be confusing!

Challenges during this transit

• Mixed Signals: You might show your interest in someone, but it comes out all wrong- like being super flirty but also accidentally making an offhand comment that kills the mood.
• Impulse vs. Harmony: You can get sudden urges (thanks to Mars) to say or do things for pleasure (Venus). But then, you almost regret it right after, or realize your actions didn’t really bring you the comfort or fun you wanted.
• Awkward Timing in Relationships: One moment you feel affectionate; the next, you’re irritated or restless. You can want closeness and independence almost in the same breath- which confuses both you and the people around you.
• Motivation Lags: Getting started on stuff you should enjoy (like art, social events, even sex) can feel like more work than it should. Your passions and your pleasures aren’t lining up right now.
• Sensitivities: You might get unusually offended by things that normally wouldn’t bother you, or you might overcompensate by trying too hard to please others.

Opportunities during this transit

• Creative Problem Solving: Stress between Venus and Mars often shows you old habits that are ready for a shake up. You might suddenly figure out a new way to handle disagreements- maybe with a funny comment or by switching up your date night routine.
• Breaking Patterns: This transit is pretty good for realizing when you’ve been stuck in the same-old-same-old in relationships, style, or even your workout routine- and making a weird but positive change.
• Getting Honest with Yourself: You might notice what you really want in love or collaboration, instead of just going with what’s easy or “nice.” That awkward disconnect can show you what’s actually missing.
• Unusual Attractions: You’re more likely to be drawn to new types of people or experiences, and sometimes the random-seeming connections you make now can become important later.
• Learning Balance: If you pay attention to how your actions (Mars) affect your relationships or pleasures (Venus), you can get better at finding a balance between what you want and what feels good for everyone involved.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Quincunx to Natal Mars

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: Sparks get extra fiery! You might feel more impulsive in love and arguments, taking bold risks but struggling to slow down and consider your partner’s needs.
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: The desire for comfort and stability battles with restless energy. You might want to chill, but things (or people) keep pushing your buttons.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: Flirtiness and playful vibes intensify miscommunications. You may feel pulled in too many directions or say things you can’t really back up.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions run high, and there’s a tug-of-war between wanting emotional security and sudden urges to break free or act out.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: You might crave more attention or dramatic affection, but pride and stubbornness can turn little issues into big power struggles.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: You could feel critical about your desires or your partner’s actions, making it hard to relax and enjoy the moment. Small annoyances get magnified.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: You’re all about keeping things fair and balanced, but Mars brings up stuff that throws things off-kilter, making compromise trickier than usual.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Everything’s super intense. Jealousy or possessiveness might flare up, and you’ll probably want answers or passion over peace.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You may crave freedom, excitement, and adventure, but impulsivity can spark disagreements or make it hard to stay committed to plans.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Responsibility and ambition color your interactions. You might struggle with balancing work and pleasure or feel frustrated when things don’t go as planned.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You want things your way and aren’t in the mood for clinginess. Surprise twists or sudden mood swings can make things feel unpredictable.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: There’s a dreamy, romantic vibe, but confusion about what you really want (or what others expect) can create misunderstandings or mixed signals.