Transit Venus Quincunx Natal Venus

Awkward relationship adjustments

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus quincunx Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t make big decisions about relationships or love- things can feel a bit “off” right now.
• Avoid spending a lot of money on beauty, clothes, or anything just to “feel better”- impulse buys are more likely.
• Don’t try to force affection or push for more attention from your partner or crush; you might feel needy or misunderstood.
• Steer clear of starting new romantic relationships or big projects with friends- it’s easy to get mixed signals or feel out of sync.
• Avoid bringing up sensitive topics about love, self-esteem, or appearance- insecurities can pop up easily during this transit.
• Don’t ignore your own needs just to keep the peace or make others happy; there’s a tendency to over-compromise now.
• Be careful with your social calendar- don’t overcommit to events or gatherings if you’re not really feeling it.
• Put off changing your look with drastic haircuts, makeovers, or new styles- you might regret it once the energy shifts.
• Don’t compare yourself to others, especially on social media- it’s pretty easy to feel “less than” right now.
• Try not to judge your feelings too harshly- wait until this transit passes before deciding how you really feel.

Do During This Transit

• Take a closer look at your relationships- notice any weird tension or little misunderstandings, and try to talk them out gently.
• Re-evaluate what you want versus what someone else wants, especially when it comes to romance or friendships.
• Experiment with small changes in your personal style (like clothes, hair, or makeup) if you’re feeling out of sync with your look.
• Adjust how you spend your money- maybe pause before splurging, and see if your priorities have shifted.
• Do some self-care, even if it feels awkward or unfamiliar right now.
• Get creative: try new art, music, or creative hobbies, especially if you feel “off” about your usual tastes.
• Ask yourself what really makes you feel valued or loved- journal about it or talk it over with a trusted friend.
• Practice patience- with yourself and others, since everyone (including you) might be feeling a bit “out of step.”
• Give yourself permission to feel a little uncomfortable; it’s totally normal for this transit and things will shift soon.

What’s interesting about this transit?

• Back in the Renaissance, Venus quincunx Venus got called an “inconvenient mirror” – meaning your taste or affections show you a weird, almost funhouse version of yourself. You see your likes and personal style in odd ways, like they’ve been twisted or put out of place.
• Some old Persian astrologers said this kind of Venus aspect was the “mask of nostalgia” – you might feel drawn to weird old habits, past lovers, or even long-forgotten crushes. You crave something you can’t quite name, or feel a longing that doesn’t make sense.
• From some early 20th-century texts: This transit was called a “blindfolded dance.” You want harmony, but worldly stuff just isn’t fitting together. Wants feel out of reach, and little pleasures don’t satisfy in their usual way.
• Ancient Greeks sometimes called the quincunx the “stranger’s handshake.” With Venus involved, this meant that affection or relationships could feel foreign, uncomfortable, or even awkward, like you’re meeting your own heart for the first time.
• Medieval astrology sometimes tied this aspect to “awkward inheritances.” This suggested you might receive something (attention, gifts, affection) that doesn’t fit your values, or get pulled into situations that don’t match what you actually want.

Experiencing This Transit

When transiting Venus forms a quincunx (also called inconjunct) aspect to your natal Venus, things around love, money, and personal taste can feel sort of “off.” It’s just 150 degrees – so it’s not a super dramatic clash, but it’s uncomfortable, and you can’t quite put your finger on why. What you want and what you get don’t match up. Your usual charm feels out of sync, and it’s easy to second-guess what you actually like or who you actually want.

It’s common during this period to want sweetness or smiles from life but get mixed signals. You might go shopping (or go on a date, or try to make friends)… and come home with something that doesn’t fit. People sometimes react oddly, or you get gifts or compliments that miss the mark. Your inner sense of beauty and harmony, and the world’s response to it, just aren’t on quite the same page.

Challenges during this transit

• Mixed signals in love & friendship: You might be drawn toward someone, but linger on what feels “off” or mismatched. Maybe you’re crushing on a friend but the vibe isn’t right, or an old flame reappears but you only feel so-so about it.
• Strange cravings: That “mask of nostalgia” can mean you find yourself missing a person, thing, or place you haven’t thought about in years – and you can’t figure out why.
• Shopping regrets: This transit is notorious for “buyer’s remorse.” You might pick something out of impulse only to realize later that it’s just not your style at all.
• Awkward social moments: You might be trying to be nice and end up misunderstood, or you get offers and invitations that don’t really excite you. People don’t seem to “get” your usual charm.
• Creative confusion: If you’re an artist or musician, this vibe can make it hard to finish things. What you create now can feel “almost” right, but never quite hit the mark you want.

Opportunities during this transit

• Discover new sides of attraction: You might notice you’re drawn to different looks, hobbies, music, or even people than usual. Sometimes, these are surprising – and can bring new sparks into your orbit.
• Grow from discomfort: Noticing what doesn’t fit can actually teach you loads about what does fit. Lean into the awkwardness, and you could develop stronger personal taste or set new boundaries in love or friendship.
• Let go of what doesn’t feel right: The weirdness can help you realize there are some habits, items, or relationships you’ve only kept around out of routine. It’s a good time to clear them out.
• Creative breakaways: If you’re stuck in a creative rut, try using the confusion to experiment. Odd combinations can pop up now – you might stumble into a new style, song, or art form that surprises you!
• Stronger self-awareness: Sometimes, seeing all the “almosts” helps you finally clarify your authentic wants – which pays off in the long run.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Quincunx to Natal Venus

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: You’re extra eager for excitement and might jump into impulsive flings or spend money too quickly. Restlessness can make dealing with relationship awkwardness more urgent and impatient.
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: Comfort and stability are big deals now, so any discomfort or mismatch in love or tastes feels extra annoying. You’ll lean toward stubbornness about what you want.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: Flirtiness and curiosity add to the confusion, and you might try to talk things out, but end up sending mixed signals. Distractions are everywhere and you may feel restless.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: You’re more sensitive during this transit, and emotional needs feel trickier than usual. Home and family stuff can get tangled up with relationship weirdness.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: Drama and big feelings surface- you want romance and attention, but misunderstandings or clashing expectations could make things feel extra dramatic.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: Tiny issues bug you more, and you might get nitpicky in love or with money. Making things “just right” is hard, so it’s easy to get frustrated by imperfect situations.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: You crave harmony, but the awkwardness from the quincunx feels super uncomfortable. You may bend over backwards for peace, or overthink every little thing in relationships.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensity cranks up and jealousy or trust issues might bubble up. Secrets or hidden feelings could make the disconnect sharper and more emotional.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You’re itching for freedom and adventure, so anything that feels limiting in love or money really gets under your skin. You’ll want space to explore and experiment.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Practical concerns and goals take over, and you might feel torn between what you want and what’s “responsible.” Relationship or financial quirks stress you out more than usual.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You feel the urge to shake things up and do your own thing. You’re less patient with routine, and odd social situations or unexpected preferences pop up.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: Emotions get blurry and it’s hard to know exactly what you want or need. Confusion or idealization can pull you in different directions during this already awkward time.