Transit Venus Sextile Natal Mars

Flirty energy boost

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus sextile Mars transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t dive into a new romantic fling just for the thrill- passion feels high, but impulsive choices could backfire later.
• Try not to act out of jealousy or possessiveness, especially in relationships. Emotions run hot now, so it’s easy to overreact.
• Avoid starting arguments just to get attention or to stir things up. Venus sextile Mars gives charm, but unnecessary drama can ruin the vibe.
• Resist overspending on things you don’t need, especially for beauty, clothes, or romantic gestures. The urge to splurge is strong!
• Don’t promise more than you can deliver, especially if you’re feeling super confident. Keep it real and honest.
• Try not to let sexual tension push you into situations you’re not truly comfortable with. Don’t rush your boundaries.
• Skip taking big risks in love or creative projects without planning. Follow your inspiration, but don’t be reckless.
• Don’t ignore your feelings to please others- Venus wants harmony, but Mars needs honesty. Balance is key.
• Avoid competing with friends or partners just to “win”; cooperate instead of turning everything into a contest.
• Try not to get too self-centered; it’s easy to focus on your wants and forget about others’ needs.

Do During This Transit

• Ask someone out or make a romantic move – your charm is strong now!
• Start a creative project or hobby, especially anything artsy or hands-on.
• Work out, dance, or try some new kind of physical activity – you’ll have extra energy and probably enjoy it more.
• Patch things up with someone or improve a close relationship; it’s easier to be both kind and direct now.
• Upgrade your look, try new clothes, or play with your style – you’ll feel confident and get good reactions.
• Collaborate or team up on a project at work or school – it’s a great time for teamwork and making things happen.
• Take a risk on something you’re passionate about, like a talent or idea you’ve been holding back on.
• Set healthy boundaries or ask for what you want in relationships – you’ll find the right words and people will listen.
• Plan a little getaway or a social event – you’re likely to draw in fun people and good vibes.
• Express your feelings openly, especially if it’s something positive or affectionate. People are more open to you during this transit.

What’s interesting about this transit?

• Ancient texts sometimes called Venus sextile Mars the “Peacemaker’s Blaze,” because it was thought to spark healthy competition but resolve heated arguments by softening tempers- basically, old astrologers said it melts away “the edge of iron with the dew of morning.”
• Some old Arabic and Persian astrologers believed this transit enhances talent for sweet-talking or persuasive bargaining- especially in markets or trade. They’d advise making deals or purchases, expecting “luck in the measure and fair words at the scales.”
• One medieval scholar wrote that this was a “day for planting,” saying seeds sown or partnerships begun under Venus sextile Mars would “grow vigorous and sweet, flourishing where others wither.” So, it was considered good timing for starting anything you wanted to last.
• Certain Renaissance astrologers claimed artists would find their hands “embraced by the muse,” and that anything involving music, dance, or physical expression would just flow easier- literally calling it “the hour of the body’s grace.”
• Some rare sources suggest that Venus sextile Mars could be a time when “competitions are kind,” meaning rivals become friends, or old enemies can become allies, because desire (Mars) and pleasure (Venus) work together instead of against each other.

Experiencing This Transit

When Venus makes a sextile to your natal Mars, life just feels a little bit smoother, like you’re walking into a room and suddenly people smile a little more, or you find it easier to get what you want without all the usual resistance. This is a creative and energizing transit, where your charm (Venus) and your drive (Mars) start playing on the same team. You can feel more adventurous, flirty, outgoing, and comfortable going after your desires- whether that’s romance, art, business, or just more fun.

You might notice you’re more into social stuff, or maybe you’re motivated to finish creative projects that let you express yourself physically or artistically. It can feel like you’ve got a little more “spark” and people just respond well to your energy.

Challenges during this transit

• Because things flow easily, you might get a little lazy and just expect good stuff to land in your lap- not realizing you still have to ask for what you want. It’s tempting to just coast on charm without finishing what you start.
• You could also jump a little too fast into romantic or sexual situations, since Mars stirs up desire and Venus makes it all feel…well, easy. This isn’t necessarily bad, but you might overlook red flags or move too quick for your own good.
• If you’ve got a competitive side, you might find it gets blurred with friendliness- sometimes this is cool, but you could end up in “friendly rivalries” that turn confusing if someone takes things more seriously than you do.
• With so much creative juice flowing, you could start a bunch of projects but leave them half-done once the initial thrill wears off.

Opportunities during this transit

• This is a fantastic time for teamwork- getting along with coworkers, friends, or romantic partners is easier, and you can get people excited about shared plans or adventures.
• Your social life can really sparkle now. You might find parties more fun, dates more relaxed, and even random run-ins with people could lead to something surprising- maybe a new friend, job tip, or creative idea.
• Creative or athletic expression is big- dancing, painting, music, sports, fashion, or anything where you “perform” or show off a little. You’re likely to impress without feeling like you’re trying too hard.
• If there’s something you’ve wanted to ask for- like a raise at work, a favor, or a date- this is the perfect transit to go for it. Your confidence and likeability are both turned up, which makes “yes” much more likely.
• This is also one of the best times for repairing or improving relationships- a little flirting, a little fun, some honest (because of Mars) but gentle (because of Venus) conversation can really fix old issues.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Sextile to Natal Mars

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: Adds a bold, flirtatious energy. You’ll probably feel way more daring and take the first step, especially in love or creative projects. Quick sparks fly!
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: Everything feels more physical and sensual. You’re drawn to comfort, touch, and maybe sweet treats. This is all about slow-building attraction and steady effort.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: Playfulness and witty teasing are major. Flirting happens mostly through words, texts, or clever banter. You crave conversations rather than just physical things.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotional connection is key. You’ll want hugs, affection, and coziness. Actions speak loudest when they show you care- think thoughtful gestures and gut feelings.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: Everything gets turned up! There’s drama, romance, and lots of attention-seeking energy. You’ll want to show off a little, impress, and feel adored.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: You’re more thoughtful and practical. You might express yourself by helping out or paying attention to little details. Small, caring gestures win the day.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: There’s a super smooth, charming vibe. You’ll prefer harmony, equality, and teamwork. This is flirty, light, and focused on keeping things sweet and balanced.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Everything gets intense and deeper. You’ll want passion or nothing. There could be more magnetism, deeper feelings, and even a little jealousy or possessiveness.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You feel more adventurous and open-minded. Flirting might involve jokes, travel, or philosophical debates. Freedom and fun matter most.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You’re goal-oriented and practical- not over the top. Actions are serious and meaningful. There’s ambition in your attraction and a focus on reliable moves.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Everything gets a bit quirky and surprising. You’re drawn to unique people or ideas, and things might move forward in unexpected ways. Friendship and freedom are big.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: There’s a dreamy, magical quality. You’ll be a little more sensitive and intuitive, and you might find romance in art, music, or just losing yourself in daydreams.