Dreamy romance vibes
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus sextile Neptune transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t let yourself get swept away by unrealistic fantasies or daydreams- stay grounded.
- Avoid making big financial decisions or investments on a whim- it’s easy to misjudge things right now.
- Try not to start brand new relationships without seeing people clearly- rose-colored glasses can blur your vision.
- Don’t ignore your intuition if something seems too good to be true, especially in love or money matters.
- Avoid substance use or overindulgent behavior, since you could be more prone to escapism during this time.
- Don’t promise more than you can deliver- your imagination might make everything seem possible, but reality bites.
- Skip getting involved with shady deals or secret projects- there’s a risk of deception, even if you can’t spot it right away.
- Don’t ignore important routines or practical matters while you chase inspiration- balance is key.
Do During This Transit
- Get creative – try painting, writing, making music, or anything artsy.
- Spend time daydreaming or exploring your imagination.
- Work on any projects that involve beauty, design, or photography.
- Watch movies or listen to music that inspires you.
- Show empathy and kindness to friends, loved ones, or even strangers.
- Meditate or do some gentle yoga to relax and connect to your inner self.
- Express your feelings, especially in romantic relationships – even a handwritten note or sweet message goes a long way now.
- Volunteer or help out at a charity – you’ll feel extra compassionate.
- Start or deepen a spiritual practice, like journaling or tarot work.
- Try some self-care rituals, like a long bath or a spa day at home.
What’s Interesting About This Transit
- Heightened sensitivity to music and rhythm: William Gorn Old (Sepharial) wrote in The Manual of Astrology (1898) that Venus sextile Neptune can make a person “strangely receptive to the harmonic influences of sound, most notable in sensitivity to instrumental music and the cadences of poetry,” sometimes inspiring the urge to compose or dance spontaneously.
- Favorable for subtle romance or hidden affections: Alan Leo noted in Practical Astrology (1901) that this transit can “highlight the invisible threads of attraction,” making it possible for secret crushes or unspoken flirtations to surface gently, often through unspoken gestures or shared dreams.
- Artistic trances and altered states for creators: In Astrological Essays (1945), C.E.O. Carter mentioned that artists with this transit might “slip into reverie more often than usual,” experiencing productive creative trances where inspiration seems to arise from nowhere, almost like channelling.
- Increased charitable impulses towards strangers: In The Modern Textbook of Astrology (1949), Margaret Hone described this sextile as sparking “unexpected kindly urges, especially to help those in distress or lost causes, sometimes to the person’s own inconvenience, but lightly so.”
- Temporary psychic ‘shield’ in social situations: Charles E.O. Carter also suggested in The Astrology of Accidents (1932) that this aspect gives people a “subtle protection in gatherings and emotional crowds,” helping them tune out negativity that might otherwise drain them.
- Ease in resolving unspoken resentments: Isabel M. Hickey wrote in Astrology: A Cosmic Science (1970) that Venus sextile Neptune can “dissolve grudges and misunderstandings without direct confrontation,” because both parties may find it easier to forgive or let issues fade away during this influence.
- Compassion expressed through acts of beauty: Sepharial again, referencing this aspect in New Manual of Astrology (1920), spoke of “the urge to offer something lovely- a drawing, a poem, even a flower- where one senses another’s suffering, believing beauty will heal.”
- Unexpected luck with secret resources: In Astrology and the Modern Mind (1975), Dane Rudhyar wrote that this transit sometimes aligns with “windfalls or support from hidden quarters, such as anonymous gifts or behind-the-scenes allies,” especially related to artistic or charitable ventures.
Experiencing This Transit
So, what’s it like when Venus is sextile your natal Neptune? In plain English, you might feel like you’re wrapped up in a cozy, romantic daydream, even in the middle of your ordinary week. Life seems softer, people seem kinder, and you’re more sensitive to art, music, and the unspoken feelings around you.
This transit kind of tunes your heart to a more poetic frequency- whether that means being a little extra sentimental, letting yourself get lost in creative work, or wanting to connect with people on a deeper level. You’ll probably feel more forgiving and open, sensing beauty in simple things. But, like anything Neptunian, it’s not all smooth sailing.
Challenges during this transit
- You might have a hard time seeing things (and people) clearly. It’s easy to overlook flaws or red flags now, especially in relationships. For example, you might idealize a crush or trust someone you just met a bit too quickly.
- Your boundaries can get a little fuzzy. You may feel more generous than usual, lending money or giving time you can’t really spare because someone’s story tugs at your heartstrings.
- It’s easy to get swept up by fantasy- spending hours on romantic daydreams instead of getting your work done, or misreading someone’s friendly gesture as something deeper.
- If you’re creative, you could struggle to finish projects because you’re chasing one dreamy idea after another, never quite landing.
Opportunities during this transit
- This is a fantastic time for any creative adventure. Try painting, songwriting, dancing, or anything that lets you express your feelings. You might be surprised at what you come up with!
- You’ll find it easier to forgive and let go of old grudges. If someone’s been on your mind, you might feel ready to see things from their side, or even reach out and heal a rift.
- Acts of kindness and compassion really shine now. Volunteering, supporting a friend, or even just showing a stranger a small kindness- it all feels more meaningful and comes naturally.
- Your intuition, dreams, and gut feelings are on fire during this transit. You’ll probably pick up on subtle emotional cues from others, or get a creative idea during sleep or meditation. Trusting your inner voice pays off now.
- This is a lovely time for romance. If you’re with someone, it’s great for softening arguments and reconnecting. If you’re single, you might attract someone kind-hearted or artistic, or just find yourself swooning in a sweet, non-serious way.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Sextile to Natal Neptune
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: You’ll feel spontaneous with your dreams and relationships. Creative ideas come fast, you might fall for someone quickly, and you’ll want excitement in love or art.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: You’ll crave comfort and sensuality. Nature, music, or good food can inspire you. You’re more likely to manifest something beautiful and make a fantasy feel real.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Your imagination gets talkative and curious. You’ll probably get a burst of inspiration for writing, chatting, or flirting. Connections feel lighter, and ideas flow easily.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: You feel dreamy and sentimental about love and home. You might be creatively inspired by your family or past memories. Emotions are sweet and gentle.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: Your creative spark is dramatic and bold. You’ll want to show off your unique style or express your feelings in an obvious, confident way. Romance feels magical and grand.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You notice beauty in the little things. There’s gentle healing in your relationships. You’ll want to help and support loved ones, and creativity is practical or detail-focused.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: Harmony and romance come effortlessly. Your intuition helps you create or restore balance in love or with art- strong vibes for making peace with others.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Emotions and desires run deeper. Fantasies get intense, and you’ll crave a soulful or even mysterious connection. Artistic inspiration might come from confronting something hidden.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: Your imagination wants to wander. You might feel inspired to travel or learn something new, and you’ll find beauty in different cultures and wild ideas.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You’ll dream about lasting relationships or creative goals that stand the test of time. Beauty feels classic; you could get inspired to work toward a realistic dream.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You’re inspired by something unusual or futuristic. Friendships, group projects, and offbeat art get a boost; you might connect with someone in a totally unexpected way.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Imagination is at its peak! Empathy, romance, and creativity flow. You’ll probably want to escape or drift into a fantasy, art, or music- everything feels magical.