Dreamy romance vibes
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus sextile Neptune transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t let yourself get swept away by unrealistic fantasies or daydreams- stay grounded.
- Avoid making big financial decisions or investments on a whim- it’s easy to misjudge things right now.
- Try not to start brand new relationships without seeing people clearly- rose-colored glasses can blur your vision.
- Don’t ignore your intuition if something seems too good to be true, especially in love or money matters.
- Avoid substance use or overindulgent behavior, since you could be more prone to escapism during this time.
- Don’t promise more than you can deliver- your imagination might make everything seem possible, but reality bites.
- Skip getting involved with shady deals or secret projects- there’s a risk of deception, even if you can’t spot it right away.
- Don’t ignore important routines or practical matters while you chase inspiration- balance is key.
Do During This Transit
- Get creative – try painting, writing, making music, or anything artsy.
- Spend time daydreaming or exploring your imagination.
- Work on any projects that involve beauty, design, or photography.
- Watch movies or listen to music that inspires you.
- Show empathy and kindness to friends, loved ones, or even strangers.
- Meditate or do some gentle yoga to relax and connect to your inner self.
- Express your feelings, especially in romantic relationships – even a handwritten note or sweet message goes a long way now.
- Volunteer or help out at a charity – you’ll feel extra compassionate.
- Start or deepen a spiritual practice, like journaling or tarot work.
- Try some self-care rituals, like a long bath or a spa day at home.
What’s interesting about this transit?
Venus sextile natal Neptune is one of those sweet, dreamy transits, and it’s got some quirky, old-school meanings from forgotten astrology books. Here’s a handful of the more off-the-wall or lesser-known ones:
- Ancient Arabic astrologers believed this transit could make a person more “attractive while dreaming,” meaning others might feel a strange affection for you without knowing why.
- Some old almanacs said it was a “favorable time for artistic alchemy,” suggesting that artists or musicians could channel inspiration from higher realms, almost as if a muse was whispering secrets.
- Medieval interpretations mentioned “the awakening of secret admirers,” meaning people you never suspected might reveal their fondness or appreciation for you, sometimes in mysterious or cryptic ways.
- Persian astrologers considered this aspect helpful for healing through beauty. They noted that fragrant oils, music, or pretty surroundings have enhanced effects on well-being now.
- Victorian-era books mentioned that this transit is good for “gentle illusions,” letting you see the best in others, even if it’s temporary, like wearing rose-colored glasses that soften everyone’s rough edges.
- Some Hermetic traditions believed Venus-Neptune aspects were great for “magical diplomacy”- a time when peace is achieved by charm or a well-timed compliment, rather than logic or force.
- One obscure Italian astrologer wrote that under this influence, “losses turn to gains if they are given in kindness,” linking generosity with unexpected rewards.
Experiencing This Transit
So, what’s it like when Venus is sextile your natal Neptune? In plain English, you might feel like you’re wrapped up in a cozy, romantic daydream, even in the middle of your ordinary week. Life seems softer, people seem kinder, and you’re more sensitive to art, music, and the unspoken feelings around you.
This transit kind of tunes your heart to a more poetic frequency- whether that means being a little extra sentimental, letting yourself get lost in creative work, or wanting to connect with people on a deeper level. You’ll probably feel more forgiving and open, sensing beauty in simple things. But, like anything Neptunian, it’s not all smooth sailing.
Challenges during this transit
- You might have a hard time seeing things (and people) clearly. It’s easy to overlook flaws or red flags now, especially in relationships. For example, you might idealize a crush or trust someone you just met a bit too quickly.
- Your boundaries can get a little fuzzy. You may feel more generous than usual, lending money or giving time you can’t really spare because someone’s story tugs at your heartstrings.
- It’s easy to get swept up by fantasy- spending hours on romantic daydreams instead of getting your work done, or misreading someone’s friendly gesture as something deeper.
- If you’re creative, you could struggle to finish projects because you’re chasing one dreamy idea after another, never quite landing.
Opportunities during this transit
- This is a fantastic time for any creative adventure. Try painting, songwriting, dancing, or anything that lets you express your feelings. You might be surprised at what you come up with!
- You’ll find it easier to forgive and let go of old grudges. If someone’s been on your mind, you might feel ready to see things from their side, or even reach out and heal a rift.
- Acts of kindness and compassion really shine now. Volunteering, supporting a friend, or even just showing a stranger a small kindness- it all feels more meaningful and comes naturally.
- Your intuition, dreams, and gut feelings are on fire during this transit. You’ll probably pick up on subtle emotional cues from others, or get a creative idea during sleep or meditation. Trusting your inner voice pays off now.
- This is a lovely time for romance. If you’re with someone, it’s great for softening arguments and reconnecting. If you’re single, you might attract someone kind-hearted or artistic, or just find yourself swooning in a sweet, non-serious way.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Sextile to Natal Neptune
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: You’ll feel spontaneous with your dreams and relationships. Creative ideas come fast, you might fall for someone quickly, and you’ll want excitement in love or art.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: You’ll crave comfort and sensuality. Nature, music, or good food can inspire you. You’re more likely to manifest something beautiful and make a fantasy feel real.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Your imagination gets talkative and curious. You’ll probably get a burst of inspiration for writing, chatting, or flirting. Connections feel lighter, and ideas flow easily.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: You feel dreamy and sentimental about love and home. You might be creatively inspired by your family or past memories. Emotions are sweet and gentle.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: Your creative spark is dramatic and bold. You’ll want to show off your unique style or express your feelings in an obvious, confident way. Romance feels magical and grand.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You notice beauty in the little things. There’s gentle healing in your relationships. You’ll want to help and support loved ones, and creativity is practical or detail-focused.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: Harmony and romance come effortlessly. Your intuition helps you create or restore balance in love or with art- strong vibes for making peace with others.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Emotions and desires run deeper. Fantasies get intense, and you’ll crave a soulful or even mysterious connection. Artistic inspiration might come from confronting something hidden.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: Your imagination wants to wander. You might feel inspired to travel or learn something new, and you’ll find beauty in different cultures and wild ideas.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You’ll dream about lasting relationships or creative goals that stand the test of time. Beauty feels classic; you could get inspired to work toward a realistic dream.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You’re inspired by something unusual or futuristic. Friendships, group projects, and offbeat art get a boost; you might connect with someone in a totally unexpected way.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Imagination is at its peak! Empathy, romance, and creativity flow. You’ll probably want to escape or drift into a fantasy, art, or music- everything feels magical.