Heated passions and creative tension
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus square Mars transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t start arguments or pick fights- it’s way too easy to lose your cool right now.
- Avoid impulsive shopping, especially on stuff you don’t really need or can’t afford.
- Don’t rush into new relationships just because you’re feeling bold or extra flirty.
- Try not to force your opinions or desires onto others; it can cause tension.
- Don’t make big decisions about love or money- wait until you’re thinking more clearly.
- Hold off on high-stakes competitions; you might act rashly or get frustrated fast.
- Don’t ignore boundaries- yours or other people’s! Respect goes a long way.
- Try not to let jealousy or possessiveness take over, especially in relationships.
- Stay away from revenge or getting even; things can escalate quickly during this transit.
Do During This Transit
- Channel your energy into creativity – Try painting, dancing, writing, or any hobby that lets you express yourself.
- Start a fun new workout routine – Movement can help you handle any extra tension during this transit.
- Have some bold but honest conversations – It’s a good time to clear the air, just keep things kind.
- Focus on flirting and playful romance – Sparks might fly, so have fun with it; just don’t take things too seriously.
- Redecorate your room or change something about your look – Freshen up your style if you’re feeling restless.
- Start a new project, but make it fun – Pick something you’re passionate about, not just what you think you should do.
- Practice patience if you feel annoyed – Channel frustration into something productive, like cleaning or playing sports.
- Say “yes” to social invites – Meeting new people or doing something different could be exciting right now.
- Work on setting healthy boundaries – Stand up for yourself in relationships, but in a caring way.
- Enjoy some self-care that gets your heart pumping – Dancing around your room works wonders!
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What’s interesting about this transit?
Venus square to natal Mars is usually talked about as a tangle of passions and conflict. But if you dig into some older or more obscure astrology books, you’ll find some unusual takes:
- In some ancient Arabic texts, this transit was said to make a person “impatient with slow pleasures,” meaning they might get annoyed by anything or anyone who isn’t exciting or direct.
- Certain Renaissance astrologers warned this transit could produce “strange quarrels among women and men over colors or items of beauty,” implying people might argue over the little things like clothing or art.
- In some medieval sources, it was believed that when Venus is square Mars, people are prone to making “wager or gamble for love,” risking something of value just to impress someone they’re attracted to.
- A few ancient manuals mention that this was a time when “one’s appetites may overtake judgment,” so folks might splurge on food, drink, or romantic gestures they wouldn’t usually go for.
- There’s even a note in old Indian astrology saying this transit can “cause longing for spice and heat in the diet,” which is astrologers’ way of saying you crave excitement everywhere, even at the dinner table!
Experiencing This Transit
When Venus forms a square to your natal Mars, it sort of lights a fuse in your energy. It’s a time when desire and action get mixed up- so you end up wanting things quickly, feeling a little more competitive, and maybe getting flustered if things don’t go your way, especially in love or anything creative. It’s like your personal charm and your drive are arguing with each other, making you bold, but also impatient. You’ll probably feel stuff more intensely than usual: attraction, irritation, longing, ambition… it’s all turned up.
Challenges during this transit
- Clashing with others: You might have a short fuse, especially with crushes, partners, or friends. Little disagreements can explode into bigger arguments because both sides want their way.
- Impulsive moves: There’s a tendency to rush, whether it’s starting a whirlwind romance, buying something flashy, or just diving head-first into things you want.
- Moodiness: You could feel frustrated if people don’t reciprocate your energy or attention. Sometimes you might even pick a fight just to get a reaction.
- Jealousy: Attractions and passions are heightened, and jealousy or possessiveness can bubble up. You might jump to conclusions or feel slighted more easily.
- Trouble balancing pleasure and action: It’s easy to go overboard- eating too much, spending too much, or chasing after someone just because you’re bored.
Opportunities during this transit
- Creative sparks: This can be an amazing time to channel passion into art, music, or performance. The extra energy and emotion can help you produce something bold.
- Confidence boost: You could feel bolder and more attractive, which might push you to ask someone out or take a risk you’ve been thinking about.
- Strengthening relationships: If you express what you’re feeling honestly (not aggressively), this can clear the air with someone you care about, leading to more honesty and understanding.
- Trying new things: You might feel a push to try a new sport, hobby, or adventure- anything physical or creative that lets you burn off some of that Mars energy.
- Personal insight: You get to see where your desires and your actions don’t line up, which can help you understand yourself better and make changes for the future.
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How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Mars
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: You’ll feel a sudden urge to go after what or who you want- fast. Impulsive moves, bold crushes, and arguments sparked by impatience are more likely.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: Everything feels more physical. There might be stubbornness in love or money matters, and clashes usually center around values, possessions, or comfort.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Flirtation and witty banter heat up quickly, but miscommunications can spark drama. You might want freedom but clash with anyone trying to pin you down.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: Feelings run high, and emotional security becomes extra important. You could feel protective or touchy, and small slights might trigger arguments.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: Passion, drama, and craving attention turn up to the max. Ego clashes can happen, and there’s a big need to feel special or adored.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: Criticism or fussing over details can spark tension in relationships. You might argue over routines, chores, or who’s being thoughtful enough.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: The urge to keep things fair and pretty strong. Arguments usually revolve around what’s “just” or “right,” and you might try to smooth things over but still feel annoyed under the surface.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Desire gets extra intense and power games might show up. Jealousy or secrets can cause issues, and passions run pretty hot (in both good and bad ways).
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: Big opinions or restlessness can cause friction. You might want new experiences or adventures in love but could butt heads if someone tries to hold you back.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Money, respect, or commitment issues are front and center. Practical matters and boundaries could be main sources of arguments.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: It’s all about freedom and doing things your own way. Someone might accuse you of being distant or unemotional, or you could rebel against anyone bossing you around.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Sensitivity and daydreams heighten emotions. You could clash over unrealistic expectations or feel let down if you don’t feel truly understood.