Transit Venus Square Natal North Node

Love lessons crossroads

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus square North Node transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t rush into new relationships or commitments- things might not be as they seem right now.
• Avoid making big decisions about love or friendships since your judgment could be off.
• Try not to overindulge in shopping, sweets, or anything that gives instant pleasure. Temptation is strong but leads to regrets.
• Don’t ignore your true feelings just to keep others happy or fit in socially.
• Stay away from gossip or drama, especially with friends- you could end up in misunderstandings.
• Don’t settle for less than you deserve just because you feel pressured or afraid of missing out.
• Avoid comparing yourself to others- this transit can make you feel insecure about your path.
• Don’t lash out or be passive-aggressive if you’re feeling snubbed or unappreciated, especially by people you care about.
• Avoid trying to force connections or rekindle things from the past- it’s usually not the best time for that.
• Don’t ignore your own growth and goals while focusing too much on pleasing others or fitting their expectations.

Do During This Transit

• Reflect on your relationships- think about who supports your goals and who might be holding you back.
• Notice any patterns in your love life or friendships that seem to repeat, and try to figure out what they’re teaching you.
• Be open to figuring out what you really value in love, beauty, and pleasure- even if it means some uncomfortable truths.
• Try not to force connections or seek approval from people who aren’t on the same path as you. Focus on authentic connections.
• Practice self-love and self-acceptance, especially if you’re feeling insecure or doubting your worth.
• Pay attention to any conflicts or tension that pop up, especially in close relationships. Use them as learning experiences.
• Explore your creative side- art, music, or anything that helps you express yourself, even if it feels awkward at first.
• Let go of people-pleasing habits that might be holding you back from your personal growth or life direction.
• Trust that it’s okay to outgrow certain relationships or social circles if you feel called to step into something new.
• Journal your feelings about love, connection, and your sense of purpose- it can help you process what’s coming up during this transit.

What’s interesting about this transit?

• In some old Renaissance texts, Venus square the North Node was thought to signify “the visit of a pleasant shadow,” meaning something that seems beautiful or appealing but exists just beyond your grasp or brings a tinge of illusion.
• Ancient Persian astrologers connected this transit with “the stranger’s favor” – unexpected kindness or gifts from someone unknown, which could push you off your destined path for a while.
• According to medieval European sources, this square was believed to temporarily make people “deaf to advice about love,” leading to choices that might look sweet in the moment but disruptive down the road.
• Some lesser-known Vedic traditions describe this transit as “honey on the tongue and dust on the feet,” meaning you might feel tempted by easy pleasures that don’t really get you anywhere.
• In Byzantine astrology, Venus square the Node was called “the dancer on the crossroads,” suggesting a period where you feel pulled in two directions by beauty, affection, or money, potentially slowing your progress toward your life’s bigger goals.

Experiencing This Transit

When Venus forms a square to your natal North Node, things can get a little sticky around love, friendship, art, pleasure, or even money. Venus stands for what makes us feel good, while the North Node points us toward our future – the kind of lessons and growth our soul signed up for. When these two clash in a square, you get some tension. It’s like part of you wants comfort or sweetness, but another part knows you should be moving forward, maybe even stepping out of your comfort zone.

You might crave connection- romance, new friends, or even a little extra attention. But the people or experiences calling out to you right now might not actually help you reach your long-term dreams or goals. Choices that seem fun at first might have you doubting yourself after.

Challenges during this transit

• Falling into old patterns: You might find yourself attracted to the same kind of relationships, purchases, or distractions that have tripped you up before. It can feel easier to settle for something familiar than to push toward something new or unknown.
• Temporary detours: Sweet offers or charming new people may lead you off your path, distracting you from what you know you should be doing. For example, you could spend way too much time chatting with someone who actually doesn’t share your values, or splurge on something that isn’t really ‘you.’
• Mixed messages about self-worth: During this transit, it’s easy to confuse what you want with what you really need. You might agree to things just to keep the peace, even when it doesn’t truly fit with the future you want.
• Friction in relationships: Friends, partners, or family might challenge your choices, leading to little arguments or hurt feelings. It might feel like people are not supporting your ambitions, or like you’re being torn between pleasing others and being true to yourself.

Opportunities during this transit

• Spotting what needs to change: The tension you feel can make it really obvious which pleasures or relationships are holding you back. This is a great time to notice what you’re outgrowing.
• Learning about balance: Since this transit puts your comfort zone and your “bigger picture” at odds, you can learn a lot about finding the sweet spot- enjoying life while still moving forward.
• Creative breakthroughs: If you’re into art, music, or even just decorating your space, this square can suddenly inspire you to try something new, step out of your style routine, or shake up your tastes.
• Building stronger connections: When you’re honest about what you want and need, you can draw in people who help you grow, instead of keeping you stuck. This can be a turning point for certain friendships or romances.
• Practice saying “no”: Venus square North Node can be the perfect moment to build confidence in setting boundaries, so you don’t just go along with what’s easy or feels nice in the moment.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Square to Natal North Node

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: You’ll feel bold and impatient in love and money matters, but clashes might erupt when people don’t match your quick pace or enthusiasm. Expect impulsive choices.
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: Stubbornness can get in the way now, especially in relationships. You want comfort and stability, and may resist any changes that disrupt your routine.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: Your attention’s all over the place. You might be flaky or send mixed signals in conversations, making it hard to commit to people or plans.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions run high, and you might cling to familiar people or situations- even if they’re not that good for you. There’s a tug-of-war between comfort and the push to grow.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: Drama and pride make you want more attention, but ego clashes can create problems. You may crave appreciation yet feel out of sync with where you’re supposed to be going.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: You’re extra picky and might criticize yourself or others. It’s easy to get caught up in the little stuff and avoid big-picture changes that could help you grow.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: You might try too hard to keep the peace, even if it means ignoring your real needs. It’s tricky to balance being true to yourself with playing nice for everyone else.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intense feelings and jealousy could pop up. You’re drawn to deep connections, but power struggles or secrets might hold you back from moving forward.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You want freedom and adventure, but sticking with the tried-and-true feels stifling. There’s a real urge to break free from old habits.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Serious vibes color everything. You might focus on responsibilities and long-term goals, finding it hard to let loose or take relationship risks.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You might try being totally different or go against the grain, but this could leave you feeling out of sync with others. Independence is great, but connection matters too.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: It’s easy to get lost in fantasy or wishful thinking, especially about love or money. Reality checks might be needed before you drift off in the wrong direction.