Transit Pluto Opposite Natal Venus

Intense relationship transformations.

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Pluto Opposite Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t rush into intense or dramatic relationships, even if they seem exciting at first.
• Avoid getting obsessed with someone or something you can’t have- it’s easy to get fixated during this time.
• Try not to make big decisions about love or money while emotions are all over the place. Wait until things calm down.
• Don’t ignore power struggles or manipulation in your relationships. If you feel controlled or are controlling someone else, step back.
• Resist the urge to dig up old grievances or hold grudges against your partner or friends.
• Don’t use love or sex as a way to manipulate others. Stay honest and genuine now.
• Avoid secret affairs or any kind of relationship drama that could spiral out of control.
• Don’t overspend to impress someone or to fill an emotional void- money matters can get tricky now.
• Try not to break up or make up with someone just because you’re feeling pressured, jealous, or scared of being alone.
• Don’t bottle up your feelings. Ignoring them can make things even more intense. Find a safe way to express yourself.

Do During This Transit

• Reflect deeply on your relationships- this is a powerful time for honesty and transformation.
• Let go of unhealthy attachments, whether it’s to a person, a habit, or a material thing.
• Do some soul-searching about your values and what truly makes you happy.
• Work with a therapist, counselor, or even just journal- digging into your feelings can help you heal.
• Allow yourself to experience passion- sometimes intense connections spark during this transit.
• Set healthy boundaries in love and friendship.
• Consider making big changes if a relationship isn’t working- Pluto is all about deep, lasting transformation, not quick fixes.
• Explore creative outlets, especially if you’re feeling overwhelmed- art, music, or writing can channel powerful emotions.
• Practice self-care and self-love; nurture your self-worth and remember you deserve respect.
• Keep an open mind about change, even if it feels uncomfortable at first- Pluto wants you to grow.

What’s interesting about this transit?

• Some old texts mention this transit as the “Temptation of Ishtar,” symbolizing intense and dangerous attractions, especially those considered taboo or forbidden in the culture of the time.
• There’s a rare interpretation that says Pluto opposite Venus can coincide with the uncovering of hidden family secrets, especially involving love affairs or old grudges that resurface, shaking up relationships in the present.
• Ancient astrologers sometimes linked this transit to sudden “captive” infatuations- like a spell over someone’s heart- often describing people who fall in love against their own will or better judgment.
• Medieval astrology books occasionally refer to this transit as causing “exchanges of fortune” in women’s lives, including inheritance disputes or money coming from unexpected sources (often after drama or loss).
• Some obscure interpretations say it increases the risk of “sorcery in love,” believing that jealousy or obsession could invite energy they called “maleficent,” especially if someone tries to manipulate feelings or outcomes.
• Pluto-Venus oppositions were also connected to passionate, fateful relationships that feel “fated” or even past-life related, with emotional intensity cranked up to maximum- sometimes described as the “devouring embrace.”

Experiencing This Transit

When Pluto is opposite your natal Venus, life can get intense in the love and relationship department. Think of it like a spotlight shining on all your desires, secrets, and the darker side of affection. A lot of stuff you usually keep hidden- jealousy, fear of losing someone, secret crushes, or even the value you give yourself- gets pulled up to the surface. You might start noticing power struggles in your relationships, or suddenly feel super drawn to someone who’s not exactly “safe.” Money and what you value might also come up for transformation.

Challenges during this transit

• Relationship drama: Old arguments can flare up, trust can get shaky, and sometimes you realize you or your partner want totally different things. Things that were just “okay” before might suddenly seem unbearable.
• Obsession or jealousy: You might catch yourself stalking an ex on social media, or feeling way more possessive than usual. Obsessive thinking can spiral if you’re not careful.
• Breakdowns in self-esteem: Pluto tends to dig up your deepest insecurities, especially around how lovable you feel or how attractive you think you are. You might compare yourself to others more than normal.
• Money clashes: Sometimes money becomes a battlefield, either with your partner or in how you feel about your own financial security. There could be sudden losses or weird windfalls that come with complications.
• Temptation for destructive behavior: You might feel pulled toward people or situations that aren’t good for you- affairs, drama, or risky financial moves- just for the thrill or out of a need to feel powerful.

Opportunities during this transit

• Deep healing: If you face up to your fears and insecurities, you can heal some old wounds around love and self-worth. Therapy, honest talks, and even journaling can help you transform the way you relate to others.
• Finding true passion: This transit can strip away shallow feelings and bring in relationships or passions that feel intense, real, and all-consuming. Old, lifeless connections might end, but this makes room for something genuinely exciting.
• Financial transformation: Changes in money situations could push you to finally address bad habits or let go of something that’s holding you back (like debts, unhealthy spending, or toxic deals).
• Discovering your real values: You might realize what truly matters to you- what you need in love, friendship, and even what you want to spend your time and money on. This is a big chance to stop people-pleasing and start honoring yourself.
• Raw honesty in relationships: Even though it’s uncomfortable, this energy can push two people to drop the masks and talk about the real stuff- fears, needs, and dreams. That kind of honesty can make a bond stronger than ever before.

How the Sign of Transiting Pluto Modifies This Transit Opposite to Natal Venus

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Pluto.

• Transiting Pluto in Aries: You might feel a fierce urge for independence in your relationships, and power struggles can come out of nowhere. You’ll want things your way, and tempers could flare faster than usual.
• Transiting Pluto in Taurus: Security issues pop up more often, and you’ll probably obsess over what (and who) feels stable. Relationships could become a tug-of-war over money or possessions.
• Transiting Pluto in Gemini: Communication gets intense; words hold a lot of weight, and old secrets might surface in your chats. Expect dramatic conversations or arguments about trust and loyalty.
• Transiting Pluto in Cancer: Family baggage and childhood patterns show up big time. Power issues may be tied to home, family, and emotional needs, so pay attention to old wounds popping up in love life.
• Transiting Pluto in Leo: Ego clashes! There’s a strong desire to be recognized and loved, which can lead to dramatic scenes and jealousy. You might attract passionate but controlling partners or play that role yourself.
• Transiting Pluto in Virgo: Control shows up in the little things- habits, routines, and maybe even work relationships. You might obsess over perfection or feel extra critical of yourself or others.
• Transiting Pluto in Libra: Power dynamics center on fairness and equality, but hidden resentments about give-and-take surface. Partnerships are tested, and you’ll crave deep, honest connections.
• Transiting Pluto in Scorpio: Emotions get super intense and all-or-nothing. There’s a magnetism, but also potential for jealousy, secrecy, and trust issues. Relationships feel life-changing, for better or worse.
• Transiting Pluto in Sagittarius: Beliefs and long-term plans become battlegrounds. You may question if your values align with your partner, and there’s a craving for more adventure or freedom in love.
• Transiting Pluto in Capricorn: Power struggles might focus on control, status, or ambition. You could attract people who are super driven or bossy, or you may feel pressure to meet certain expectations in love and money.
• Transiting Pluto in Aquarius: Relationships take on an unconventional vibe- expect surprises, sudden changes, or online dramas. Friends could become lovers, or partners might want more space.
• Transiting Pluto in Pisces: Emotional boundaries blur, and fantasies (or fears) get amplified. It’s easy to lose yourself in love or get tangled in unclear situations, so pay extra attention to what’s real and what’s wishful thinking.