Intense relationship tension
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Pluto Semisquare Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t start a new romantic relationship just because you feel intense emotions- things can get obsessive fast.
- Avoid making big decisions about love or money right now, like moving in together, breaking up suddenly, or making major investments.
- Try not to manipulate, control, or play power games with your partner or friends. This energy can bring out jealous or possessive feelings.
- Don’t ignore red flags in relationships. If something feels off, it probably is. Trust your gut, but don’t act on it impulsively.
- Steer clear of risky spending or shopping therapy. Financial temptation will be strong, but regret could follow.
- Avoid bringing up old grudges or digging up past relationship problems unless you’re ready for drama.
- Don’t compare yourself to others or let insecurities get the best of you, especially about how you look or what you own.
- Be careful not to fall into toxic patterns- like obsessing over someone or letting someone else dictate your happiness.
Do During This Transit
- Reflect on your relationships. This is a great time to think about what you really want in love and who actually supports your growth.
- Work on self-love. Practice taking care of yourself- emotionally and physically. Treat yourself kindly and really notice how you talk to yourself.
- Let go of unhealthy attachments. It’s a good time to notice any patterns, habits, or even people that don’t feel good for you anymore- and start releasing them.
- Transform your values. Question what’s important to you (especially in love, beauty, money, and pleasure) and see if it’s time to let some old beliefs go.
- Face emotional truths. Be honest with yourself about what you’re feeling, even if it’s uncomfortable. Doing this can really help you heal and move forward.
- Try creative outlets. Express yourself through art, music, dance, or anything creative. It can help you process deep feelings right now.
- Talk things out. If you’re having issues in relationships, have honest conversations- even if it’s tough. Facing things head-on helps in the long run.
- Shine a light on jealousy or control issues. Notice if you’re feeling possessive or jealous. Use this time to understand where those feelings come from.
- Get support if you need it. Talking to a friend, counselor, or therapist can help if emotions feel overwhelming.
- Be gentle with yourself. This transit can be intense, so go easy and give yourself plenty of grace as you grow.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- In some little-known Renaissance texts, Pluto making a semisquare to Venus was called the “Discordia’s Glance.” Astrologers thought it hinted at secret rivalries in love, where affection turns into competition or envy, especially between close friends or family.
- Medieval astrologers sometimes linked this aspect to minor but persistent “decays of pleasure,” claiming that it could cause beloved hobbies or passions to lose their sparkle, nudging someone to find deeper or hidden sources of joy.
- There are references from Persian manuscripts suggesting this aspect brings “hidden creditors” in relationships- old emotional debts or past romantic entanglements resurfacing in weird or roundabout ways.
- A few Victorian writers believed this was a “transit of underground gifts,” saying that what appears as friction or discomfort in relationships actually uncovers untapped talents, particularly in music, drama, or painting.
- Some old Italian astrologers saw it as a sign of “the stray coin,” arguing finances or values could go missing or slip through the cracks, only to be found again but in a changed state- or in partnership with someone else.
Experiencing This Transit
When Pluto forms a semisquare to your natal Venus, it’s like having a pushy house guest in the room with your softer side- your approach to love, money, and pleasure. Things might get uncomfortable in subtle ways, not dramatic, but poking at your weak spots just enough to notice. You might notice fixations, power struggles, or a squeeze on your sense of beauty and comfort, but not in a way that’s easy to talk about. Sometimes it’s just a feeling, other times it’ll show up in your relationships or how you spend money.
Challenges during this transit
- Minor Manipulations: People close to you might start to play little mind games, or you could feel tempted to manipulate a situation to get what you want. For example, feeling jealous but acting more passive-aggressive rather than honest about it.
- Loss of Enjoyment: Things you usually love- like music, art, or your favorite food- don’t feel as exciting. It’s as if your pleasure centers are being dialed down or you start questioning why you like what you like.
- Financial Friction: Money issues may come out of nowhere. You lose a small but meaningful possession, or a bill unexpectedly drains your “fun fund.” You might also feel tempted to spend on something risky or on a secret whim.
- Turbulent Love Dynamics: In relationships, small annoyances become big deals. An old resentment could bubble up, causing friction with a partner or friend. You might even attract people who seem intense or a little controlling.
- Hidden Beauty or Value Questions: You may feel self-conscious about your looks or doubt your worth, even if nothing’s really changed. It’s Pluto chipping away at your surface confidence to see what’s underneath.
Opportunities during this transit
- Digging Deeper into Passions: If old joys dry up, it’s a nudge to explore new creative outlets or revisit forgotten ones. You could discover a passion for something darker or more complex, like photography, poetry, or even true crime podcasts.
- Letting Go of Toxic Patterns: If relationships get messy, it’s a sign to set better boundaries or rethink who you let close. This transit is perfect for finally breaking off a friendship or situationship that drains you.
- Reclaiming Self-Worth: Pluto asks you to look past surface beauty and find deeper confidence. Maybe you realize your true value isn’t about looks, money, or approval- so you start acting and making choices from a stronger place.
- Financial Renewal: Any odd losses or irritations with money can motivate you to clean up your finances or start a savings challenge. You might discover a knack for finding treasures in thrift shops or get serious about budgeting.
- Transformative Relationships: You could meet someone powerful or mysterious, sparking a big change in how you relate to others. Or, an existing relationship gets real- bad habits are exposed, and if you’re brave, things can get more honest and intense (in a good way).
How the Sign of Transiting Pluto Modifies This Transit Semisquare to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Pluto.
- Transiting Pluto in Aries: Forces you to confront selfishness and shake up stale romantic routines. Sparks bold but risky changes in love and money.
- Transiting Pluto in Taurus: Brings intense focus on security and material attachments. Old comfort zones get disrupted in relationships and finances.
- Transiting Pluto in Gemini: Triggers obsessive thoughts about love or money. Communication in relationships may get manipulative or extra complicated.
- Transiting Pluto in Cancer: Emotional baggage from your past comes up. Family issues or old hurts may push their way into love life and values.
- Transiting Pluto in Leo: Ego clashes can fuel love drama or jealousy. Power struggles may center around attention, pride, or self-expression.
- Transiting Pluto in Virgo: Over-analysis and perfectionism complicate love and self-worth. You might try to “fix” yourself or someone else in unhealthy ways.
- Transiting Pluto in Libra: Rocky balancing acts in relationships. Issues of fairness, compromise, and control rise up, making partnerships feel intense.
- Transiting Pluto in Scorpio: Extreme intensity in passion or possessiveness. Old wounds or trust issues can surface, making love especially transformative or challenging.
- Transiting Pluto in Sagittarius: Pushes you to question beliefs about love, values, and freedom. Big changes may shake up long-distance love or cultural ideals.
- Transiting Pluto in Capricorn: Control, boundaries, and ambitions in relationships get tested. You might face power struggles about money or stability.
- Transiting Pluto in Aquarius: Unexpected twists, especially with group dynamics or online relationships. Old friendship patterns can undergo major shifts.
- Transiting Pluto in Pisces: Complicated feelings and blurred boundaries pop up. Sacrifice, compassion, or illusion can play bigger roles in love and finances.