Magnetic love upgrade
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Pluto Sextile Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t rush into new relationships just because the energy feels intense or exciting. Take your time getting to know someone.
- Avoid manipulating or controlling people to get what you want, especially in love or friendships.
- Try not to obsess over a crush, a partner, or even an ex. Keep things in perspective.
- Don’t hide your true feelings out of fear of being vulnerable- honesty is actually your friend during this time.
- Avoid making big financial investments based on emotions or because someone else is pressuring you.
- Don’t hold grudges or dwell on past hurts in your relationships. This is a good time to let things go.
- Try not to ignore the deeper issues in your friendships or love life. If something needs to be talked about, face it head on.
- Avoid gossiping or getting involved in drama, especially in your social circle.
- Don’t make promises you can’t keep just because you feel more passionate right now.
- Try not to forget about self-care or your own needs while focusing on others.
Do During This Transit
- Deepen relationships: It’s an awesome time to get closer with your partner or friends. Open up and have some real, honest conversations.
- Work on self-love: Focus on loving and accepting yourself more. Treat yourself to something special, or start a new self-care routine.
- Transform your style: Try a new look, update your wardrobe, or experiment with your appearance. You might feel more confident and magnetic.
- Heal old wounds: If you’ve got past relationship issues or emotional baggage, use this time to work through them and move forward.
- Get creative: Artistic projects and creative hobbies might flow easier now. Dive into making art, music, or anything that lets you express your feelings.
- Boost intimacy: It’s great for connecting on a deeper level with loved ones- physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
- Let go of toxic ties: If a relationship isn’t healthy, it’s a strong time for releasing it and making space for healthier connections.
- Make financial changes: Venus also rules money, so think about transforming the way you handle finances or invest for your future.
- Explore new relationships: This transit can bring powerful new connections or partnerships that feel intense and meaningful.
- Practice forgiveness: Forgive yourself and others- clearing the air now can open up awesome new chapters in your life.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- Old books sometimes saw Pluto as the “hidden renewer,” saying Pluto sextile Venus can spark fascination with rare perfumes, dyes, or clothing- anything that feels lush and mysterious.
- Some Renaissance-era astrologers believed this transit could bring dreams of hidden or mythical lovers, like fated love glimpsed in meditation or sleep, not quite touching daylight.
- In old medicine-astrology texts, Pluto sextile Venus was linked to improved skin healing, especially after a period of stress or illness- almost like Venus is restored through Pluto’s hidden power.
- Some Medieval astrologers thought relationships begun under this transit might have a “talismanic” quality, bringing good luck, healing, or a shared secret even after the romance faded.
- A few old European texts suggested this aspect made people especially talented at restoring or preserving beautiful objects- reviving old jewelry, paintings, or music in surprising ways.
- There are even hints that money made during this transit, especially from “unusual sources,” could have a mysterious way of sticking around or reappearing when you need it.
Experiencing This Transit
When Pluto makes a sextile to your natal Venus, it’s like a powerful, subtle magnet is at work in your love life and your sense of beauty. Things that used to seem dull or faded can suddenly start to glow. You might start seeing patterns beneath the surface in your relationships, or feel drawn to explore new sides of love, creativity, or even money. It’s not overpowering or chaotic- more like a gentle but constant energy that’s reshaping how you relate to intimacy, self-worth, and what you truly love.
Challenges during this transit
- You might notice an urge to get closer to someone- or something- you can’t quite touch or possess. This longing can be bittersweet, like a secret crush or desire for more depth with a friend who keeps things light.
- Old relationship issues that you thought were settled could drift back up. Maybe there’s a need for closure with an ex, or you’re realizing you’re still holding onto an old grudge or wound.
- Sometimes there’s a risk of getting a little obsessed- maybe with a person, a creative project, or even a purchase that you just need to have. It might feel like you just can’t stop thinking about it.
- Feeling out of place in your usual social scenes. You could find that what interested you before seems shallow, and it’s tempting to withdraw or keep certain feelings hidden.
Opportunities during this transit
- This is a fantastic time for deepening a romance or friendship. People might be more willing to go beneath the surface, share secrets, and trust each other more.
- You might feel a burst of creative inspiration, especially in the arts, music, writing, or even gardening- anything that lets you turn something ordinary into something beautiful and meaningful.
- If you work with money, business, or even just your own budget, you could discover smart investments or find new, unexpected ways to bring in resources. There’s a “luck” to digging deeper now.
- You may get a chance to heal old wounds around self-esteem or love- maybe realizing you care more about quality connections than popularity or surface-level attention.
- Art, love, and even shopping can take on a magical feel. You might find treasures at thrift stores, or finally see the beauty in something you ignored.
- This is also a perfect time for transforming how you show love- to yourself and others. Think meaningful gestures, forgiveness, and honest affection that feels stronger and more lasting.
How the Sign of Transiting Pluto Modifies This Transit Sextile to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Pluto.
- Transiting Pluto in Aries: You’re bolder in love and not afraid to shake things up. Relationships get a dose of adventure and you might feel like taking risks in romance or with your style.
- Transiting Pluto in Taurus: You crave serious stability and long-lasting connections. Sensuality is heightened- think lots of enjoyment through touch, food, and comfort, but also a strong desire for loyalty.
- Transiting Pluto in Gemini: Connections go deeper through conversation. You might find yourself drawn to intense chats, flirty banter, or even online relationships that get surprisingly real.
- Transiting Pluto in Cancer: Emotions run the show now. You value deep security in your relationships, family ties might get stronger, and you could attract people who feel familiar, like home.
- Transiting Pluto in Leo: Romance is big, bold, and maybe a little dramatic. You’re drawn to passionate connections and might feel more creative or want to show off your talents to attract love.
- Transiting Pluto in Virgo: You notice all the little details about what makes relationships work. You might fix or heal old relationship patterns or get close to someone through shared daily routines.
- Transiting Pluto in Libra: Transformations come through one-on-one partnerships. This is prime time for attracting soulful, fair relationships or working through old issues in a balanced way.
- Transiting Pluto in Scorpio: Everything gets deeper and more intense. You want real intimacy- surface stuff won’t cut it now. There may be powerful bonds, big transformations, or a spicy edge to love.
- Transiting Pluto in Sagittarius: You’re looking for adventure and freedom in love. Connections with people from different backgrounds or cultures could pop up, and you crave honesty and excitement.
- Transiting Pluto in Capricorn: You’re focused on building relationships with a strong foundation. Ambition plays into love- you want to create something lasting and meaningful, maybe with someone solid and dependable.
- Transiting Pluto in Aquarius: Love gets unconventional. Friendships might turn into something more, or you’re open to nontraditional relationships. You’re drawn to what’s unique and innovative.
- Transiting Pluto in Pisces: Romance feels dreamy, forgiving, and even a little mystical. Boundaries soften, and you’re attracted to soulful, compassionate connections or creative partnerships.