Sudden shake-ups in love and money
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Uranus Square Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t jump into new relationships impulsively just because you want excitement.
- Try not to make big decisions about love or partnerships without thinking them through.
- Avoid spending a lot of money on things you don’t really need, especially if it’s on a whim.
- Don’t drastically change your appearance (like a major haircut or tattoo) just to “shake things up.”
- Hold off on making sudden breakups or giving ultimatums in relationships, unless you’re really sure it’s what you want.
- Don’t ignore your current commitments to chase after something or someone just because they seem new and different.
- Avoid borrowing money or starting joint financial ventures- risk-taking is higher now.
- Try not to rebel just for the sake of it, especially with loved ones.
- Don’t overlook your own needs by trying too hard to please someone you just met.
- Avoid being careless with your valuables or art; you might regret impulsive decisions later.
Do During This Transit
- Try something new in your love life- don’t be afraid to break out of your usual routine.
- Get creative with your wardrobe or appearance; it’s a good time to experiment with your style.
- Meet new people or hang out in new social circles- you might connect with someone interesting.
- Give your relationships a little space to grow; let yourself and your partner have some independence.
- Pick up a new hobby, especially something artsy or a little out there.
- Enjoy your own company and rediscover what makes you unique.
- Make changes in your home décor or surroundings to freshen up your vibe.
- Let go of relationships or patterns that feel stale- embrace what feels exciting and true to you.
- Stay open to surprises- sometimes the best stuff happens when you least expect it.
- Trust your instincts if you feel like you need more freedom or a different direction.
What’s Interesting About This Transit
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Love Affairs Upset by Social Scandal: According to Raphael’s “Manual of Astrology” (1898), Uranus squaring Venus could usher in “social ostracism through the sudden revelation of clandestine attachments,” meaning unexpected secrets in love could suddenly become public, causing embarrassment.
Source: Raphael, Manual of Astrology, 1898 -
Artistic Frustration and Dissonant Talents: In “Zadkiel’s Legacy” (1852), it’s suggested that art or musical talent may take “confounded and bewildering forms,” with the native’s taste running counter to all local opinion. You might feel inspired to make or enjoy bizarre or unconventional art that others find strange.
Source: Zadkiel, Zadkiel’s Legacy, 1852 -
Unexpected Dissipation of Estates: Alan Leo writes in “Everyday Astrology” (c.1900) that this transit sometimes hints at “fitful changes to be expected in legacies or benefices,” which means sudden news or reversals about inheritances, often from women.
Source: Alan Leo, Everyday Astrology, c.1900 -
Fashion Eccentricities: In “Astrology for All” (1899), Llewellyn George wrote that a person’s style may become “fantastic and prone to shocking the bourgeois.” In other words, you might suddenly want to dress differently or adopt a shocking image, and people may gossip about it behind your back.
Source: Llewellyn George, Astrology for All, 1899 -
Stormy Female Friendships: From Dr. Simmonite’s “The Complete Arcana of Astral Philosophy” (1850s), this transit can create “frenzied fluctuations” in friendships with women, and sometimes even a “ruinous quarrel” with a female friend who makes unpredictable choices.
Source: Dr. Simmonite, The Complete Arcana of Astral Philosophy, 1850s -
Sudden Changes in Musical Tastes: “Raphael’s Key to Astrology” (1861) points out that one may become “violently enamored of foreign airs and exotic harmonies” and be drawn to music that’s way outside your usual playlists.
Source: Raphael, Raphael’s Key to Astrology, 1861 -
Unusual Dreams About Love: Sepharial’s “Manual of Occultism” (1895) says this transit sometimes brings “phantasmagoric visions or dream-visitations, tinted with affection but rarely peace,” so odd or unsettling dreams about old crushes or lost loves can pop up.
Source: Sepharial, Manual of Occultism, 1895 -
Trouble with Money from Entertainment: William Lilly’s “An Introduction to Astrology” (1852) mentions that Venus-Uranus difficulties can mean “pecuniary disappointment at the gaming-table or Theatre,” so you might lose money on risky, fun bets or tickets.
Experiencing This Transit
When Uranus is squaring your natal Venus, you’ll probably feel like your love life and personal tastes have been plugged into a live wire. It’s like the universe is nudging you to shake things up- sometimes in exciting ways, other times in stressful ones. You might find yourself bored with your usual routines (especially romantic, social, or creative ones) and craving something or someone totally different. Your feelings can flip on a dime, and things that used to make you happy might suddenly annoy you. At the same time, people might see you as a little unpredictable or “out there.” Relationships- whether romantic, friendships, or even business partnerships- tend to feel unsettled or unstable right now.
Challenges during this transit
- Unpredictable relationships: You might find yourself getting bored or restless way more easily. Sudden arguments or even breakups can happen, sometimes out of nowhere, and sometimes just because you want more freedom or aren’t feeling heard.
- Attraction to the unconventional: You might be drawn to people who are totally different from your usual type, or who seem a little rebellious or unavailable. That can be exciting, but risky- especially if you’re in a relationship already.
- Impulsive spending: It’s easy to blow money right now on things that catch your eye, especially tech gadgets, wild experiences, or unusual pieces of art or fashion. The “buyer’s remorse” can hit hard after the excitement wears off.
- Feeling misunderstood: The way you express love or affection might seem weird or offbeat to people close to you, leading to confusion or even accidental hurt feelings.
- Social conflicts: Friend groups might be shaken up, or you might suddenly want to break away from cliques and join with new, more progressive or eccentric people, which can feel unsettling for everyone.
Opportunities during this transit
- Creative breakthroughs: If you’re artistic or enjoy expressing yourself, this is an amazing time to try out new techniques, media, or styles. You might invent something weird and wonderful, or find your “voice” in a totally new way.
- Fresh connections: You could meet and befriend people from all walks of life- folks you wouldn’t have crossed paths with otherwise. These encounters can expand your mind and open up new opportunities.
- Freedom to redefine relationships: If something in your love life has felt stuck, you’ll feel brave enough to make changes- maybe trying an open relationship, redefining commitment, or just having candid talks that set you free from old pain.
- Bold personal style: You’ll have the guts to change up your look, finally dye your hair that wild color, try a new way of dressing, or decorate your space in a way that truly feels like *you*.
- Letting go of what’s stale: This transit can break old habits around seeking approval from others and help you connect to what really feels good and authentic. It’s a nudge to shake off what no longer fits and try something unexpected.
How the Sign of Transiting Uranus Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Uranus.
- Transiting Uranus in Aries: The urge for independence gets turned way up. You might feel restless in relationships and crave excitement, even if it means being a little impulsive or surprising others.
- Transiting Uranus in Taurus: Financial surprises and changes in your values are the focus. You might want to rebel against routines, especially around money and comfort- expect shakeups in stability or spending.
- Transiting Uranus in Gemini: Communication gets edgy. You could attract unusual people or try new ways of connecting. New ideas about love or money might come fast, but don’t be shocked if others can’t keep up.
- Transiting Uranus in Cancer: Emotional security feels unpredictable. There might be sudden shifts at home or in family dynamics. Your feelings about who and what feels “safe” can change a lot now.
- Transiting Uranus in Leo: Drama and attention become more exciting but less predictable. You may crave more freedom to express yourself in love, which could lead to bold moves or even creative shakeups.
- Transiting Uranus in Virgo: Daily routines, health habits, and work life all get a jolt. You might rethink your approach to responsibility in both relationships and finances, maybe ditching what you see as useless routines.
- Transiting Uranus in Libra: Partnerships and social interactions go through surprises or fresh starts. You might pull away from relationships that feel restrictive or suddenly meet people with unique views on love.
- Transiting Uranus in Scorpio: Intensity and intimacy might surface in unpredictable ways. Power dynamics in relationships can go off-script and you could be fascinated with taboo or unconventional connections.
- Transiting Uranus in Sagittarius: You’ll likely crave adventure and freedom in love. Beliefs about relationships may change overnight- you might be drawn to people from different backgrounds or want to travel spontaneously.
- Transiting Uranus in Capricorn: Traditions and rules about love and money could feel stifling, and you’ll want to shake them up. Sudden changes might hit your career or status, affecting how you handle relationships.
- Transiting Uranus in Aquarius: You could feel even more rebellious and open to non-traditional relationships. Friendships might blur into romance, or you’ll attract eccentric people who challenge your old ways.
- Transiting Uranus in Pisces: Emotional boundaries get weird. Spiritual or creative awakenings could change who and what you’re attracted to- you might even have “love at first sight” moments that feel magical but fleeting.