“I Love Beauty”
The first secret to know about a Libra in love is that it does NOT refer to a sun-sign Libra person. Only someone with the planet Venus in Libra will be a “Libra in love.” (Find out your Venus sign with our Venus Sign Calculator.)
The Venus in Libra lover is a bit of a dichotomy. You know how there are two sides to a coin? Well, Venus in Libra is that coin. Venus in Libra absolutely needs to be in a committed relationship, but can be emotionally detached. They express affection lightly, not dramatically or emotionally. When a Venus in Libra loves you, they will treat you with fairness, consideration, and gentleness. This lover is graceful, beautiful, and diplomatic. But diplomatic simply means that they will tell you whatever you want to hear. They will lie to the ones they love if it means keeping the peace. This is what we call “charming,” a trait they share with airy Gemini. But unlike Gemini, Libra does not want to stir any waves. Venus in Libra loves beauty, which is really balance and harmony. The Libra lover wants their relationship to be balanced and harmonious. Besides the little white diplomatic lies they tell, Venus in Libra is a fair and considerate lover.
Venus in Libra will court you by taking you to admire beauty in some form, whether it’s theater, music, or any art. But most of all, they simply want to be together with you. Libra feels whole when together with its partner. Wherever you go together, they will exhibit graceful manners.
Sometimes, they can be so fair and balanced about the relationship that it can feel more like a business partnership. They’ll want to split everything down the middle. They will make sure you do your share of the housework, bill-paying, date-planning, errands, etc. Everything must be 50/50.
They don’t like anything unpleasant. They can avoid unpleasant emotional interchanges, thus limiting intimacy. See the dichotomy? Libra is “the relationship sign” but Venus in Libra needs peace, tranquility, and harmony more than intimacy. Libra is an air sign.
The Venus in Libra lady is definitely beautiful and dresses with style. She is likely to have some type of artistic ability. She conducts herself in public with style and grace. Grace Kelly and Rita Hayworth had Venus in Libra, as does Beyonce Knowles.
The Venus in Libra man is turned on by beautiful women. Even if he’s in a committed relationship, a pretty face gets him every time. He’s romantically attracted to beauty in all its forms. He is a lover, but not necessarily a faithful one. It’s possible for a Venus in Libra man to maintain two long-term relationships, simultaneously. In the Libra lover’s defense, they find it extremely difficult to make up their mind. They avoid giving direct answers because they’re always weighing their options, seeing both sides of every issue (what makes them great politicians and diplomats). Bill Clinton and Charlie Sheen both have Venus in Libra.
How to Love Venus in Libra
To make your Venus lover feel loved, be light and friendly with them. Don’t be messy with your emotions. Don’t be upset with them when they can’t make up their mind. Understand that they see both sides of an issue, and help them decide by talking things out. They do like to talk things out. Let them know you’ll put your half into the relationship. They want a relationship based on equal sharing and cooperation. Be fair with them; never take unfair advantage of them because they will not stand for it.
Don’t be loud or harsh with them. For enjoyment and pleasure, take them to beautiful places, fine museums, and high class restaurants. Dress with style when you go out with them. They want to be surrounded by beauty. Give them roses and fine perfumes as gifts. At home, they need a calm and peaceful environment. They appreciate dim lighting, scented candles, and fancy silverware. They don’t like to deal with messes. If you clean their home, they may keep your around just for that. Of course, they will repay you somehow. If you’re willing to commit your equal share in this partnership, you’ll be rewarded with a fair lover who always looks good in pictures.
Note: Your Venus sign shows your characteristics in close relationships, not necessarily in any other area of your life. Conjunctions to Venus from the outer planets will alter your love style.