Gemini in Love

Gemini in Love

By on June 26, 2011     257 Comments

“I Love Variety, Communication, and Networking”

The first secret to know about a Gemini in love is that it does NOT refer to a sun-sign Gemini person. Only someone with the planet Venus in Gemini will be a “Gemini in love.” (Venus Sign Calculator)

The Gemini lover is the charmer of the zodiac. They express affection verbally and cleverly, but they only feel it skin-deep. You may be tempted to believe one loves you because of how excited they get when you’re together, but they get just as excited when chasing a butterfly or ordering dinner. It’s hard to tell if one is sincerely interested in you because Venus in Gemini is talkative and friendly with everybody and their mother. Venus in Gemini is a kid at heart, completely at peace with lying if it suits them. Like children, they are also endlessly curious. They’re into everything (it’s been said that they have “a finger in every pie.”). The Gemini lover’s taste is always changing, and they have a constant need for new stimuli. The only thing that you can be sure of about your Gemini lover is that they will not be faithful in a traditional relationship. Monogamy is absolutely impossible for someone with Venus in Gemini. (If you happen to have Venus in Gemini and are claiming that you have been faithful in a relationship, please comment at the bottom of this article; we’d like to perform some tests on you, because you, dear, must be some sort of mutant.)

To be fair, the Gemini need for variety is not so much sexual as it is a need for mental stimulation. The Gemini lover thrives on new information. Gemini is the “net-worker” of the zodiac. They have a need to disseminate information and connect people. This is why they’re driven to talk to everyone, at the lunch counter, around town, on the street, and in bed. And they are good at it, too. They are never at a loss for words, having enviable verbal skills. They carry themselves uprightly in public, fitting right in to any social crowd. At parties, they are the center of every talk circle. They go home from a party knowing what everyone was talking about, wearing, and eating. And they took it all in within the first half hour of the party. It’s as if Venus in Gemini has a receptor antenna on top of one’s head, receiving all sorts of information. They are totally aware of the people in their environment. Not the feelings of people (like the water signs are) but rather the rational thoughts and ideas of people. Robert Pattinson and Megan Fox both have Venus in Gemini, as did President JFK.

The Gemini lover never really means any harm; these are not fighters like Aries, nor manipulators like Scorpio. They can’t understand why you’re upset that they left you home alone with your boring movie while they went to look for something more fun to do. They are sincerely confused when you get angry at them for forgetting your birthday. They want you to understand that the reason they forgot your birthday is because the lady at the lunch counter had the most interesting story to tell, so your Gemini lover never made it your house that night. They are like easily distracted children. And you always forgive them because they have the most charming smiles and always say the right words. They like to remain friends with all of their past lovers, they cannot bear to end friendships. Friendships mean more to them than romances.

They may like to talk during sex (although Mars in Gemini is more indicative of that). Actually, they may prefer to talk about sex rather than doing it. Unless, of course, it’s a threesome. They cannot turn down a threesome. Males with this placement may seem feminine at times, but this does not mean they are necessarily homosexual. Gemini is considered an asexual sign. They can feel intimately close with both sexes. But intimately close for a Gemini is always only skin-deep. Gemini intimacy is a friendly companionship of a detached nature, like an acquaintance. This is the most emotionally-detached sign of the zodiac.

If they love you, they’ll show it lightly and playfully; no heavy emotional displays or extravagant gifts. Theirs is not a passionate-type of love. There will be no deep bonding; they simply don’t have the time. This charming lover will pile on the flattering comments and witty conversation. They’ll court you by taking you to a movie, and they’ll want to discuss the movie afterward over dinner or coffee. Or they may prefer to skip the movie and jump right into the discussion. They’ll talk to you for hours. They are great conversationalists; they have a fundamental need to communicate everything. In the past, Venus in Gemini courted with charming, folded-paper messages and phone calls. Today, they’ll shower you with witty text messages and emails. They’ll take you to all the happening events, and they don’t mind if you invite extra friends to come along. The more the merrier for Venus in Gemini. At dance clubs, they have just as much fun chatting with the bartender, the DJ, the bouncer, and the bathroom attendant as they do dancing. When they have your head spinning from all the social entanglements and 100-mile-per-hour conversations, then it may be safe to guess that they’re interested in you. Enjoy it while you can because it will not last very long. They’ll move on to another flavor tomorrow.

On the positive side, the male Gemini lover is probably the only male in the zodiac that is not attracted to a person based on their looks. The Gemini lover is romantically attracted to brains. He wants a smart, intellectual lover who knows how to carry on a decent conversation. Sure, half-dressed, sexy women with cleavage may distract him for a moment, but he will not be romantically satisfied with such women. When it comes to physical appearance, Venus in Gemini is more attracted to a skinny, athletic-type than a rounded, full-figure woman. But regardless of looks, intelligence and quick wit is what turns them on.  Peppy, perky, outgoing and/or tomboyish types also turn them on.

How to Love Venus in Gemini

To make your Gemini lover feel loved, be a listener. They need immediate sounding boards for all of their thoughts. If you do this for them, they will feel very close to you. But you must also be talkative, or else they will get bored and leave you. Provide mental stimulation by asking them lots of questions about any subject. Be peppy and outgoing. They need variety, so be interesting. If you have a split personality, even better. To keep a Gemini happy you must allow them freedom to come and go as they please. If you try to cage them in at all, they will disappear. Never mention “commitment” or “marriage” because they will disappear. Don’t be boring, wanting to stay home all the time, because they will leave you. If you’re detecting a pattern here, pat yourself on the back. The Gemini lover is never a permanent lover; they will leave you. Gemini is the first air sign and, like air, comes and goes as it pleases. It’s not that they don’t love you. It’s simply that their need for variety and constant new stimuli inhibits their chances for a lasting relationship or for intimate bonding. If you provide enough freedom, mental stimulation, and forgiveness, your Gemini lover will always return to you after flying off for a bit. You must ask yourself if your nerves can handle that.

Note: Conjunctions to Venus from the outer planets will greatly alter your love style. Your Venus sign shows your characteristics in close relationships, not necessarily in any other area of your life.

Read more about Venus in Gemini. Read about the Air Sign Love Language since Gemini is an air sign.

Find out your Venus sign with our Venus Sign Calculator.

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257 comments on “Gemini in Love

  1. It’s very obvious that whoever wrote this hates people worth Venus in Gemini. SERIOUSLY!

    • Anjelia on said:

      don’t worry venous in Scorpio report is even worse. It sounds scary. But i did not take offence to it. But i think they are all a bit exaggerated to make them funny.

    • zadiifh on said:

      Hello anne how are you?

    • Vimukthi Pankaja on said:

      I have Venus in Gemini and I fell in love with the writer. What’s written is 100% accurate. It’s written by a person who truly understand the Venus in Gemini (unaffected by other planetary placements and I love this article for it accuracy. I’m a big fan of that accuracy thing

    • I agree! The author must have had their heart broken by this Venus sign…

    • I’m a 28 year old Sun, Mercury and Venus in Gemini person, and I have never been unfaithful in a relationship. Ever.

      • PowerPuffGirl on said:

        I have sun in aries and Venus in Gemini and i’m not unfaithful nor do i like to be. Unless my partner is boring or critical (like virgos) and i dont enjoy them, then i may occassionally seek the friendly companion of fun friends but intentionally cheating or flirting? Just for the sake of having more than one partners… Not my style. I also believe in marriage- fun with a little tradition ones! Marriage creates strong intimate lawful bonds. I feel that my venus in gemini just wants a little of everything in one. I want A fun, clever and spontaneous yet responsible, ambitious and supporting husband. We want a variety in just one partner (like ourselves), what we venus in gemini want is a balance of personality (that way we will never have to go around sleeping with multiple others… as your article says – and btw, your views of venus in gemini people are rather exaggerated & really extreme)

    • Anonymous on said:

      True, I am a 36 year old Gemini female. I’ve had two serious boyfriends, one I married. And that’s my entire love life. Now I am divorced. I’m both relationships, I held on no matter what, only to be left alone.

    • Therapist on said:

      No, this IS DEAD ON! Sorry if you’re in denial. This is exactly what yhey are and not only is my son this way but my EX bf of 2 on and off years. Worst emotional relationship ever. Run fast before your feelings go more than superficial. They do NOTHING but walk out on u over and over. Very immature passive aggressive needs meds.

  2. Yes, I have Venus in Gemini and never physically or emotionally cheated on my partner. But mentally yes one time i used to think of other guys during sex (i’m so ashamed but i try to be honest). I do not like to lie but yes i can lie if it suits me. I love very strongly but do not fall in love quite easily but yes i do not always show my love in the normal romantic way. I treat people how they treat me and give more than i get in relationships. I do not like parties as the crowds drain me mentally so i prefer small gatherings and one on one socializing. I am finding similarities but huge differences in this article. I am not an extrovert i’m an introverted extrovert because i do not go out or party but because of my sun which is also in Gemini i can socialize quite well. I prefer movies, restaurants, beaches (which has alot of people i know but i love the openness of the place), small intimate get-togethers at home, hikes, and anything to do with outdoors. Honestly i hate enclosed spaces with large crowds and anything that restricts me and my movements.

    • Thank you
      This article is rubbish.. I am a gemini… im not a cheater, and I’m ready to be married. As far as commitments? I love them. I have social anxiety, so you won’t see me fluttering my wings. I really bet a Scorpio or a Capricorn wrote this.

    • You sound like me but I’m more of an extroverted introvert because I am more of a homebody, cancer sun would have a lot to do with that for me and a 7 life Path and 7 destiny reinforce that hermit streak. My Venus and mars in Gemini are keep me from completely ditching the human race and living alone in the mountains

  3. I just found out that I am a Venus in Gemini, never once have I ever cheated on a partner. However, I have been tempted… my Sun sign is Taurus, Moon in Gemini.

  4. I’m Venus in Gemini and have been faithful. 27.4.86 – 11.30 am – Zagreb

    Yet I will admit I thought about cheating and maybe would have. And I DID have a chance or two but I decided not to. I understand what it means that I “will” cheat, but maybe it has more to do with the energies and not with the actual act.

  5. Gemini sun, mercury, venus & mars. Moon in Aquarius. Never wanted to cheat. Hate lies. Rather be on my own than with a love cheat. Cheating is usually deep insecurity or deep vanity. I really don’t have either. Very independent with a honest, open heart. Nothing would make me cheat as I’m true to myself. Why would I intentionally want to hurt someone in that way? I’m 47 and have met some great men in my life. Love life. Have a beautiful child. Not all live so honestly but that usually puts me off. Why be with someone who wants to be somewhere else? Makes no sense to me when you could be enjoying your own life independently but happily. Why get in a relationship if my intention is to be elsewhere? Don’t get it. When I find a honest heart my eyes will be more open again to being part of a loving couple. Otherwise, I’m not selling out to someone dishonest & sly.

    • It is your moon in Aquarius. that gives you your loyalty integrity and honesty.

      • if so, then I’m very grateful.. although with so many Gemini planets, I do wonder if Gemini’s get a really bad press.. certainly not in my nature to be a cheat.. can’t abide all that dishonesty & insincerity.. what a complete waste of the precious time we’re given..

  6. Hi I have venus in Gemini and am not a cheat. Am I a mutant?

  7. Shahidy16 on said:

    I’m venus in gemini..and i’m absolutely loyal in my relationship..maybe it’s because i’m a cancer and my moon is in capricorn.i think i’ve that loyalty sense of cancer and capricorn 😉 ^_^

  8. Hi there, thanks for this post! I’m a female Venus in Gemini (as well as Sun, Moon, Rising, and Mercury) and am nearing my third year anniversary with one partner. I’ve never cheated on any partner despite extended periods of long distance and even times when we were not on monogamous terms. Besides a few brief phases, I’ve mostly had serious and seriously intimate relationships. Would love your opinion – june 1st, 1992 6:19 AM in Tucson, Arizona.

    • I am not an expert but maybe you have placements of pluto and saturn in the 5th or 7th house. And other aspects to the planets in your natal chart. As well as the aspects in the synastry and composite chart with your partner.

  9. Hi, pls I am get confused of
    this, I was born on May
    17, 1988 what kind of
    Gemini planets do I belong.

    • Astrology Library on said:

      On the day you were born, Venus moved from Gemini into Cancer at 4:27 pm (GMT). Because of this, you would need to know your birth time to know your Venus sign for sure. (You can also read about Venus in Cancer to see which one you relate to most.) Regardless of birth time, you have Moon and Mercury in Gemini. Your Sun is in Taurus. I hope that helps.

  10. I was born 4th july 80 can you tell me something?

  11. I am not a cheater. Nor have I ever cheated. BUT everything else is very right. And if there is no mental simulation I teND to get ever antsy and bored.

    June 22 1988 @21:54

  12. Apparently, I’m a mutant. I greatly value deep bonding and companionship. The idea of playing the field before I settle down does somewhat appeal to me though. I’ve never related to the social aspect of Gemini. I’ve always been more of an introvert rather than extrovert. The last thing I am is a social butterfly. Socially awkward and insecure, slow and hesitant, I stutter, I’m self-conscious.

    Moon in Virgo, Rising Scorpio and Gemini Sun.

    20th June, 1988, 19:52, Reykjavík, Iceland.

  13. Saphyree on said:

    HAHA Omg this is true!!!! Im.taurus sun but i Can never be faithful!!! Lol Gemini problems

  14. I am a girl with sun in taurus moon in pisces and venus in dob is 11 may 1996. 4.15 am.. i am in love with another guy having sun in taurus moon in scorpio and venus in gemini… for ovr 2 yrs… bt i ws nvr abl 2 tl him..i am compatible with him? I really cant xprs my true feelings to him….will i evr cheat him??.. or he evr cheat me.!? We r jst mor thn frndz….nly onc in lyf he sd he lov cnt marry…as he has family issue…i dont knw wht 2 do?? …i nvr flt ths strng 2 any1 in my lyf…he s my 1st love….he hd 2 rltns b4… bt he completely opn up evrytng 2 me…ll i evr get him..?? Plzzzzzz…… hlpp me undrstndd…..plzzzz do replyyy!!!!!!….

  15. Hey …. im lara im cancer and i have venus in gemini ……. and i am so faithful

  16. Florina mos on said:

    IM a Gemini and I ve got Venus in Gemini too. You can’t get more Gemini than this. No cheating. No fingers in all pies. I’m very faithful and committed. Very inaccurate article. You can’t just put everybody in the same matrix.

  17. I’m a sun Gemini and Venus Gemini and I am nothing like the description. Bday:June 9th 1988. I’m extremely loyal and very introverted! Am I reading my Venus sign wrong?

  18. Hi there, I am Stacy. dont know if you are still reading comments of this article. will be really happy if I can receive aby replies. 🙂
    I was born on June 27th in 1990. According to my friend, I am a Germini in Venus. I had four relationships. Its hard for me to admit but I cheated on all of them. Not physically, it is emtional infidelity. Felt mentally dependant on the other guy, instead of my boyfriends. I cant bear physical infideltiy. All distant relationships, so I was kind of getting tired of maintaining at the end.
    I am now in a relationship with a guy I really like! But at the same time, I still have feelings for another guy….. How is that possible? Could it be explained by the star sign or other factors may affect ad well?
    Some traits mentioned in the article do sound like me. It is true that most of the times I am friendly and talkative. And selective of telling the truth. Yet, a net-worker doesnt sound like me.
    Could you tell me more about myself?? hahaha the question sounds awkward I know. Just want to know myself better in any possible ways.

  19. I am a Venus in Gemini and Mars in Gemini. I have been married 8 years and never has cheating crossed my mind. I do not even play around online or have close male friends.
    I am 39 but when I was younger I did cheat on occasion. I learned from my mistakes and avoid those things that I know lures couple into infidelity such as going to bars/clubs with my girlfriends, chatting on FB with males friends and ex’s and the other usual pitfalls.

  20. I am a Gemini in Venus. 29 June 1966. Never cheated! Extremely loyal. Sun sign Cancer, moon sign Scorpio. I have Venus in the 12th house. Also Mars in Gemini in the first house. I read a lot and am very talkative but only to people I know. Can converse on any topic under the sun. Driven to be knowledgable. Good article…but loyalty is my strong point and what I expect. True about the emotional detachment. A great need for freedom.

    • My birthday June 29 Sun in cancer moon in virgo venus in the 6 house mars in Aries

    • Yay more fellow June 29 peeps.
      I am born in 1979 though but pretty much everything you said i could have easily written about myself. I have an intense hunger for Knowledge and know a bit of something about most topics which comes in handy at times. I also have a ridiculously good memory, sometimes I wonder how much more can I fit in there, shame I didn’t put it to better use.

  21. Lesley-Ann Maxwell on said:

    I am a Gemini woman and I have never cheated!! How do I know if I am in Venus?! Thank you


  22. fieryvenus on said:

    Me and my husband is Venus in Gemini but he is faithful so far. I was faithful so far before I went into the whole game and saw how amazing it is to have a lot of variety. Can you do some tests on my husband’s astrology? haha

  23. Hello!

    How would a mars in capricorn affect the personality of a man with venus in gemini?

  24. I am a gemini lover in 12 house also my AC ,Mercury and moon in gemini on 1 house but i feel i am not all of that is the other plants there effecting the character.. I get bord but not easily after i tried every thing i give up and move and never come back but i get easily on another relationship. Is that normal by the way my sun is in cancer second house

    • Also, i am in relationships with man with Capricorn sun and the venous in Aquarius, Mercury capricorn and mars libra do you think we match?

  25. Venus in Gemini, never cheated, but it is in the 10th conjuncting my midheaven in Taurus… Cancer sun Taurus moon, Mars in Sagittarius… opposing Venus.

  26. jackie on said:

    Well my sun sign is Aries (more evolved one), moon & Neptune in Sagittarius, Mercury & Ascendant in Pisces, Jupiter & Saturn both in Virgo. Unfortunately my Venus is in Gemini.

    As far as love & relationships are concerned, I absolutely can’t relate to this article. I’m more of a traditional type, I prefer to be courted rather than the dating. I also want the guy to dominate & not me (despite me being an Aries) & I take relationships very seriously & am very cautious before I say YES to a suitor because I want to make sure that the guy will fit into my life & that what we’ll be having is a serious relationship & not just a casual fling or worst a fwb or a pseudo-relationship. Sure I get crushes with more than one person but whenever I’m in a relationship or in a courtship, for some reason my interest in other guys disappears completely let alone dating them. Admittedly I’m also shy & introverted so I absolutely not a flirty type of being. I even get criticized for being non-social as I feel uncomfortable in parties or any large gatherings & that I need to be more sociable. I’m easily get jealous though.

    I cringed at what is written here so much that I didn’t finish reading it & went straight here to comment.

    • jackie on said:

      Oh & my bf is a Capricorn sun, mercury, neptune & venus and to be honest, being a dominant Cappy in his chart, he displays well the typical Capricorn traits and to be honest we are both very happy with each other, we’re both family-oriented, practical, thrifty & we share the same values when it comes to morals & religion. I can’t ask for anything more from him despite what astrology says about our compatibility.

      Can you do a test for both me as an individual & also in me & my bf’s relationship compatibility.

  27. This is bull I’m a Sun in cancer moon in virgo reading this is horrible when I’m in love I’m faithful in fact no one else even exist to me I’m laid back and down to earth I don’t wanna be the center of attention and I don’t talk to strangers I’m a to myself type of person more like an observer ….try again this is not accurate

  28. I have Venus in Gemini and have pretty much been faithful to all my girlfriends. I’ve had lots of girlfriends over the years, but usually only date one at a time. I’m cancer sun, gemini venus, sag rising, sag mars. So I wouldn’t say we’re all unfaithful. I have never settled down though because I don’t want to be tied down, but when I’m with someone I am pretty much faithful for the most part.

  29. Debbie Lyons on said:

    Feel free to do a study on me because I am a Venus in Gemini, and although I did have an affair, it was while I was in the process of getting a divorce.

  30. Lady Rutkus on said:

    I have Venus in Gemini and I’m extremely loyal. It doesn’t matter if we are not together yet, I will remain faithful until we both agree we should part ways. I obsessively care about people’s feelings. Cancer is my moon sign so I’m really emotional and care for people.

  31. Georgina on said:

    Venus in Gemini here, 29 coming 30 soon and still haven’t been able to settle down.
    It’s like itchy feet syndrome after the initial buzz wears off.

    I’m not a serial cheater though I just get very bored to the point of actual depression, it’s a curse.

  32. ANNASTACIA on said:


  33. I’m a Leo sun Aquarius moon with Scorpio rising. I have been faithful in a relationship I think it’s because my Mars is in Cancer. (Along with my Gemini Venus) but this article is quite on point. But we can be faithful if we’re really in love or feel like we are.

  34. Priscilla on said:

    I have Venus in Gemini & there must be another aspect in my chart that keeps me loyal. You need to start testing, because I am not a mutant. I am very romantic l, committed, and loyal. I do though, leave boring movies and am in constant curiosity. I do not talk to people very much though. I am very private, and a bit shy. I do talk my lovers head off though- (&my family), people i know/love.

  35. My sun sign is Cancer
    My Venus is in Gemini
    I would say around 80% of this article is true. I crave intellectual stimulation, its a complete turn on to me. I am very creative and my writing shows a lot of passion. I get easily bored with the same old routine in relationships. I don’t agree with the part of this article stating that we cannot be faithful. I have been very faithful in my past relationships

  36. I am May 24th, Taurus-Gemini cusp. I have been married to the same loving Taurus man for 32 yrs. I have NEVER physically cheated, but fantasize about other men, my husband allows me too , it gets him excited. He lets me do and be whatever I need to and I’ve always been faithful. I allow him the space he needs too. I am SUPER intelligent and need only 4 hours of sleep. I wake up excited for the day. I enjoy a man with brains over brawns or looks. I gave my soul to my husband and he to me. I do flirt, and have many admirers, but my husband lets me play, he loves it when another guy wants me.

  37. Miranda on said:

    I’m a Taurus! I am a Venus in Gemini and I’ve been with the same person for 6 years, no cheating, no wandering eye! I’m not finding any of this to be true for me :/

  38. I have Venus mercury and ascendant n gemini. I agree with some of this but not too much cause im also a Taurus sun and scorpio moon, so i am intense and i bond deeply. And i won’t leave u so Easily

  39. Mutant here lol .. my Venus is in Gemini and i’ve been in a fairhful relationship since March .. it’s not as difficult as you make it seem 😉

  40. Cancer in Sun, Aquarius in Moon, Virgo in Rising, Gemini in Venus.

    My Cancer sun makes me very faithful and very committed in a relationship but I feel as if my Gemini in Venus makes me get bored easily. It’s true I HATE POSSESSIVENESS AND JEALOUSY!! I do love very hard but I dont fall in love easily. I dated a Taurus man for 2 years, he was possessive and jealous but I didnt mind it. I guess it’s because when you really like someone you dont mind those types of things. Unfortunately we broke up, but now Im dating a Scorpio with Scorpio in Venus. HE IS INTENSE! Very possessive, but we’ve been dating for 10 months, so I’m used to it.

    I’ve flirted with other guys, I’ve had summer flings and I have to be honest I didn’t feel very committed to them. They were just a fun experiment.

  41. Thomas Cunningham on said:

    This is more inaccurate than accurate…I am a gemini and lying is something I don’t do…I despise liars.I’ve never cheated on any of my partners and I have turned down many threesomes and have never had one!

  42. Virgo_Lover on said:

    I am a gemini and I am ruled my mercury NOT Venus so yeah I just like a Virgo that’s why my name is Virgo_Lover but I’m a gemini.

  43. Libra rises on said:

    Ive got Sun in Cancer and venus in Gemini.
    Venus is in 9th house, trine Pluto (orb under 1 degree) sextile Neptune, square Uranus and Saturn.
    I have never cheated and neither will I. Tho no less than 3 earth venuses cheated on their husbands/boyfriend with me. 2 scorpios and 1 taurus. Astrology is to complicated to make such simple conclusions as to say that all gemini venuses cheats. Some people in bad relationships cheat. I end mine and walk on. I still like the articles on this site, so thanks for them.

  44. Maleficent on said:

    I’m a sun Taurus, Aquarius rising, Venus in Gemini & was married 18 years to a Leo, Leo rising, mars in Virgo. I NEVER cheated or wanted to. He cheated on me, hence the “was married”. In true Taurean style I stuck it out that extra 10 years, quit having sex with him, & went to the toy store. When I did leave, I met my soul connection. He’s the last “notch in the headboard” – #5. I’m 38 years old. I relate to the creativity & intellectual side of my Venus, but not the sexual or talkative side. I’ve been a walking contradiction from birth.

  45. My birth chart is———Ascendant 1st house ” Gemini with the planet Venus in the 1st house”

    Sun in——“Cancer”
    Moon in——–“Sagittarius”
    Mercury in—— ” Leo”
    Venus in——-“Gemini”
    Mars in———–“Leo”

    Does anybody know about the Ascendant and Venus in the Gemini sign combo? I’m getting very little feedback from various astrology sites.

  46. I actually feel shocked,amazed and disturbed after reading this..This has to be for me the most accurate written article on Venus in Gemini.. I have this exact same placement in my astrology chart. This woman I hooked up with 2 years ago has this same placement in Venus. The 1st night we went out we had sex and felt like we both had known each other from the past, really weird. The crazy thing was it wasn’t the sex and we were not in love,although for the 1st year we were confused about the whole thing,but we had to see each other every day and with no sex. We are both attractive people. When we go out to a club to dance the women hit on me and the men hit on her without fail. To top it off I’m not sexually attracted to her and she is very very good looking and she meets guys all the time and has short relationships with them when she gets bored and It doesn’t even bother me. I see a woman that I like I’m fixated on her and I strike up a conversation with her an I’m not even hitting on her and then 1 hour later I’m at the supermarket or even Kohl’s department store and I find another woman thats hot staring at me smiling .in other words there is so much mental stimulation I can’t even concentrate for 5 minutes before I find another hot woman or she is the one who noticed me…My friend and I are the same way when it comes to Venus in gemini.. Both are sun signs are in Cancer. My ascendant sign or 1st house is also in Gemini with the planet Venus in my 1st house also if you can believe that.. Double Gemini and Double Venus and my Saturn is in Gemini although it isn’t as important as the other gemini’s with Venus at least that what I kind of figured out so far. By the way I cheated on my ex-wife so much in the 1st 2 years of our marriage. She is a triple Leo. Her ascendant, sun and Venus sign are all in Leo. She is gorgeous, blond and she use to model for Macy’s when she was 18 until she turned 22…after we were married her attitude changed. She said I’m her life now and hanging with my friends put her in bad mood. I felt forced to go to all her family functions in Orange County which was once a month since she had a big family and if I didn’t go her family would talk shit about me that I didn’t go… That was it ,I felt caged and like I was put on a schedule. So I cheated on her with someone at work and group of friends I had was at work . The woman I cheated on her with is a Sun in Libra another air sign….lol . Just like this article on gemini said it wasn’t the sex it was the bad attitude from the ex and controlling person she is. Sex with the woman from work was 30% of the affair the other 70% was all mental. We could talk for hours and hours. Anyway– I’m still friends with first woman I mentioned in my comment and after 2 years of knowing her I will always want her as my best friend without a doubt. I still think it’s a little weird because a woman and a man who are heterosexual can be best friends is still odd to our family and friends. I commented to much already… Seriously! This article just described me on how I am at love and view love without missing a detail. Oh yeah by the way I’m a white male from Southern California and my cute best friend is from Baja California, Mexico..not that it makes a difference but I thought she was a white girl when I 1st met her online and she thought I was Latino because of my dark hair and tan and my eyes have a noticeable Latin look. It wasn’t until she gave me her number from the online dating site where we met that when she answered the phone her accent was distinctive right away… lol …and she knew I was white from my voice lol..She is the coolest, sexiest person I have ever met and sexually we have NOTHING – NADA- ZERO yet I would never give her up and that is the Truth.

  47. I am only commenting because u guys said that if I claim to be or to have been faithful… I was with my ex husband for 17yrs ( married 13 1 / 2) and up until yr.15 I was totally and completely faithful. To the point where I hadn’t even spoken with another man on the phone! And even the short month and a half that I strayed at yr 15 I didn’t actually have sex. I’m almost positive that I know why but you guys said u would run a test for you to see. I also can’t agree with that lying part. I can’t STAND liars which I have discovered is one of the reasons I don’t like most Gemini sub ppl.

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