Tension in relationships and self-worth.
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus square Sun transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t start big new relationships or commit to someone right away- feelings can be confusing, and your judgment about others might be off.
- Try not to make major purchases, especially things that are just for pleasure, like clothes, gadgets, or anything fancy- you might regret it later.
- Avoid serious conversations or confrontations about love or money- things could get blown out of proportion, and you might say something you don’t mean.
- Don’t ignore your own needs just to keep the peace or get others to like you- you might end up feeling resentful or taken advantage of.
- Skip comparing yourself to others, especially when it comes to looks or popularity- it’s easy to feel insecure during this time.
- Don’t overindulge- whether it’s sweets, shopping, or socializing. Moderation is key or you’ll feel drained or regret it later.
- Hold off on changing your appearance in a big way, like a dramatic haircut or a tattoo. You might not love the results after the transit passes.
- Avoid making promises just to please others or fit in- be honest about what you want and need.
- Don’t force creativity or push yourself too hard to be liked. Let things flow naturally and don’t stress about being perfect.
Do During This Transit
- Check in on your relationships. This transit might bring up a few tensions, so it’s a good time to talk things out and get on the same page with loved ones.
- Practice self-care. Be kind to yourself. Do something that makes you feel good, like a little pampering or spending time with supportive friends.
- Re-evaluate your values. Think about what really matters to you, especially when it comes to love, money, and personal style. It’s great for looking at what you truly want.
- Try creative activities. Art, music, or anything else creative can help you channel any extra or awkward energy in a positive way.
- Budge your spending. You might feel the urge to splurge or indulge, so it’s helpful to keep an eye on your finances and make smart choices.
- Resolve old conflicts. If there’s any lingering drama or misunderstandings, it could be the right moment to address them calmly.
- Treat yourself- within reason. Enjoy something you love, but don’t go overboard. Sometimes Venus square Sun can make us want “more,” so enjoy in moderation.
- Put effort into looking your best. If you want to update your style or try something new with your look, go for it! Just don’t make any super drastic changes you might regret later.
What’s interesting about this transit?
Venus square Sun isn’t one of those easy-breezy astrological events- it’s got a bit of an edge, and the ancient and obscure interpretations definitely pick up on that theme. Here are a bunch of odd, old-school takes on this transit pulled from centuries past and some not-so-common sources:
- Hesitation in Pleasure: Some medieval astrologers wrote that this transit brings “impediment in delights,” meaning you could feel pleasure, but not quite chase it, almost as if enjoyment comes with guilt attached.
- “Fruitless Gifts”: There are mentions in some Persian astrology texts of giving presents that end up being useless or unwanted, so you might find yourself offering something- a token, an apology, a compliment- that just doesn’t land.
- Candle Burnt at Both Ends: Renaissance astrology sometimes described Venus challenging the Sun as “using up one’s beauty too quickly,” a slightly dramatic way of saying you could overindulge, and then crash.
- Love’s Misunderstandings: There’s this superstition from ancient Greek astrology that people under this influence may “speak sweetly, yet miscommunicate their hearts,” so romantic messages might get a little scrambled.
- Clashing Arts: In early Italian astrology, it was believed that artists or creators with this transit might try to impress others, but their efforts fall flat, or critics misunderstand their style.
- “Fortune at Odds”: An old Arabic text warns that during Venus square Sun, “the desires of the heart and the will of the world move crosswise,” so you might want things that circumstances block.
Experiencing This Transit
So, what’s up when Venus is squaring your natal Sun? It kind of feels like your inner vibes (the Sun) and your way of loving or appreciating (Venus) are at odds. You might want to relax and enjoy yourself, but there’s some friction- like trying to sit on a comfy chair, only to realize there’s a weird lump you can’t quite get rid of. Little disappointments or awkwardness often show up around your relationships, self-worth, and pleasures.
Challenges during this transit
- Mixed Signals in Relationships: You could find yourself attracted to someone, but can’t seem to get on the same page. Let’s say you try to flirt or show affection, but it’s taken the wrong way, or the timing just feels “off.”
- Self-Doubt Pops Up: You might look in the mirror and suddenly feel less confident about your appearance or talents, even if nothing’s really changed.
- Overdoing It: Venus loves indulgence, and a square can push you to eat too much, spend too much, or stay out too late- then feel kind of blah after.
- Tension Around Money: Unexpected expenses can come up, or you might feel like you’re not getting paid what you’re worth, or that someone’s not appreciating your efforts.
- Feeling Underappreciated: Whether it’s at work, home, or with friends, you might sense others just don’t “see” what you bring to the table, and it can sting.
Opportunities during this transit
- Learning About Boundaries: Since this transit throws up tension, it’s a great time to figure out where you’re giving too much or expecting too much. You’ll spot imbalances a lot quicker.
- Improved Self-Awareness: That uncomfortable feeling? It’s showing you what truly matters to you in love and friendship- or what just isn’t working anymore.
- Creative Breakthroughs: Sometimes, creative people (even if you just doodle in your notebook!) experience inspiration after some initial frustration. Difficulties in expressing yourself could push you to try new forms or styles.
- Relationship Resets: Awkward moments are actually openings for honest talks. If something’s been swept under the rug, this transit sometimes gives you the guts (or the push) to clear the air.
- Saying “No”: You might finally realize where you’ve been overcommitting or people-pleasing, giving you the courage to step back and protect your energy a little better.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Sun
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: Sparks impatience in love and money matters- you’re way more impulsive and might jump before you look.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: Sensual cravings go up, but stubbornness can create friction in relationships or spending habits.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Communication gets flirty and restless- expect more social distractions but also misunderstandings.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions run high and you’ll want comfort, but moodiness or clinginess can cause tension with others.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: You crave attention and romance even more, but ego clashes or drama about affection can show up fast.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You notice flaws in love or money situations and might nitpick, making it easy to overthink simple things.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: You deeply want everything to be “fair”- there’s a push for harmony, but you might gloss over real problems to keep the peace.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensity and jealousy run high- passions flare up, but so do trust issues and emotional reactions.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You crave freedom and new experiences, so commitment feels stifling right now- be careful of promising more than you can deliver.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Practicality rules, and you may feel critical of others or pressure to “prove” your worth in relationships or with money.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Detachment is a theme- you could value friendship over romance but might also rebel against expectations or routine.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Romantic daydreams and escapism increase, but so does the potential for disappointment if reality doesn’t measure up to your hopes.