Transit Venus Square Natal Moon

Emotional tension in relationships

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus square Moon transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t make big decisions about relationships- your feelings might be all over the place.
• Try not to overspend or go on shopping sprees, since it’s easy to buy with your emotions right now.
• Avoid emotional confrontations or starting deep talks about old hurts- you might react more sensitively than usual.
• Don’t ignore your own needs to make others happy; there’s a chance you’ll end up feeling taken for granted.
• Try not to eat or drink as a way to comfort yourself- emotional cravings can be strong under this transit.
• Don’t gossip or get caught up in drama; misunderstandings can happen easily today.
• If you’re feeling lonely or insecure, avoid reaching out to someone just for reassurance- you might regret it later.
• Avoid making promises you’re not sure you can keep, especially in love or close friendships.
• Try not to dwell on old relationship wounds or let nostalgia pull you back into unhealthy patterns.
• Don’t ignore your emotions- bottling them up can make you moodier during this transit.

Do During This Transit

• Connect with friends or loved ones who make you feel comfortable- emotional support goes a long way now.
• Express your feelings, but don’t force big decisions about love or money. Just talk things out honestly.
• Do something creative, like art, music, writing, or decorating your space- it’s a good outlet for moods.
• Nurture yourself! Take time for self-care, like making your favorite comfort food or taking a relaxing bath.
• Pay attention to your needs- if you’re feeling sensitive, it’s okay to set boundaries and say no.
• Journal about your feelings, or talk to someone you trust to help process up-and-down emotions.
• Reflect on your relationships to spot any patterns that might need tweaking- emotional honesty can help.
• Watch a funny movie, play games, or do something light-hearted to lift your spirits if things get tense.
• Spend time in places that feel “safe” and comforting, whether that’s home, nature, or a cozy café.
• It’s normal to feel a bit off-balance- use this time to tune in and learn about what comforts you most.

What’s interesting about this transit?

Let’s dig up some lesser-known takes from old astrology books about Venus square your natal Moon. In ancient texts, this aspect has a few quirky or surprising interpretations you won’t always find online today:

• The 17th-century astrologer William Lilly claimed Venus square Moon could cause people to crave sweet foods more than usual- sometimes to the point of gluttony or tummy troubles.
• Some medieval Arabian astrologers believed this transit could bring a tendency to be swayed easily by flattery or seductive words, warning of “false counsel from a friend with fair speech.”
• Ancient Greek astrologers sometimes said this transit stirs up “hidden rivalries among women,” especially among sisters or female friends, even if they usually get along.
• There’s a tradition in some Renaissance texts that feelings of nostalgia or homesickness are heightened under this transit, even leading to impulsive trips or sudden changes in home decor.
• One rare interpretation describes a temporary “softening” of the heart, where the person is more likely to forgive old grievances, but also more easily hurt by careless words.
• Vettius Valens, a 2nd-century astrologer, hinted that during this transit, people may become unusually attached to objects with sentimental value- like old letters, jewelry, or even clothing.
• Some older Eastern texts link this aspect to dreams rich with symbolism about family, lost loves, or past emotional wounds.

Experiencing This Transit

When Venus forms a square to your natal Moon, emotions can get stirred up in interesting ways. Venus is about love, pleasure, beauty, and connection. The Moon is your emotions, inner needs, habits, and even your home life. So when they clash in a tense square aspect, you might feel pulled in two directions- wanting what feels good, but also needing emotional comfort and security. Relationships, moods, and even your self-care routines can all feel a little off-balance right now. Let’s look closer at what you might notice:

Challenges during this transit

• Mixed signals in relationships: You might feel like you need more affection, but what you get doesn’t quite hit the spot. Maybe you want comfort from a partner or friend, but their way of giving it feels wrong, or clashes with what you actually need.
• Overindulgence: Old astrology books weren’t joking- you could crave sweets, comfort food, or even a little retail therapy, especially as a way to soothe shaky feelings. There’s a risk of overdoing it and feeling regretful later.
• Clinginess or mood swings: You’re likely to feel more sensitive to criticism, or maybe you find yourself wanting people’s approval and affection a little too much. This can sometimes lead to coming across as needy or moody.
• Drama among close women: This is a classic time for misunderstandings or emotional tension with sisters, mothers, or female friends. Tiny issues can get blown out of proportion.
• Difficulty making decisions: You’ll probably notice your feelings pulling you one way and your desires pulling you another- like wanting to go out but also craving a cozy night alone. This back-and-forth can be pretty frustrating!

Opportunities during this transit

• Getting in touch with your emotional needs: The tension can highlight what you honestly need for comfort and security, versus what you thought you wanted. You might finally see, “Hey, I keep saying yes to things that don’t really feed my soul.”
• Letting go of old grudges: Since the heart is softened, it might be easier to forgive- but also to realize where your boundaries need shifting. So a heart-to-heart, even if it’s messy, can be more healing than you’d expect.
• Creativity and self-expression: This energy works well for art, music, decorating, or journaling. You could channel some of that churning emotion into making something beautiful- maybe even about your feelings right now.
• Understanding and helping others: You’re likely to be more empathetic and notice someone else’s hurt, even if they’re not saying it out loud. You might be the person to offer a supportive word or small act of kindness that really matters to someone.
• Feeling “worth it”: If you use this transit intentionally, it could be a great time to upgrade your self-care- no guilt. Whether it’s a cozy bath, buying yourself flowers, or just listening to your favorite music, you can turn your attention inward without shame.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Moon

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: You might feel extra impatient and could crave excitement in your relationships. You’ll probably want attention but may also be quick to snap if you feel emotionally ignored.
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: Comfort and security suddenly matter a lot more, but you might get stubborn when your needs clash with someone else’s. You could also find yourself wanting to binge on little luxuries.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: You could get restless if things feel too heavy or dramatic. Talking things out is important, but you might also feel scattered or misunderstood in emotional matters.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: Mood swings get stronger. You’ll want nurturing and reassurance, but it may be tough to get it just the way you want. It’s easier to take things personally right now.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: You need to feel special, and flattery works wonders (or stings if missing). You’re likely to make dramatic gestures in love and might take any emotional friction kind of personally.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: You’re super aware of the little things, which can make you extra critical of yourself or others. Trying to fix emotional issues might just make things more complicated.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: Harmony feels more important, but you might go out of your way to please others and then feel secretly resentful. It’s easier to avoid tough talks, even if you actually need them.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Emotions are extra intense, and jealousy or possessiveness might bubble up. You want deep connections, but the square makes it hard to feel satisfied or trusting.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You’re craving freedom and new experiences. You might rebel against anything that feels emotionally restricting, and it’s easy to get blunt (maybe too blunt) with feelings.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You need things to feel solid and grown-up in relationships. Emotional tension could have you focusing on practical fixes, but it’s possible to feel unsupported.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You may feel distant or detached from your own feelings and those of others. Suddenly, you don’t want anyone telling you what to do emotionally, and you crave something different or new.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: Emotions are dreamy but can get confusing. You might have a hard time seeing things clearly or might escape into fantasy when real-world emotional stuff feels tough.