Sweet talk or charming conversations
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus conjunct Mercury transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t gossip or spread rumors- conversations can get twisted during this transit.
- Avoid making impulsive decisions in love or friendships- your judgment might be clouded by charm or flattery.
- Try not to promise more than you can deliver, especially in relationships or collaborative projects.
- Skip any big, important business negotiations or contract signings- you could miss some details or get distracted by personal connections.
- Don’t let flirty messages or compliments go to your head- you might misinterpret what someone really means.
- Avoid starting tough or serious conversations- this transit makes it easier to sugarcoat the truth or avoid saying what really matters.
- Don’t ignore red flags in communication just because things feel light and easy right now.
- Try not to get swept up in trivial talk at the cost of focusing on what needs to get done.
- Avoid overspending or making unnecessary purchases just because something “looks cute” or “feels right” in the moment.
- Don’t neglect your own boundaries just to keep the peace or make others happy.
Do During This Transit
- Have important conversations- people are way more open to your ideas right now, and it’s easier to find the right words.
- Write letters, emails, or even start a blog. Your communication style is extra charming and creative.
- Go on a date or social outing- your wit and friendliness are shining, so meeting new people can go really well.
- Negotiate or make deals. Venus helps smooth things over, so it’s a good time to ask for what you want.
- Start learning something artistic like poetry, songwriting, drawing, or photography.
- Catch up with friends and family- it’s easier to connect and understand each other.
- Resolve arguments or tricky situations- people are more willing to see your side and compromise now.
- Work on creative writing or journaling- your mind is flowing with sweet, beautiful ideas.
- Shop for things that express your style, like clothes or accessories, especially if you need to make choices.
- Plan a trip, especially if it involves visiting art galleries, concerts, or beautiful places.
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What’s interesting about this transit?
Venus conjunct natal Mercury is a classic for sweetening up communication, but if we dig into some old astrology books, there are some quirky takes on this transit that most modern astrologers might miss:
- From medieval Persia: This transit was said to make the native a “charming liar”- meaning you might find yourself able to tell white lies or spin stories that people actually enjoy hearing, instead of being found out.
- In Renaissance magic texts: There’s a belief that Venus conjunct Mercury brings luck with poetry or writing small charms and love notes- so even if you’ve never written a poem, now’s your chance to try.
- Ancient Roman sources: They claimed people under this transit would have “honeyed tongues,” but were also more susceptible to flattery- so not only are you charming, but you might fall for someone else’s charm too.
- 17th-century English astrology: The transit was believed to help people broker peace- not just between friends, but even in legal disputes or neighborhood arguments.
- Old Indian jyotish texts: It was seen as a good time for making music with your voice- especially chanting, singing, or reciting mantras, as the sound was thought to carry special beauty.
Experiencing This Transit
When Venus lines up with your natal Mercury, it can feel like your words get a sugar-coating. Your texts, conversations, emails- basically anything you say or write- can come across smoother and more likable. But there’s more going on than just being a little more charming.
Challenges during this transit
- Over-promising: You might end up saying “yes” too much or agreeing to things just to keep the peace or make people happy, then realize later you can’t actually deliver.
- Being too nice to say no: It’s hard to set boundaries with Venus-Mercury together. You may struggle to assert yourself or say anything that might make things awkward.
- Trouble with serious conversations: Sometimes everything sounds light or superficial, so if you actually need to have a difficult talk, it could just keep skimming the surface.
- Susceptibility to flattery: Just like those ancient Romans warned, you might be more likely to believe compliments or fall for someone’s sweet talk- sometimes too quickly.
- Sugarcoating the truth: It’s tempting not to be totally honest, maybe to avoid conflict or just because it seems easier.
Opportunities during this transit
- Creating art or poetry: If you ever wanted to write a love letter, lyrics, or even just heartfelt texts, your words flow with extra beauty now.
- Making peace: This is great for smoothing over fights, reaching out to people you haven’t spoken to in a while, or negotiating something tricky at work or school.
- Public speaking or social events: Presentations go well, parties are easier to navigate, and even small talk feels more natural and fun.
- Learning through pleasure: It’s a smart time for taking in new info- especially if it’s something you enjoy or if you learn best through conversation, music, or art.
- Flirting and romance: Your texts and DMs have that extra flirt appeal, making it a breeze to start up something new or spice up what you’ve got.
- Clever compromise: It’s much easier to see both sides of a situation now and find a solution that everyone’s actually happy with.
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How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Conjunct to Natal Mercury
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: Your words come out quicker and with more passion. You’re a lot more direct and impulsive in what you say- flirting gets bolder, and you might actually speak up just to get things moving.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: You slow things down and really savor conversations. You might talk more about comfort, food, and all things sensual. Your voice can sound extra sweet or soothing, too.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Expect a lot of chatting, texting, and playful banter. You’ll probably want to talk to everyone, and your thoughts bounce around quickly- socializing feels fun and easy right now.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: You’re more sensitive to how things are said, not just what’s being said. Conversations get sweeter or more caring, and you’ll want to talk about feelings, family, and old memories.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: There’s a dramatic, lively energy in your words. You’ll enjoy giving compliments, telling jokes, or making grand declarations- basically, everything sounds a bit more entertaining and from the heart.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You’ll want to be helpful, polite, and maybe a little extra picky about getting your point across. Conversations feel practical but supportive, and you’ll probably talk about health, routines, or self-improvement.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: You’re super diplomatic and charming. It’s easier to smooth over arguments and find the right words to make peace, flirt, or just connect with others.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Things can get intense, deep, and maybe even a bit mysterious. You’re not afraid to touch on taboo topics or secrets- plus, flirting gets way more seductive.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You’re more blunt, optimistic, and open-minded. You’ll want to talk about travel, big ideas, or philosophies, and share your thoughts with a broader group of people.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Conversations get a little more serious, but also more grown-up and respectful. You might talk business, responsibilities, or plans for the future- practicality wins out over fluff.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You’ll want to chat about unusual things, or maybe reach out to friends or groups. Your words sound fresh, unique, and you’re likely more open to unconventional ideas or people.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Your thoughts and words feel dreamy, artistic, or super gentle. It’s easier to write poetry or talk about dreams, souls, and spiritual stuff. Sometimes you might even get a little lost in your imagination.