Transit Venus Opposite Natal Mars

Passionate tension in relationships.

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus opposite Mars transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t start arguments or pick fights, even if you feel provoked. Tempers can flare up super quick right now.
• Avoid making big relationship decisions- breakups, ultimatums, or major commitments. Feelings might be intense but not totally clear or lasting.
• Don’t push yourself into new romances or risky hookups. Attraction is really strong, but judgment isn’t great during this time.
• Avoid spending money on impulse- especially for beauty, clothes, or gifts for others. You could regret it later.
• Try not to be too competitive with friends, partners, or coworkers. It’s easy to turn everything into a contest now, even if you don’t mean to.
• Don’t ignore other people’s boundaries, especially in close relationships. It’s easy to be a little too forward or demanding.
• Hold off on confronting someone about jealousy or anger issues. Wait for a calmer time to talk things out.
• Skip making big decisions about your appearance, like dramatic makeovers or tattoos. You might get tired of the change fast.
• Don’t let sexual frustration or attraction make you do something reckless or out of character. Think things through first.
• If you’re feeling restless, don’t quit your job, ditch projects, or make drastic changes just for the thrill of it. Ride it out- it’ll pass soon!

Do During This Transit

• Channel your energy into creativity – Whether it’s art, music, dance, or even cooking, put all that intense energy into making something beautiful.
• Have open, honest conversations – This transit brings up passion and maybe disagreements. It’s a great time to talk things out (but calmly!) in your relationships.
• Work on resolving romantic tension – If there are love sparks or even little fights, use this as a chance to get closer, not push each other away.
• Start a fitness or dance class – Mars is about action, Venus loves pleasure. Try something physical that feels good, like yoga, Zumba, or even hiking.
• Experiment with your style – You might feel drawn to change up your look or try something bold. Go ahead and have fun with fashion or a new haircut.
• Practice self-care – Tempers (or passions) can flare up, so take time to relax, do something soothing, or pamper yourself.
• Set healthy boundaries – If someone pushes your buttons, it’s okay to stand up for yourself, but do it with kindness.
• Plan a fun date or outing – Let off steam in enjoyable ways, especially with friends or a partner. Go to a concert, have a game night, or hit the beach.
• Balance assertiveness with compromise – Use the energy to get what you want, but listen to others and find common ground.
• Reflect on relationships – If conflicts come up, think about what you really want from your connections and how you can create more harmony.

What’s interesting about this transit?

Venus opposite natal Mars is a transit that might get a lot of attention for its reputation around passion or relationship drama, but there are actually some pretty weird and lesser-known takes on this transit from old astrology texts. Here are a few obscure ones:

• “Venus crossing the martial cord” (from some Renaissance sources) was believed to bring about sudden changes in clothing style or fashion sense, sometimes even a strong urge to wear colors you’ve usually avoided.
• “The axis of velvet and iron” suggested in medieval Arabic astrology, said people could unexpectedly become mediators in conflicts- even if they usually avoid drama. Oddly, this mediation is said to happen in family disputes about marriage or dowries.
• An old French manual claims if you start a craft or art project under Venus opposite Mars, you’ll abandon it unfinished, only to pick it up again (and actually succeed) six months later.
• Some 19th-century rural English astrologers warned that under this transit, livestock or pets might start getting a little bit more frisky or aggressive (for real).
• A centuries-old Indian text describes this opposition as “the cracked pearl,” meaning people might attract admirers they don’t like, or get surprising gifts that turn out not to be so useful after all.
• In a few Early Modern American almanacs, this transit was seen as causing accidental flirtiness- like unintentionally getting yourself into misunderstandings just because you were being nice to someone.

Experiencing This Transit

So what’s it like when Venus in the sky lines up to oppose your natal Mars? You’re basically feeling a tug-of-war between what you want (and find attractive) and the way you go after what you want (your drive and your temper). It really stirs up energy in relationships and sometimes in creative or competitive areas of your life.

Challenges during this transit

• Relationship friction: You might feel more easily annoyed with people, especially anyone you’re close with or attracted to. Arguments can spark up over silly stuff, like how someone loads the dishwasher or where to go out for dinner.
• Unwanted attention: You could attract people whose energy just feels off, or maybe you suddenly have admirers you don’t actually want. This can feel awkward or even a little uncomfortable.
• Pent-up restlessness: It’s common to get that “itchy” feeling, where you want excitement, romance, or just a new experience, and if you can’t get it, you end up feeling cranky or impatient.
• Impulsive choices: There’s a risk of getting pulled into arguments or jump into bed with someone just because the energy feels heated. It can also mean buying stuff you don’t need, especially if you’re feeling emotional or bored.

Opportunities during this transit

• Creative breakthroughs: All that energy can push you to try new art, music, or fashion styles that feel a little daring. If you’ve felt stuck, this transit shakes things loose.
• Passion in relationships: The chemistry is real- if you’re already with someone, things might heat up (in a good way) if you handle disagreements lightheartedly.
• Standing up for yourself: If you’ve been letting something slide, you’ll suddenly feel more willing to speak up and defend your needs- in love, at work, or anywhere else.
• Learning about your desires: Sometimes this opposition helps you realize what you really like and what you won’t tolerate. It’s a chance to understand yourself better through whatever drama or excitement happens.
• Actively resolving old conflicts: It’s a good time to be bold and address lingering issues. Sometimes putting things out in the open (even if it gets heated) is the start of healing.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Opposite to Natal Mars

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: Things get fast and impulsive. You’re more likely to act on your desires without thinking much. There could be sudden attractions or drama in relationships.
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: Everything feels more physical and sensual. Comfort and security are important, and you might crave attention through touch, food, or gifts. Stubbornness could flare up in matters of love.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: Flirtation and conversation become the focus. You might feel pulled between wanting excitement and avoiding emotional messiness. It’s easy to say too much or mix signals.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions run deep and reactions are personal. You may feel more protective or sensitive in relationships. Family or home issues could come into play during conflicts.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: Pride and passion jump out. There’s a need for attention, and any disagreement can turn dramatic or feel more like a performance. You’ll want to be adored but might act out if you don’t get enough love.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: Little things matter more than ever. You might notice flaws in your partner or yourself. There’s a risk of overthinking or trying to “fix” relationship problems instead of just feeling them.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: Compromise and harmony are front and center. You want fairness but might swing between being too accommodating or too demanding. Arguments tend to be about finding balance or justice.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensity is the name of the game. Jealousy, power struggles, and deep passion pop up. Connections might feel magnetic or even obsessive.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: There’s a restless need for space and freedom. Arguments may be about adventure, beliefs, or feeling boxed in. You crave honesty, but bluntness could cause clashes.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Relationship decisions get more serious. You might set boundaries or focus on long-term goals. There’s a stronger need to prove loyalty or reliability.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Anything too clingy feels extra uncomfortable. You’re looking for something unique or out of the ordinary, and might rebel against routines. Friendships can cross over into something more- or less.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: Romance and fantasy take over, but it’s easy to get lost in dreams or mixed signals. Empathy is high, but old hurts might resurface. Sometimes reality blurs, so clarity is needed.