Transit Venus Square Natal Neptune

Romantic illusions or blurry boundaries in love

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus square Neptune transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t make big romantic decisions- things might look more magical than they really are.
• Avoid starting new relationships based just on first impressions.
• Try not to spend too much money on luxury items, art, or anything “just because it looks pretty.”
• Don’t ignore red flags in love or in friendships. Trust your gut if something feels off.
• Avoid getting caught up in daydreams or wishful thinking, especially about people or situations that seem “too good to be true.”
• Don’t trust everyone right away- there’s a higher chance of being misled or scammed during this transit.
• Try not to escape reality through unhealthy habits, whether it’s binge-watching, overeating, or using substances.
• Avoid taking on creative projects that need a lot of realism or attention to detail. Your head may be in the clouds right now.
• Don’t give out loans or lend money to people unless you’re absolutely sure they’re trustworthy.
• Avoid making promises you can’t keep, especially in relationships. You might feel extra dreamy and say things you don’t really mean.

Do During This Transit

• Get creative – It’s a great time to make art, write poetry, or do anything that lets your imagination run wild.
• Listen to music or watch movies – You’ll find yourself really moved by anything beautiful or dreamy right now.
• Dive into daydreams – Allow yourself a little time to get lost in fantasy or meditation without guilt.
• Practice compassion – You’ll feel extra empathetic; reach out to friends or help others if you can.
• Explore your spiritual side – Try things like tarot, astrology, or meditation to tap into your intuition.
• Journal your feelings – Dreams, feelings, and odd thoughts might come up, and writing them down can help make sense of them.
• Let yourself rest – Give yourself permission to slow down if you’re feeling tired or fuzzy.
• Do something romantic – Even a little gesture, like love notes or a sweet date, will feel extra magical now.
• Be gentle with yourself – You might feel more sensitive, so be kind and don’t push too hard.

What’s interesting about this transit?

Venus square natal Neptune is one of those dreamy, confusing aspects, and a lot of the old astrologers had some pretty wild takes on it. Here are a few uncommon, historical interpretations you don’t hear every day:

• Leonardo Camillo (17th century astrologer): said this transit could make “one susceptible to bewitchments or love spells,” warning that “the heart may not discern the real from the illusory.”
• Catherine de Medici’s court astrologer: claimed it was the “aspect found at the root of love triangles and phantom lovers”- folks falling for imaginary suitors or getting caught up in secret affairs.
• Ptolemaic teachings: mention Venus-Neptune tension as “the painter’s transit,” saying it sparks wild visions, which leads to “enchanted but false creations”- great if you’re making art, but problematic in real life.
• Renaissance French astrology texts: often talked about “weeping without cause,” saying this transit brings irrational melancholy and sentimental tears over things that never happened.
• Medieval Persian astrology: connects this square with “serenade under moonlight”- jumping into romantic adventures that are all talk but have “no proper substance.”
• Old English astrology pamphlets: warned that merchants “lose their wares to charmers and tricksters” during this transit, since people are more gullible or give away valuables easily.

Experiencing This Transit

Venus square Neptune is, honestly, a pretty trippy ride. It mixes up your desires, dreams, and sometimes even your boundaries. During this transit, your normal logic about love, creativity, money, or beauty kind of floats away, and everything feels more magical- or a little suspicious. You might see the best in people (even if it’s not really there) or get swept up in something super romantic, creative, or just plain confusing.

Challenges during this transit

• Mixed-up feelings: You may misread someone’s intentions- you think they’re flirting, they think you’re just being friendly, or vice versa.
• Easily deceived: Both in love and money, it’s a classic time for getting catfished or making a “too good to be true” online purchase.
• Escaping reality: You might just want to daydream, binge-watch, or check out emotionally instead of facing stuff you should be handling.
• Bad boundaries: People could take advantage of your generosity or naivety now. Lending money or giving way more than you receive could create problems.
• Creative blocks (ironically): You could have amazing ideas but get super overwhelmed and never finish anything, or start projects that fizzle out.
• Self-criticism: With Neptune involved, you might idealize others and feel “not good enough” about your own looks or talents.
• Strange attraction: You may find yourself falling for someone who isn’t really available. Think: mega-crushes on celebrities, unrequited love, or even people who aren’t telling you the truth.

Opportunities during this transit

• Heightened creativity: This is an awesome time for writing poetry, making art, dancing, or even redecorating- anywhere your imagination can run wild.
• Empathy boost: You’re more sensitive than usual, so you can really understand how friends or partners are feeling, even if they’re being subtle.
• Romantic magic: If you’re in a relationship, you could have some lovely, almost movie-like dates or dreamy moments together.
• Escape in a good way: Meditating, going to a museum, watching beautiful movies, or listening to music can soothe your soul and help you reconnect to what inspires you.
• Seeing beauty everywhere: Flowers by the road, the way sunlight hits your coffee cup- suddenly, the little things are enchanting.
• Letting go of perfection: Neptune sometimes takes the edge off needing everything to be “just right,” so you let yourself relax about minor flaws.
• Forgiveness: You might find it easier now to forgive yourself and others, since your heart’s a bit softer and your ideals are bigger.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Neptune

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: You might leap into relationships or fantasies super fast, without thinking, and it can be harder than usual to tell what’s real versus what’s just excitement in the moment.
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: Comfort and security seem extra dreamy- you could fall for someone’s charm or spend too much money chasing a feeling of luxury or belonging, even when your intuition says ‘slow down’.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: Mixed signals get intense! Conversations and flirtations are confusing, and you could misread someone’s words or get lost chasing charming but unreliable people or ideas.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotional boundaries blur, so you might idealize people who feel ‘safe’ or ‘familiar,’ even if that’s not really the case- watch for nostalgia trips or wishful thinking about the past.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: You might crave a dramatic love story or want to be adored, so it’s easy to get swept up in flattery or illusions of romance- be careful not to confuse attention with genuine affection.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: Small disappointments bug you more, and you could try to ‘fix’ someone who doesn’t actually want to be fixed- perfectionism clashes with fantasy, making it tricky to see others clearly.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: It’s extra tough to say no, even when it’s needed, and you might bend over backwards to make things seem beautiful and balanced, ignoring any red flags thinking things will work out.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensity blends with imagination, and you could fall for someone’s mysterious vibe or get pulled into secretive situations that seem deep but aren’t totally honest or healthy.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: Adventure and ‘bigger picture’ attraction are strong, but you might believe the grass is greener someplace else- be wary of chasing wild dreams that aren’t rooted in reality.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You could put someone on a pedestal because they seem super accomplished or stable, but it’s easy to overlook coldness or distance, hoping for the relationship to be more solid than it really is.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You might idealize freedom or unusual relationships, wanting more space or something unconventional but ignoring signals that you and someone else aren’t totally on the same page.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: Your fantasies are off the charts, and you may get swept away by a fairy-tale vibe or try to rescue someone- you’ll need extra effort to ground your feelings and spot any illusions.