Intense attraction or deep emotional transformation
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus conjunct Pluto transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t try to control or manipulate loved ones- power struggles can get intense right now.
- Avoid starting dramatic or obsessive love affairs- the energy is a bit too all-or-nothing for comfort.
- Don’t ignore red flags in relationships, even if you’re super attracted to someone new.
- Steer clear of making big financial decisions or risky investments- temptation for extremes is high.
- Try not to lash out or seek revenge if you feel hurt- it’s easy to go overboard emotionally.
- Don’t dig up old resentments with partners or friends- past issues can feel explosive during this transit.
- Avoid pushing yourself (or others) into emotional confessions or ultimatums.
- Don’t become obsessed with someone or something- jealousy and possessiveness aren’t helpful now.
- If possible, skip major cosmetic changes- your tastes might be more extreme or impulsive than usual.
- Avoid getting caught up in guilt trips or emotional manipulation, from yourself or others.
Do During This Transit
- Dig deep into your relationships- this is a good time for honest conversations and facing things you usually avoid.
- Work on healing from past heartbreak or emotional baggage. You can really transform your feelings now.
- Explore your desires, especially the ones you usually keep hidden- even just with yourself.
- Spend time on creative projects that feel intense or passionate. Let your obsessions fuel your art or hobbies.
- Re-evaluate what you want from love and close connections. Your values might be changing.
- Let go of toxic patterns or people. This transit helps with breaking free from things that drain you emotionally.
- Try something new in your love life- maybe a deeper level of trust or intimacy.
- Practice self-love, but focus on understanding the parts of yourself you usually ignore or hide away.
- Pay attention to power dynamics in relationships- notice if things feel equal or if someone has too much control.
- Trust your intuition. Your gut feelings are especially strong and can guide you through tough emotional stuff.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- Alchemy of Attraction: Some old texts say Venus conjunct Pluto acts like “the furnace which tempers the sword,” meaning sudden, passionate bonds can make you feel changed forever, almost like love alchemy.
- Hidden Treasures: Astrologers from the Renaissance sometimes wrote that this transit could reveal “buried pearls” in love – like secrets, hidden talents, or long-suppressed feelings finally surfacing.
- Charms and Spells: Medieval writers sometimes marked this day as powerful for casting love charms or building talismans. They believed anything Venus-Pluto touched could be intensified and “enchanted.”
- Secret Agreements: There are old notes on this transit being a time when “covenants are sealed in shadow,” hinting that secret pacts or behind-the-scenes bargains (especially in relationships or finances) could happen now.
- Venom & Honey: Some ancient traditions mentioned that “sweet things could have a bite” under this combo- meaning pleasures are intense, but there’s always potential for obsession or jealousy to creep in.
- Facing the Underworld: In Hellenistic astrology, they thought Venus meeting Pluto could “draw desire from darkness.” So, love stuff feels way deeper, sometimes touching the parts of you that are usually locked away.
Experiencing This Transit
When transiting Venus lines up with your natal Pluto, it’s not your usual fluffy, light-hearted Venus day. Instead, things get deeper, more intense, and a little mysterious. You might feel like your heart is getting tugged into places it hasn’t been before. There’s this strong pull toward experiences and people that stir up powerful emotions- sometimes stuff you didn’t even know you had inside you.
You could end up obsessing over someone or something, or you might notice that others seem to be fixated on you. Relationships can feel magnetic, even fated, like there’s something you just have to figure out, talk about, or- let’s be honest- maybe even fight about or fix. Surface-level stuff won’t do: you need honesty, loyalty, and maybe a little drama.
Money questions or creative projects can also get supercharged. You might suddenly want to make a major purchase, chase a big idea, or even do something a little risky, just because it feels impossible to resist.
Challenges during this transit
- Obsessive Thoughts or Behaviors: You might catch yourself replaying conversations on loop, checking someone’s social media a lot, or not being able to let go of a crush or grudge. It’s like your brain won’t stop picking at the scab.
- Power Struggles in Relationships: Watch out for situations where you or someone else tries to control things. This could mean jealousy, ultimatums, or wanting all of someone’s attention.
- Secrets Come Out: Things that have been under the surface- old arguments, financial matters, hidden feelings- can suddenly explode. Sometimes, that’s a relief; other times, it’s dramatic.
- Temptation to Manipulate: There’s a risk of trying to use charm or seduction to get your way. You might rationalize a white lie, or gloss over something important, thinking it’ll keep the peace.
- Emotional Extremes: Mood swings are strong, and a little thing can suddenly feel like it’s life or death.
Opportunities during this transit
- Healing Old Wounds: If you’re willing to be real, this is a great time to talk stuff out with someone and get things off your chest. Honesty can lead to real healing.
- Deepening Connections: If you’re in a relationship, you can grow a lot closer by facing tough topics together, or just being more vulnerable and open.
- Personal Transformation: This is a great transit to quit bad habits, break free of unhelpful relationship patterns, or finally let go of an old attachment.
- Passion Projects: Venus-Pluto can inject your art, music, or creative work with serious inspiration and depth. You might make something that surprises even you.
- Reinventing Image or Finances: You might feel inspired to change up your look, revise your budget, or make smarter investments. Sometimes, just cleaning out your closet or workspace can feel wildly empowering.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Conjunct to Natal Pluto
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: Things feel fast and intense- passion hits hard and you might act boldly in relationships or express your feelings in dramatic ways.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: There’s a craving for closeness and comfort, making you want deep, loyal connections that feel safe and unshakeable.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Conversations can get super deep or flirty secrets might come out. There’s a strong pull towards someone who intrigues your mind.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions run deep now and you could feel extra protective or possessive of those you love- family ties might get stronger or more complicated.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: Romantic energy is dramatic and bold, so you might become more demanding of attention or want love to play out in big, showy gestures.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You fixate on details and notice every little thing, wanting things (and people) to be “just right” in love or finances- watch for being overly critical.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: You want things to be balanced and harmonious, but hidden power struggles can pop up in your closest partnerships.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: This is the most intense combo- you dive head-first into trust and intimacy, but jealousy and secrets could also surface.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You crave excitement and adventure in love, and you could get obsessed with someone fascinatingly different or foreign.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Ambition sneaks into your love life and you might see relationships through the lens of goals, status, or long-term security.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Expect curveballs- connections could be unpredictable or unusual, and there’s a push for freedom or breaking old relationship patterns.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Emotions blur together and you might feel drawn to spiritual or creative bonds. Unspoken feelings could rise up from the depths.