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Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus sextile Pluto transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t get caught up in power struggles or try to control someone in your relationships.
- Avoid obsessing over love interests or getting too intense about someone too quickly.
- Don’t dig up old relationship hurts just for the sake of drama or to gain the upper hand.
- Try not to manipulate people with charm or seduction- honesty’s important now.
- Don’t make big, permanent changes in your love life or finances unless you’re absolutely sure.
- Avoid giving in to jealousy or letting yourself get suspicious without reason.
- Don’t use your personal magnetism to get what you want at someone else’s expense.
- Stay away from secretive or shady relationship behavior- it’ll likely backfire.
- Try not to push for emotional confessions or deep truths from others if they’re not ready.
- Don’t overanalyze every little feeling or reaction; trust the flow a bit more.
Do During This Transit
- Have deep conversations with people you trust. It’s a great time to open up and get real about feelings, even the intense ones.
- Work on healing old relationship wounds, either with a partner or by yourself. Forgiving or letting go is a lot easier right now.
- Explore your passions and desires- creatively, romantically, or even just by figuring out what excites you.
- Connect with someone on a deeper level- don’t be afraid to be a little vulnerable, it can bring you closer.
- Start therapy or do some kind of self-reflection. You’re able to handle and transform tough stuff more gracefully now.
- Get rid of toxic patterns, especially in your love life or finances. It’s easier to break bad habits during this transit.
- Update your look or personal style. You’ll likely feel powerful and attractive, and it’ll shine through.
- Negotiate or make deals, especially involving money or partnerships. You have a knack for finding win-wins right now.
- Do some creative writing, art, or music that helps you express your deeper feelings.
- Spend quiet time with someone special. You can form a stronger bond just by being real with each other.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- Some medieval astrologers believed Venus sextile Pluto could attract hidden patrons or “secret keepers” into one’s life- those who help you behind the scenes but aren’t seen in public.
- In early Renaissance astrology, this transit was thought to make perfumes or sweet-smelling mixtures extra potent in their effects, especially those used in romance or charm spells.
- Certain 19th century European texts claim this aspect may bring dreams where a person receives secret messages about love or money- almost a kind of prophetic insight through sleep.
- Arabic astrologers sometimes noted that Venus sextile Pluto could “charm the serpent,” meaning it gave a person persuasive power over those with difficult or dominant personalities, especially in negotiations.
- Ancient almanacs sometimes recommended starting investigations, uncovering family mysteries, or seeking out old debts under this transit, saying it’s easier to coax secrets and “hidden riches” from the shadows.
Experiencing This Transit
When Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and value, forms a sextile with your natal Pluto, things get a little more intense beneath the surface. This isn’t one of those wild rollercoaster moments, but more like feeling a subtle pull- like there’s more going on than meets the eye. You might find connections and situations around love, money, or personal values suddenly have a deeper twist. You could feel drawn to uncover truths in your relationships or realize what you want in your bonds with others isn’t as simple as it seemed. Old feelings or patterns you haven’t noticed before can rise up, but it’s not a rough ride- instead, it feels like you’re getting a gentle nudge to look deeper. Let’s break down what can make this period tricky, and also where it brings good chances:
Challenges during this transit
- Jealousy or Possessiveness: You or someone close might get those odd feelings of wanting to “hold on” tighter than usual, especially in romantic or close friendships.
- Obsession with “Fixing” Relationships: You could catch yourself wanting to pick apart what’s wrong in your love life and dig for the tiniest flaws- sometimes making mountains out of molehills.
- Unearthing Old Wounds: Random conversations, music, or even smells might bring back memories (good or bad) about past relationships or friendships. Old insecurities or unresolved issues could pop up, making you more moody or nostalgic than usual.
- People Testing Boundaries: Because Pluto brings up power dynamics, you might notice people testing your limits or challenging your values in sneaky ways- maybe a coworker tries to challenge your opinions, or a friend acts out of character.
Opportunities during this transit
- Healing and Transforming Old Patterns: This is the best time to let go of past baggage in relationships. If you talk openly, you’ll find people more open to vulnerable, honest conversations that actually help things move forward.
- Unique Creative Inspiration: Venus rules art and beauty, while Pluto likes to dig deep. You could feel inspired to make creative work that’s more meaningful, whether that’s writing a song about your real feelings or finally decorating your space to match your true vibe.
- Magnetic Personal Power: Even if you’re not usually outgoing, this transit can give a subtle, almost mysterious charm. People might be drawn to you without being able to say why, which is perfect for job interviews, first dates, or just standing out in a crowd.
- Figuring Out What You Really Value: Pluto helps you see past the surface, so you could have a moment where you realize that you want different things in love, money, or even your style. It’s a good time for rethinking budgets, relationships, or even your personal goals.
- Uncovering Secrets or Solving Mysteries: If you suspect something’s been hidden from you- whether it’s a missing piece of info at work, unclear family history, or just the reason for a weird vibe with someone- now’s when things could finally come out in the open.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Sextile to Natal Pluto
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: You’ll crave bold, exciting connections, maybe making the first move or shaking things up in love or friendship.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: You might focus on comfort, sensuality, and deepening bonds through physical touch, gifts, or creating a cozy vibe.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Real connections come from fun, flirty conversations. Sharing secrets or honest talks could draw you closer to someone.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions run deep- expect intense feelings and a need for more trust and vulnerability in close relationships.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: You’ll want attention and affection, and dramatic gestures can create powerful memories or bonds right now.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: Small acts of service or helping others feel noticed matter most. You’ll connect through practical support or fixing what’s broken.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: You’ll feel drawn to beauty, harmony, and fair give-and-take, making it easier to heal past conflicts in partnerships.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensity really ramps up. Secrets, unspoken desires, or deep trust may become a big theme in your love life.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: Adventure and freedom are the keys to making deeper connections. New ideas or experiences could totally change your perspective on love.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Serious, long-term commitment might start looking more appealing, or you might strengthen relationships through loyalty and reliability.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Unconventional or unexpected connections are highlighted. You’ll value honesty and independence, but you might be drawn to intense, quirky bonds.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Compassion, forgiveness, and spiritual closeness can open doors to powerful new feelings or healing in your personal life.