Intense relationship adjustments
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus quincunx Pluto transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t start intense or complicated romantic relationships- your judgment might be off right now.
- Avoid making big financial decisions or investments- money issues could get messy or power struggles may pop up.
- Try not to manipulate others to get your way, especially in love or friendship- it’ll likely backfire.
- Don’t hold onto jealousy or obsess over someone’s attention- it could turn small issues into bigger drama.
- Avoid digging up old grudges or bringing up past hurts in relationships- healing energy is low and it may just make things worse.
- Don’t let yourself get pulled into mind games or emotional battles with loved ones.
- Refrain from making sudden changes in your appearance (like drastic hair or style changes)- you might regret impulsive choices later.
- Try not to suppress how you really feel, but also don’t force deep talks if you’re not ready- they can get intense fast.
- Don’t ignore your boundaries or let others cross them, even in the name of keeping the peace.
- Stay away from controlling or possessive behavior- you’re more prone to it with this transit, and it won’t help anyone.
Do During This Transit
- Reflect on your relationships and see if there are power struggles or hidden feelings that need airing out.
- Make some time for honest self-exploration- dig deep into what you really want from love, friendship, or even money.
- Notice any obsessions or intense cravings popping up, and try to figure out where they’re coming from.
- Let go of old grudges or patterns that keep you stuck, especially when it comes to love or jealousy.
- Practice patience- there might be misunderstandings in relationships, so give others some extra slack.
- Journal about your desires or fears that you usually keep hidden.
- Experiment with little changes in your style, appearance, or spending habits to see what truly feels like “you.”
- Stay open to unexpected changes in your love life or finances- they might seem weird at first but could lead to some breakthroughs.
- Channel intense feelings into art, music, or creative projects instead of bottling them up.
- Set some healthy boundaries, especially if someone’s overstepping in your personal life.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- “The Disguised Allure”: Some old texts claimed this aspect creates attractions to things or people that seem innocent but hide a deeper, almost fated agenda. Like, you might find yourself drawn to something you normally wouldn’t touch with a ten-foot pole.
- “The Fruit under Pressure”: Medieval authors said Venus quincunx Pluto is like a ripe fruit squeezed awkwardly- making something sweet turn sour unless carefully handled. There are warnings about letting desires ferment into jealousy or obsession.
- “Shadowed Pleasures”: A few Renaissance astrologers linked this aspect with secret or taboo romances, saying hidden passions flare up and ordinary pleasures feel tinged with an extra charge of guilt or excitement.
- “Misfitting Desires”: There are records of astrologers saying this transit can make you feel like your wants and your willpower just don’t mesh, leading to awkward social interactions or alternating between flirting and withdrawing in relationships.
- “The Unsettled Heart”: Ancient notes described a restlessness that comes with this aspect- feeling unsatisfied with what’s normally enough, poking at the edges of comfort just to see if something deeper hides underneath.
Experiencing This Transit
When Venus forms a quincunx (also called an inconjunct) to your natal Pluto, it’s kind of like your heart and your hidden depths are having an awkward dinner together, trying to make small talk while each has totally different ideas about what’s on the menu. Venus wants connection, beauty, comfort- while Pluto stirs up intense, raw emotions, sometimes even old wounds or obsessions. The quincunx is an aspect of adjustment, but it’s not comfortable; it’s about trying to reconcile energies that don’t quite understand each other.
You might notice moments where something (or someone) seems irresistible for mysterious reasons. Or you might touch the darker side of desire- jealousy, power plays, or a weird urge to control what you care about. Relationships, both romantic and platonic, can hit strange patches where trust issues lurk below the surface. You could even become fascinated with parts of yourself or your past you usually avoid or ignore.
What makes this transit tricky is that it’s not always obvious; things simmer just under the surface. It’s more about picking up on vibes, or noticing strange power dynamics in yourself or others.
Challenges during this transit
- Awkward Relationships: Your affection and your deeper motivations might not match up, so you could accidentally send mixed signals. Like wanting closeness but also backing off, or falling for someone and then finding something about them unsettling.
- Intense Emotions: Old jealousies or power trips can resurface- maybe you get possessive without meaning to, or feel like someone’s holding something back from you.
- Control Issues: You might want to steer a relationship or social situation in your favor, but it just feels clumsy or forced, leading to misunderstandings or trust issues.
- Hidden Desires: Being attracted to things that don’t really make sense logically, possibly leading to confusion, secrecy, or guilt.
- Restlessness and Dissatisfaction: Feeling like nothing is quite measuring up, and chasing after experiences or people that stir your soul, but not feeling satisfied when you get them.
Opportunities during this transit
- Deep Psychological Insight: You might notice patterns in your desires or relationships that you’ve never seen before. It’s a great time to ask, “Why do I want what I want? Where did this come from?”
- Transformative Connections: If you can be honest (with yourself and others), you could form a bond that’s much deeper than usual, or heal something old that’s been dragging you down.
- Shadow Work: You get a peek into the places where love and power overlap in your life. Doing some journaling, therapy, or even just deep conversations with a trusted friend can shift your perspective for good.
- Creative Experimentation: This transit can fuel powerful art, music, or writing, especially if you tap into anything taboo, mysterious, or profound you normally shy away from.
- Letting Go: Sometimes you realize that a desire or attachment just isn’t serving you anymore. You get a chance to release what’s not working and open space for something new.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Quincunx to Natal Pluto
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: Sparks tension by making you act impulsively in love or money stuff. Power struggles can flare up fast, and you might feel extra restless about making a change, even if you don’t know why.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: Stirs up possessive feelings, especially about resources or relationships. There’s a big urge to cling to what (or who) feels familiar, making it harder to deal with deep shifts or let go.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Complicates communication with hidden agendas. There can be a mix of charm and suspicion, making you wonder if you’re getting the full story or if someone’s playing games.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: The emotional stakes get higher. You might feel extra sensitive or protective, and changes in relationships can bring up family or childhood issues that need to be worked through.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: Brings drama to intimacy and money, with a need for attention or validation. Pride can get in the way of compromise, and jealousy or power plays can show up in obvious ways.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: Makes you hyper-aware of flaws, both in yourself and others. Perfectionism and criticism can drive a wedge, especially if you’re uncomfortable with how much things are changing.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: Pushes you to seek balance, but this is hard when something feels off. Surface harmony can cover up deeper power struggles, making it tricky to find real peace in relationships.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensifies the whole transit. You’re drawn to passion and taboo, and it’s tough to ignore obsessions, secrets, or control issues bubbling up beneath the surface.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: Makes you crave freedom, but old patterns or attachments feel restrictive. You might run from intense feelings or want to totally change your relationship outlook.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Brings power issues to the surface where status, boundaries, or commitment are involved. Ambition or fear can rule over feelings, and practical decisions clash with desire for transformation.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Upsets the usual relationship patterns, making you want something different. Rebellion or detachment may mask deeper jealousy or control issues that need to be dealt with.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Brings confusion and blurred boundaries. Sacrifices might be made for love, but it’s easy to get lost in illusion or avoid confronting what’s really changing under the surface.