Transit Venus Opposite Natal Pluto

Intense relationship revelations

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus opposite Pluto transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t get involved in power struggles or try to control people in your relationships.
• Avoid manipulating others to get what you want, even if you feel tempted.
• Don’t obsess over crushes, exes, or relationship issues- you could end up making things more intense than they really are.
• Try not to bring up old grudges or dig up past hurts with your partner or friends.
• Don’t jump into new romantic or financial commitments without really thinking them through; strong feelings can cloud your judgment now.
• Avoid making ultimatums in your love life or friendships. This isn’t the best time for “it’s my way or the highway” talks.
• Don’t let jealousy or possessiveness take over. It’s easy to get caught up in those feelings under this transit.
• Try not to overspend on things just to impress someone or win their approval.
• Avoid gossip or getting pulled into drama between others- it’s likely to backfire now.
• Don’t ignore your own boundaries or go along with something that makes you uncomfortable just to keep the peace.

Do During This Transit

• Take a close look at your relationships- they might get intense or reveal hidden stuff. Be honest, but gentle with yourself and others.
• Let go of old grudges or jealousy. This is a good time to forgive and move on from past drama.
• If you feel drawn to someone or something, explore it, but don’t rush. Intense attractions can pop up during this transit.
• Work through emotional patterns that keep repeating in your love life or friendships.
• Dive into art, music, or anything creative that lets you express deep emotions.
• Practice self-care and boundaries. It’s easy to get pulled into power struggles now, so protect your energy.
• Discuss any money issues or shared resources openly and honestly. Secrets around finances might come up.
• Reflect on what you value most- your priorities might be changing. Let yourself evolve.
• If you’re dealing with obsession or control issues, try to get to the root of why you feel that way. Awareness is the first step to change.
• Spend some solo time if you feel overwhelmed. It’s okay to take a step back and recharge.

What’s interesting about this transit?

• In some old texts, Venus opposite Pluto was called the “Lover’s Eclipse”- they believed this aspect could trigger sudden, unexplained changes in one’s affections, sometimes leading to brief but intense affairs or attractions that felt almost fated.
• A few Renaissance astrologers thought this transit could awaken “the shadow of beauty,” meaning secret rivalries or jealousies could come to light, especially around gifts, valuables, or creative projects.
• There are sources suggesting that Venus opposite Pluto brings a kind of financial “alchemy”- it’s said that money or valuables could be lost and found, or that something you value might be transformed or exchanged in an unusual way.
• Some medieval astrologers wrote that under this transit, people might receive “hidden messages” from someone who admires them but can’t speak up- think anonymous notes or an unexpected, mysterious compliment.
• Another old belief: this aspect could stir up stories from ancestors involving love, inheritance, or scandal- like suddenly discovering a family secret related to an old romance or a lost heirloom.

Experiencing This Transit

When Venus moves opposite your natal Pluto, it’s like the universe is putting a magnifying glass over issues of love, desire, power, and control. This isn’t always comfortable! It can feel dramatic, even a little bit like you’re living through a soap opera, especially in relationships. Attractions can turn obsessive, feelings come to the surface, and sometimes events shake you awake to something you couldn’t see before- about yourself or someone close to you.

Challenges during this transit

• Intense Relationship Dynamics: You might suddenly feel possessive or jealous, or someone else could act that way toward you. Little things that used to roll off your back might start to really bug you.
• Overwhelming Emotions: Emotions can get supercharged, so even small conflicts or disappointments might feel earth-shattering. You might notice you’re overreacting, but it’s hard to stop.
• Temptation to Manipulate or Control: You (or someone else) might push boundaries to get what you want, maybe by guilt-tripping, silent treatment, or even giving too much just to get something back.
• Drama from the Past: Old arguments, regrets, or heartbreaks could resurface. Sometimes people from your past show up out of nowhere, or you just can’t stop thinking about them.
• Money Tension: You might argue with someone over how money’s spent or feel anxious about losing something valuable.

Opportunities during this transit

• Emotional Healing: If you’re willing to face tough feelings honestly, you can start to let go of old pain or grudges that have been weighing you down.
• Deeper Bonding: If you’re in a relationship, this transit gives a chance to open up about your real desires, even secrets. Sharing this way might make your connection stronger and more passionate.
• Creative Breakthroughs: The dramatic energy can be used for art, music, or writing- especially if you channel strong emotions into something creative.
• Discovering Your True Values: You might realize what really matters to you in love, money, or even self-worth. Sometimes, you find out what you won’t tolerate ever again.
• Letting Go of Power Struggles: You’ll get a chance to see where you’re fighting for control and how to stop, which can bring more peace and freedom in your relationships.

How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Opposite to Natal Pluto

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.

• Transiting Venus in Aries: You might feel a sudden urge to chase what you want, even if it leads to intense showdowns. Relationships can feel like a battlefield. Watch out for impulsive choices that stir up drama.
• Transiting Venus in Taurus: You’re likely to feel possessive and crave loyalty. If anyone threatens your sense of security, you might get stubborn or jealous. Money and comfort issues can get tied up with power struggles.
• Transiting Venus in Gemini: Conversations may get heated, and secrets might come out. You want answers, but talking things out can easily lead to mind games or manipulation if you’re not careful.
• Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions are super intense- maybe more than you expect. Family issues or old wounds come to the surface, and you might want to hold on tighter to loved ones. Vulnerability can feel risky now.
• Transiting Venus in Leo: Ego clashes show up in your love life. Drama can flare, and you want attention, love, and respect- but power games could spoil the fun. Watch for competitiveness or jealousy.
• Transiting Venus in Virgo: You notice flaws in yourself or others, and criticism might sting. You want control through “fixing” things, which can lead to pressure in relationships. Pickiness or anxiety could get in the way.
• Transiting Venus in Libra: You might try to keep the peace, but under the surface, you’re dealing with real power struggles. There’s a tendency to avoid open conflict, but resentment can build up fast.
• Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Every feeling hits deep, and you’re not afraid to look at the dark side of love. Jealousy, obsession, or intensity can take over, and secrets might come out. Trust issues need attention.
• Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You want space and freedom, but you might also get pushy about your beliefs or values. Fights can start over things like honesty or independence. There’s a danger of overreacting to anything that feels controlling.
• Transiting Venus in Capricorn: Relationship power struggles play out in practical, maybe even business-like ways. You measure commitment and responsibility, and ambition might get mixed up with emotions.
• Transiting Venus in Aquarius: You pull back emotionally, but dynamics around control can flare up through friends, groups, or even online. There’s a push-pull between wanting closeness and needing distance.
• Transiting Venus in Pisces: Boundaries might blur, and you could want to escape some intense feelings. Compassion and forgiveness are strong, but you need to watch out for sacrificing too much or feeling like a victim.