Tension in relationships or attraction drama
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus square Ascendant transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t start big relationships- romantic or business- since things can get confusing or come off the wrong way.
- Avoid changing your appearance in a major way, like drastic haircuts or super bold fashion makeovers; you might not love the results.
- Try not to make emotional decisions based on flattery or wanting to please other people.
- Don’t sweep problems under the rug in your close relationships just to keep the peace; it could backfire later.
- Avoid overindulging- like overspending, overeating, or partying too much- because self-control can be tricky during this transit.
- Don’t promise more than you can deliver just because you want people to like you.
- Stay away from gossip or drama- misunderstandings with friends can pop up more easily now.
- If you’re feeling extra sensitive to criticism, try not to take things too personally or jump into confrontations.
Do During This Transit
- Spend time with friends or people who make you feel good. Socializing can help smooth over any awkwardness you’re feeling right now.
- Update your look- try a new hairstyle, experiment with your wardrobe, or do a little self-care. You might want to refresh your vibe.
- Be gentle with relationships. If there are misunderstandings or small arguments, remember it’s a good time to practice patience (for yourself and others).
- Get creative! Try drawing, painting, decorating your room, or even baking. It’s a nice time to bring more beauty into your everyday life.
- Write down what you want in your close relationships. Dream big but honest. This is a good moment for some personal clarity.
- Set boundaries if you’re feeling overwhelmed or if people are wanting too much from you. You don’t have to say yes to everything.
- Treat yourself to something small that makes you feel happy, like your favorite snack or a relaxing playlist.
- Keep things light- don’t make any huge decisions about relationships or your appearance until this transit passes.
What’s interesting about this transit?
Venus square the natal Ascendant is a pretty juicy transit, and not just for the usual reasons. If you dig into some old astrology texts and lesser-known interpretations, you find a few quirky takes:
- Ancient texts warn about “the honeyed trap”. Some old sources, especially medieval authors, say this transit brings situations that look sweet and easy at first, but can quickly get complicated- like being offered a lovely gift with hidden strings attached.
- The “mirror of rivals” effect: Some astrologers from the Renaissance believed that this transit could stir up odd rivalries in beauty, style, or charm, even with people you don’t normally compete with. You might find someone starting to mimic your look- or get jealous of you out of nowhere!
- Old herbal astrology connects this transit to skin and perfumes: It was believed that one should avoid trying out new perfumes, lotions, or skin treatments during this transit, as they could lead to allergic reactions or unexpected rashes.
- “Love quarrels in the gate”: One rather poetic rule from antiquity warns of lovers or partners arguing at the door, the literal “gate” to the house, reflecting how relationship tensions can come out right as you’re trying to come or go.
- The “cost of appearances”: Some obscure 19th-century texts say this transit tempts people to overspend on clothes or luxury- often leading to regret or arguments later.
- Social inversion: There’s a notion in older astrology that Venus square Ascendant lets people see the “upside-down” side of their social image, like discovering people see you very differently than you thought, for better or worse.
Experiencing This Transit
With transiting Venus squaring your natal Ascendant, it’s like the universe is putting a spotlight on how you present yourself and interact with others- but Venus is doing it in a bit of a sideways, tricky way. You’re more aware of relationships, personal appeal, and your image, but nothing feels totally smooth or effortless. It’s not usually dramatic, but it makes social waters a little murky and your usual “charm” tricks don’t land as easily.
Challenges During This Transit
- Awkward Social Energy: You might come off as trying too hard, or people misunderstand your intentions. Someone could think you’re flirting when you’re just being friendly, or vice versa.
- Relationship Tension: Old issues with partners or close friends can bubble up, often about your looks, social choices, or spending habits- sometimes for no big reason at all.
- Impulse Shopping or Treating Yourself: It’s tempting to buy things to boost your mood or confidence, especially clothes, beauty products, or anything that helps you “look good”- but there’s risk of buyer’s remorse or feeling out of place in what you’ve chosen.
- Trouble Saying No: It feels extra tough to refuse others, so you might end up overcommitting, whether it’s social invites or emotional labor in relationships.
- Comparisons and Envy: You could find yourself feeling jealous about how others look or what they have. It might even go the other way and notice others acting jealous or weird around you.
Opportunities During This Transit
- Fresh Perspective on Self-Image: It’s a great time to get feedback about how you present yourself. Even if it hurts a little, you’ll learn a lot by hearing how others see you.
- Courage to Try a New Look: If you’ve been playing it safe with your appearance or style, this is a window to be bolder. Just double-check before making anything permanent!
- Working Out Relationship Kinks: If you address misunderstandings with grace, you can clear the air and build deeper trust with partners or friends. Sometimes a little friction helps people grow closer.
- Creativity Boost: Sometimes, feeling a little out of sync pushes you to get creative- whether in your style, hobbies, or thinking outside the box in relationships.
- Learning Social Boundaries: If you tend to say yes too often, this transit can highlight what happens when you overextend. It’s a chance to practice politely setting limits with people.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Ascendant
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: You’re bold and impulsive in relationships. You might want instant excitement, and impatience can lead to arguments or awkward moments.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: Craving comfort and stability, you might act stubborn or possessive with close ones. Indulgence in food or spending is more tempting now.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: You get chatty and flirty. Miscommunications or scattered attention could create confusion or feel shallow in your closest connections.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions run high. You might take things more personally, get clingy, or struggle with moodiness in your relationships.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: You crave attention and want to shine. There could be a dramatic streak- maybe competing for affection or showing off more than usual.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You become extra picky and overthink little things about yourself or others. There’s a risk of being critical instead of just enjoying the moment.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: You really want harmony and might avoid speaking up if something’s off. People-pleasing or feeling off-balance in partnerships could show up.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intensity goes up. Jealous feelings, obsession, or deep emotional issues could bubble up and cause drama or distance.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You get restless and crave fun, freedom, or adventure with others. If things feel too heavy, you might just want to bail.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You get more serious about boundaries and long-term goals. Romantic moves might feel practical, but could also come off as cold or distant.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Weirdness is in- either you want more space, or you attract quirky situations and people. You might pull away if things get clingy.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: Super dreamy and sensitive. There can be confusion or disappointment if vibes don’t live up to your expectations; watch for mixed signals.
