Emotional Frustration Spike
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Mars sesquisquare Moon transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t react impulsively or let your temper get the best of you- especially with family or close friends.
- Avoid starting arguments just because you’re feeling extra sensitive or irritable.
- Don’t make big decisions about your home or personal life when emotions are running high.
- Try not to bottle up your feelings, but don’t explode over small things either.
- Stay away from confrontational people or situations, if you can.
- Don’t let stress or tension push you to act recklessly or say things you’ll regret later.
- Don’t ignore signs that you need a break- rest is important during intense emotional times.
- Skip drama on social media or in group chats; avoid venting online.
- Don’t push yourself physically if you’re already feeling run down or edgy.
- Avoid making promises based on how you feel in the heat of the moment.
Do During This Transit
- Channel your energy: Put your feelings into something active- like cleaning, exercise, or working on a project. This helps burn off some of that extra emotional steam.
- Practice self-care: Take breaks and do things you enjoy. Even small things like listening to music or having a snack can help you keep your cool.
- Write things down: If you’re feeling moody or frustrated, jot it all down in a journal. Getting it out of your head can make a big difference.
- Set healthy boundaries: If someone is stressing you out, it’s okay to say “no” or take some space for yourself.
- Deal with issues directly: If something’s bothering you, talk about it calmly but clearly. Avoiding things can just make them blow up later.
- Try a creative outlet: Paint, draw, dance- anything that helps you express yourself and move through intense feelings in a positive way.
- Stay physically active: Mars energy likes action, so take a walk, run, or do stretches to let off steam.
- Watch your reactions: You might feel touchy or quick to snap. Take a deep breath before responding so you don’t say something you’ll regret.
- Avoid unnecessary conflicts: If you sense an argument brewing, step back if you can. Save tough talks for when things cool off.
- Make time for rest: Emotions and energy can run high during this transit, so don’t forget to get enough sleep and downtime.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- In some old European astrology texts, a Mars sesquisquare (135-degree aspect) to the natal Moon was called “the Red Dissonance,” said to stir hidden grudges within a family, bringing up old household tensions that normally stay buried.
- Ancient Persian astrologers sometimes warned this transit could make travelers restless at night, especially on long journeys or when sleeping away from home. Naps might be filled with odd or agitating dreams.
- In some 17th century sources, this transit was thought to bring “spilled broth or wine”- meaning literal kitchen mishaps or small household accidents, especially those fueled by short tempers or distractions.
- Some old French astrology books mention that this transit can spark sudden appetites for spicy or unusual foods- not always with pleasant results!
- In the writings of William Lilly, Mars challenging the Moon was thought to sometimes cause a person to “blurt out secrets” or say things in haste that can’t easily be taken back, especially during arguments or moments of stress.
- Traditional Indian astrology links an agitated Mars-Moon aspect to a restless mind and quick emotional swings, but they also said such tension can make a person more brave in facing things they usually avoid.
Experiencing This Transit
When Mars makes a sesquisquare aspect (that’s a 135-degree connection) to your natal Moon, it creates a weird, edgy sort of vibe. It’s not the most common aspect out there, but you’ll probably feel it as a low-key pressure cooker in your emotional world. Mars is sort of about anger, action, and heat, while the Moon is all feelings, comfort, and habits. So when they’re in this awkward clash, you might find yourself reacting to things quickly…maybe too quickly.
You could notice you’re extra irritable, sensitive, or just more “up” emotionally- especially about personal stuff like family, your living space, or old memories. Little things that usually roll off your back might really get under your skin now. You might even surprise yourself by how fast you react, or how strongly you feel about something that would usually just annoy you a little.
Challenges during this transit
- Emotional outbursts: You might snap at people (especially family or roommates), sometimes for reasons you can’t even put into words. Your mood can feel jumpy, like popcorn in a hot pan.
- Impulsive decisions: There’s a risk of making choices based on a flash of emotion- like sending a text you instantly regret, or throwing out something in a fit of frustration.
- Sleep troubles: With Mars poking at your Moon, you might toss and turn at night, or have dreams that leave you out of sorts when you wake up. You could be restless or even have bursts of energy at weird hours.
- Feeling invaded or not at home: Any little disruption at home (broken things, loud noises, surprise visits) may feel way more annoying than usual.
- Clumsiness and accidents: Old books talked about kitchen mishaps or “spilled broth”- so watch for accidents from hurrying around the house or cooking while stressed.
Opportunities during this transit
- Standing up for yourself: Even if you’re usually non-confrontational, this transit can boost your courage when it comes to saying what you feel- especially if it’s overdue.
- Cleansing old energy: Mars gives you the push to deal with stuff that might have been simmering for a while. This can be a great time to clear the air with someone or set boundaries at home.
- Channeling energy: If you use the extra energy in a positive way (like working out, deep-cleaning your space, or finally tackling that annoying chore), you might be surprised how much you get done.
- Discovering your triggers: Getting annoyed can be uncomfortable, but it actually shows you stuff that matters to you. You could learn something about yourself just by noticing your reactions during this time.
- Trying new comforts: That restless feeling might push you to switch up your routine- maybe cooking a spicy meal, redecorating, or starting a project you’ve been putting off.
How the Sign of Transiting Mars Modifies This Transit Sesquisquare to Natal Moon
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Mars.
- Transiting Mars in Aries: You’re a lot quicker to react- maybe even a little impulsive and hotheaded, so watch out for snapping at people without thinking.
- Transiting Mars in Taurus: Frustration hangs around longer, and you might bottle things up until you finally lose your cool. Small irritations build up slowly but surely.
- Transiting Mars in Gemini: Arguments pop up faster, and you’re more likely to blurt things out or get snappy in conversations or over text.
- Transiting Mars in Cancer: You might take things extra personally, feeling defensive about your emotions or your home life- family drama can get heated.
- Transiting Mars in Leo: You get dramatic with your feelings and want attention. If someone ignores your needs, you might throw a bit of a tantrum or feel wounded pride.
- Transiting Mars in Virgo: Little details irritate you more, so nitpicking or stressing about perfection can turn minor annoyances into bigger emotional outbursts.
- Transiting Mars in Libra: Conflict over fairness or relationships is more likely. You could have passive-aggressive moments or be really bothered by any kind of imbalance.
- Transiting Mars in Scorpio: Emotions run deeper and you could hold onto grudges or obsessions- outbursts happen when you can’t keep things controlled anymore.
- Transiting Mars in Sagittarius: You’re restless and quick to react, especially if you feel trapped or misunderstood. You might blurt out truths that sting, or stomp off for space.
- Transiting Mars in Capricorn: You’re more controlled but any frustration could simmer until you finally snap, especially around authority or responsibilities.
- Transiting Mars in Aquarius: Emotionally rebellious- if you feel boxed in, you’ll want to break free. Outbursts can be unpredictable or come out of nowhere.
- Transiting Mars in Pisces: Extra sensitive and quick to feel hurt, but you might try to avoid direct confrontation. There’s a tendency to feel overwhelmed or weepy about things.