Passionate sparks
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Mars conjunct Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t jump into new relationships just for the excitement. Mars and Venus together can make you feel extra flirty, but it’s easy to rush or choose someone for the thrill, not the real connection.
- Avoid picking fights with your partner. This transit can stir up passions, but that includes anger too! Try not to let little things blow up into big arguments.
- Don’t spend impulsively on beauty or luxury items. The urge to splurge is strong now, so watch your wallet and ask yourself if you really need that fancy new thing.
- Try not to act only on physical attraction. Chemistry is hot, but it might cloud your judgment for now. Don’t ignore red flags just because sparks are flying.
- Avoid risky romantic moves at work or with friends. Mixing romance and established friendships or work connections can get messy fast while Mars is spicing things up.
- Don’t ignore your own needs to please others. You might want to make others happy, but don’t do it at your own expense or go along just to keep the peace.
- Try not to be too pushy or demanding in love or creativity. Mars can make you want things your way right now, but back off a bit if you’re coming on super strong.
- Avoid making big decisions about love or money on a whim. There’s a lot of passion in the air, but it can cloud clear thinking- give yourself some time before saying yes to anything huge.
Do During This Transit
- Start a new romance – This is prime time for sparks to fly with someone new or to rekindle the fire in your current relationship.
- Be bold about your feelings – If you’ve been wanting to tell someone how you feel, go for it! Confidence comes easier right now.
- Focus on your appearance – Try a new look, get a haircut, or update your wardrobe. You’ll likely feel extra attractive and magnetic.
- Get creative – Mars gives you energy and Venus adds inspiration, so do art, music, dance, or any hobby that helps you express yourself.
- Plan a fun date or adventure – Do something exciting with your partner or friends, like trying a new restaurant, hiking, or even taking a quick trip.
- Take initiative with finances – Venus rules money, so it’s a decent time to chase after things you want or ask for a raise, especially if you’re showing passion for your goals.
- Work on self-love – Treat yourself kindly, do something you love, or give yourself a small luxury to boost your confidence.
- Channel your energy into fitness – Dancing, sports, or even a new workout routine helps burn off any restless energy and makes you feel good about your body.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- In old medieval texts, Mars conjunct Venus was said to “incite the humors of the body,” meaning it stirs up energy, stirring passions and even causing a literal physical flush or warmth in the body- think of cheeks turning rosy or a sudden burst of physical activity.
- A few Renaissance astrologers believed this transit could “awaken the artist’s hand,” triggering unusual or sudden urges to create beauty or make art, even for those who rarely do so.
- Some ancient texts thought this combination increased the chance of scandal, especially in matters of love- think hidden affairs or secret crushes coming to light unexpectedly.
- There’s an old belief that women experiencing this transit may have prophetic or very vivid dreams, especially about romance or battles.
- Persian astrologers from centuries ago warned of “hot words in the home,” suggesting this transit can spark flirty banter or outright arguments with family or loved ones.
- Some sources say that the pleasure of the senses is heightened- not just romantic or sexual, but everything, from food tasting richer to spring air feeling more fragrant.
Experiencing This Transit
When Mars crosses over your natal Venus, things don’t just stay calm. You might feel more alive than usual- bolder, flirtier, and definitely more interested in connecting with people. It’s like you suddenly turn the volume up on both passion and desire for pleasure. You could find yourself being more competitive or direct in romantic situations, or even just while hanging out with friends. This transit isn’t shy: it brings what’s inside out into the open.
Challenges during this transit
- You might get a little impatient or even impulsive in relationships. There’s a tendency to push for quick answers or resolutions, which can backfire if the other person isn’t on the same wavelength.
- There’s a risk of crossing lines- the flirtiness can get out of control or misinterpreted, leading to jealousy or mixed signals.
- Old wounds can flare up, especially if you’ve been harboring any resentments. Arguments about things you thought you were over might pop up out of nowhere.
- Temptations are everywhere: sweet treats, overspending, texting that ex, you name it. Mars brings heat, and Venus soaks it up- easy to overdo it.
- You might notice more arguments in close relationships, as people become more sensitive to slights or rejections. Little things can blow up fast.
Opportunities during this transit
- If you want to spark up your love life, this is a golden moment. People usually feel more attractive and are willing to put themselves out there.
- Your creativity gets a big boost. It’s a great time to try art, music, cooking, or just experimenting with your look or your style.
- You can use this extra confidence to ask for what you want, whether it’s a date, a second helping of dessert, or something more ambitious like negotiating at work.
- If you’re in a relationship, this transit makes it easier to reignite the spark- do something fun and spontaneous together.
- Physical energy is up, so channeling it into dance, exercise, or any form of movement can feel extra satisfying right now.
How the Sign of Transiting Mars Modifies This Transit Conjunct to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Mars.
- Transiting Mars in Aries: Everything feels more impulsive and bold. You’re likely to chase after who or what you want with no holding back. Flirting turns direct and your attractions hit fast and hot.
- Transiting Mars in Taurus: Desire gets slow and steady. You crave comfort and sensuality. You’re less likely to rush and more into showing affection with physical touch or sweet gifts.
- Transiting Mars in Gemini: Flirty talk and playful conversations take center stage. Curiosity rules- you might find yourself attracted to witty people or want to explore more variety in your relationships.
- Transiting Mars in Cancer: Emotions come first now. You might feel more protective or even moody with crushes and relationships. Attraction is tied to feeling safe and cared for.
- Transiting Mars in Leo: Romance gets dramatic and bold. You crave attention or grand gestures and might act more playful or proud. You’re drawn to partners who stand out or make you feel special.
- Transiting Mars in Virgo: The vibe gets picky and practical. You show love by doing helpful things for others, and you’re more turned on by someone who’s dependable or pays attention to details.
- Transiting Mars in Libra: Charm is your secret weapon. You’re extra focused on harmony, beauty, and making sure everyone feels included. Partners who are fair and gracious will really catch your eye.
- Transiting Mars in Scorpio: Everything gets intense and private. Desire can feel magnetic or even obsessive. You’re more likely to go all in with someone, but want deep trust and loyalty.
- Transiting Mars in Sagittarius: You crave adventure and new experiences in love. There’s a fun, open energy that pushes you towards people who inspire you, or who come from different walks of life.
- Transiting Mars in Capricorn: Ambition and goals influence relationships more than usual. You might chase after someone determined, responsible, or successful, and you’re drawn to long-term results, not just a fling.
- Transiting Mars in Aquarius: Your tastes get more unique or experimental. Friendships can turn flirty, and you’re attracted to people who are different, interesting, or a little bit rebellious.
- Transiting Mars in Pisces: Romance is dreamy and emotional. You could fall for someone artistic or sensitive, or feel drawn to connect on a spiritual level. Actions in love may feel more subtle and intuitive.