Romantic tension or feisty flirtation
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Mars semisquare Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t jump into new romantic relationships without thinking things through- impulsive actions now can lead to regrets.
- Avoid starting arguments or drama with your partner or friends. This transit can make small things feel way bigger than they are.
- Try not to overspend on things you really don’t need, especially on shopping sprees or luxury items.
- Don’t let jealousy or possessiveness get the best of you. These feelings can flare up easily now.
- Avoid trying to “win” or dominate in love or social situations- Mars-Venus tension can make you want to push your will, but it won’t go over well.
- Don’t chase after instant gratification, whether it’s with food, sex, or other pleasures. It’s easy to go overboard now.
- If you’re feeling annoyed or frustrated, don’t bottle it up- but don’t lash out either. Find a healthy way to express how you feel.
- Try not to make big decisions in your love life (like breakups or declarations) in the heat of the moment. Wait till the energy calms down.
Do During This Transit
- Channel your energy into creative projects- try painting, writing, or DIY crafts.
- Use this spark to freshen up your look or style, like experimenting with new clothes or makeup.
- Work out your frustrations with physical activity, such as jogging, dancing, or going for a long walk.
- Have honest conversations about your wants or boundaries in relationships- just keep it gentle!
- Explore new ways of flirting or connecting with your crush, even if it feels a little bold.
- Do something indulgent, like treating yourself to chocolate or a mini spa day at home.
- Work on finding balance between what you desire and what you actually need.
- Try out a new hobby that lets you express your passions, like cooking a fancy meal or learning an instrument.
- Spend a little time on self-reflection; write about what you’re really attracted to right now.
- If something or someone is getting under your skin, try to pause and breathe before reacting. Focus on self-care.
What’s interesting about this transit?
When Mars forms a semisquare to your natal Venus, it might not be the most famous aspect, but ancient and old astrology texts packed in some curious takes about it. Here are some lesser-known or quirky interpretations from back in the day:
- “The Knotted Ribbon” – Some medieval astrologers said this aspect tangles affection and desire, much like a knotted ribbon, causing small but persistent delays in romance or creativity.
- Unbridled Cravings – In old Greek astrology commentaries, this aspect was thought to stir “wayward appetites,” nudging people toward sudden cravings for sweets or luxury as a substitute for affection.
- Beware the Little Quarrel – Some Renaissance astrologers described this transit as “the spark in a wine barrel” – in other words, minor annoyances catch fire quickly, especially among lovers or close friends.
- The Pinched Purse – Oddly enough, certain Victorian-era sources linked this aspect to unexpected little costs or petty spending habits tied to vanity or pleasure.
- Indecisive Charm – A few old French texts said this transit can make someone “irresistibly charming, but to no clear end,” flirting without real intent or falling for people they quickly lose interest in.
- Discord in Harmony – Some Arabic astrology books noted that Mars semisquare Venus is when “the music’s melody skips,” meaning creative work (art, music, dance) feels offbeat or out of sync just when you want it to flow.
Experiencing This Transit
So, what’s it really feel like when Mars is making a semisquare to your Venus? This is a minor but still spicy transit. You might notice more friction than usual between what you want (Mars) and what you like or value (Venus). It’s subtle, but it can mess with your vibes in romance, money, and creativity.
Challenges during this transit
- Annoying Arguments: Little things can set you off, especially in close relationships. You both mean well, but you might bicker over totally petty stuff – who forgot to text back, who finishes the milk, that kind of thing.
- Impulse Spending: Venus loves pretty things, and Mars just wants them now. You might find yourself buying stuff you don’t even end up liking, or feeling annoyed at yourself for blowing your budget (even if just a little).
- Awkward Flirting: It’s easy to send mixed signals. Maybe you try to be charming but it comes out pushy, or you’re suddenly attracted to someone who lights a fire in you… only for it to fizzle right away.
- Creative Blocks: If you do art or anything creative, it’s common under this transit to feel edgy and frustrated – almost like your inspiration is lagging just half a step behind your enthusiasm.
Opportunities during this transit
- Healthy Conflict: This aspect gives you a chance to air out small relationship issues before they turn into big ones. If you’re honest and don’t let things simmer, you might end up closer than before.
- Boosted Allure: Mars gives your Venus an edge, so you may notice extra boldness or sex appeal. If you want to flirt or ask someone out, the nudge might be just what you need (even if your lines are a little awkward, it can be endearing!).
- Trying Something New: The impatience of this transit can actually help bust you out of a rut. If you’ve been bored with your appearance, your art, or your hobbies, you’ll get a push to experiment – even if the first try is a little rough, you’ll learn something.
- Revaluating What Matters: Because things feel a bit “off,” you’re more likely to spot what isn’t working in your relationships or spending. It’s a solid time to tweak how you show love, what you buy, or what you create, so things feel more true to you after the transit passes.
How the Sign of Transiting Mars Modifies This Transit Semisquare to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Mars.
- Transiting Mars in Aries: Impulses and frustrations are intense. You might be way more direct or even a little reckless when it comes to who or what you want.
- Transiting Mars in Taurus: Desires are stubborn and sensual. You could feel possessive, slow to let go of a grudge, and crave extra comfort or physical affection.
- Transiting Mars in Gemini: Flirtiness and restlessness ramp up. Words get sharper, and arguments might break out over mixed signals or misunderstandings.
- Transiting Mars in Cancer: Emotions are touchier- you might act on mood swings or feel especially sensitive about affection and security in relationships.
- Transiting Mars in Leo: Drama is in the air! You could crave attention or passion, or get jealous if you’re not feeling seen by those you care about.
- Transiting Mars in Virgo: Petty irritations could pop up, and you might nitpick or worry about the little things in your love life more than usual.
- Transiting Mars in Libra: You might notice more passive-aggressive energy, or feel torn between wanting harmony and getting what you want. Arguments could revolve around fairness.
- Transiting Mars in Scorpio: Jealousy and power struggles are possible. Deep desires bubble up and it can be harder to keep things casual or light.
- Transiting Mars in Sagittarius: You could feel restless and want more freedom or adventure in relationships. Arguments might be about beliefs, plans, or what’s “right”.
- Transiting Mars in Capricorn: You might get frustrated if things aren’t moving forward. Ambition mixes into love, and you can be more critical about effort and commitment.
- Transiting Mars in Aquarius: You might rebel against expectations or routines, and sudden mood swings can affect how you connect to others.
- Transiting Mars in Pisces: You could feel confused about what you want or act on subtle feelings rather than logic. Boundaries in relationships might feel blurry.