Inner Frustration and Pushed Buttons
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Mars sesquisquare Mars transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t rush into arguments or conflicts, even if you feel super irritated.
- Avoid starting big, risky projects or making impulsive decisions.
- Try not to drive aggressively or lose your cool behind the wheel.
- Resist the urge to push your body too hard with tough workouts or sports.
- Avoid picking fights with authority figures or loved ones over small stuff.
- Don’t act out of jealousy, impatience, or anger- it’ll only backfire.
- Stay away from reckless behavior, like gambling or taking risks just for the thrill.
- If something frustrates you, don’t bottle it up or explode; express your feelings calmly.
- Don’t ignore safety precautions, at work or at home- accidents happen easier now.
- Try not to respond immediately to criticism; take a breath before reacting.
Do During This Transit
- Channel your energy into physical activity like working out, jogging, or even dancing. It helps release any built-up tension.
- Start a new project or tackle something you’ve been putting off. You’ll have a lot of drive and impatience to use up.
- Practice patience and think before you react, especially if you feel irritated. Find healthy ways to vent frustration.
- Stand up for yourself if needed, but try to avoid picking unnecessary fights.
- Work on assertiveness skills, like practicing saying no or setting boundaries.
- Use the extra motivation to overcome challenges or obstacles- don’t shy away just because things get tricky.
- Reflect on where anger or restlessness is coming from in your life. It’s a good time for some self-awareness.
- Get organized and burn off nervous energy by decluttering a space or cleaning.
- Try not to rush important decisions. Slow down and double-check your actions before jumping in.
- Focus on constructive competition, like playing friendly sports or games, instead of turning everything into a battle.
What’s interesting about this transit?
Mars sesquisquare Mars isn’t a front-page aspect in classic astrology, but if you dig into some old and dusty books, there are a few gems you can find about it. Here are some obscure interpretations:
- Impulsive Rivalry: Old texts sometimes refer to this aspect as the “warrior’s test”- it’s said to call out a hidden competitor within yourself, or attract unexpected rivals who challenge you in sneakier ways than a straight-up fight.
- Broken Troop Formation: There’s a medieval mention that this Mars-Mars link can mean “a disordered army” – like your energy and focus are scattered, or your ‘troops’ (habits, friends, routines) don’t all march in time.
- Secretive Hostility: Some ancient sources talk about this transit stirring “silent grudges and quiet arguments,” hinting at conflict that bubbles under the surface- resentments don’t come out as yelling, but as passive-aggressive actions or snappy comments.
- Acting Without Witness: One Renaissance commentary describes this as “force applied unseen”- like making moves, taking risks, or lashing out when no one’s watching, which might backfire if you’re not careful.
- Inflamed Humors: The Greeks and Arabs sometimes linked this aspect with literal bodily heat- fevers, headaches, skin irritations- anywhere Mars effects can hide, as a sign of agitated ‘internal fire.’
- Restlessness in Purpose: There’s also a mention of “shifting purpose”- not feeling sure why you’re doing what you’re doing, but feeling you have to push ahead anyway.
Experiencing This Transit
When transiting Mars makes a sesquisquare (that’s a 135-degree angle) to your natal Mars, you usually feel a subtle- yet pretty noticeable- tension in the air. It’s not full-on drama like a square or opposition, but it’s definitely poking at you. It’s like a squeaky wheel somewhere in your psyche making it real hard for you to just sit still. Energy spikes, you’re restless, and quick to get into little spats. You might not fully understand why you’re irritated, either.
This transit often feels like wanting to take action but not being able to do it exactly the way you want. There’s an itch to prove yourself or push forward, but something’s a bit sideways- like you’re pressing on the gas but the wheels are a little out of alignment. It’s easy to brush off, but it can build up tension. Let’s look at the challenges and opportunities.
Challenges during this transit
- Snappy Irritability: Annoyance can creep up over small stuff- maybe your siblings, coworkers, or friends just rub you the wrong way by breathing too loudly or asking one too many questions.
- Sloppy Action: You’re rushing or pushing ahead, but missing details or making mistakes because you just want to ‘do something’ already.
- Picking Old Scabs: Arguments from weeks or even years ago could suddenly seem fresh again. You might find yourself picking fights or replaying grudges you thought were over.
- Hidden Frustration: You might not blow up outwardly, but the irritation sits inside like a pressure cooker- showing up as headaches, muscle tension, or random bursts of snappiness.
- Rogue Independence: Feeling like you just need to “do it yourself,” you can push others away or refuse help even when you’re getting overwhelmed.
Opportunities during this transit
- Channel Your Fire: This is a great time to get stuff done that doesn’t need to be perfect- yard work, decluttering, hitting the gym, learning boxing or kickboxing, or anything physical that lets off steam.
- Awareness of Triggers: Noticing what sets you off gives you a chance to reflect on whether these things really matter, or if you’re just letting old triggers rule you.
- Creative Assertion: You might take a more experimental or bold approach to a project, hobby, or challenge. Sometimes, frustration boosts creativity if you use it to think outside the box.
- Defining Boundaries: It’s easier to see where you don’t want to be pushed. This can be a time to practice saying “no” or standing your ground- just try to do it without burning bridges.
- Learning Patience: Because pushing ahead isn’t working perfectly, you might learn to pause, plan, and consider new strategies, which can help in the long run.
How the Sign of Transiting Mars Modifies This Transit Sesquisquare to Natal Mars
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Mars.
- Transiting Mars in Aries: Everything feels way more urgent. You might be extra impulsive, competitive, or ready to jump into action without thinking it through.
- Transiting Mars in Taurus: Frustration can build slowly and stubbornly. You might feel blocked or annoyed by anything that slows you down, and it’s tougher to let things go.
- Transiting Mars in Gemini: You’re easily distracted and might spread your energy too thin. Arguments or restlessness might show up, making it hard to focus on just one thing.
- Transiting Mars in Cancer: Emotions run high. You could get touchy or snappy, especially over family stuff or if you feel like you’re not being cared for.
- Transiting Mars in Leo: Pride and ego get in the way. You could overreact to criticism or feel the urge to show off and stand out, maybe more than usual.
- Transiting Mars in Virgo: Irritation shows up through nitpicking or being overly critical- of others and yourself. Routine stuff might get on your nerves way more than usual.
- Transiting Mars in Libra: Disagreements or passive-aggressive vibes pop up in relationships. You might feel pushed to please people, but also resentful about it.
- Transiting Mars in Scorpio: Old grudges surface, or intense emotions bubble up under the surface. Jealousy, possessiveness, or wanting to control things is more likely now.
- Transiting Mars in Sagittarius: Restlessness is high, and you’re itching for freedom. You might clash with people over beliefs or get annoyed by anything that limits you.
- Transiting Mars in Capricorn: You’re more likely to push yourself hard or get frustrated by authority and rules. Ambition can burn hot, but you might get stressed over not making progress fast enough.
- Transiting Mars in Aquarius: You want to do things your own way, and clashes can happen if anyone tries to boss you around. Sudden or rebellious actions come more naturally.
- Transiting Mars in Pisces: Motivation comes and goes, and you might feel annoyed by confusion or lack of direction. Passive aggression or feeling helpless can pop up, making it tough to channel your energy.