Relationship tension or assertive pushback
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Mars opposite Ascendant transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t start big arguments or pick fights- you might regret what you say.
- Try not to act on impulse, especially with important decisions or purchases.
- Avoid taking risks or doing anything reckless, like driving too fast or extreme sports.
- Don’t ignore other people’s feelings- even if you’re feeling extra fiery or impatient.
- Try not to be too pushy or stubborn with friends, partners, or family.
- Avoid starting major relationship talks or breakups- they’re more likely to get heated.
- Don’t jump to conclusions about what others mean- you might misread the vibe.
- Don’t overcommit or take on more than you can handle- you could burn out fast.
- Hold off on confrontations at work since tempers (yours and others’) can flare up easily.
- Try not to act out of jealousy or competitiveness- it’s easy to feel challenged during this transit.
Do During This Transit
- Speak up for yourself – This is a great time to assert your boundaries and say what’s really on your mind. Don’t be afraid to stand your ground.
- Start a workout routine or get physical – Mars brings tons of energy, so channel it into exercise, sports, or any physical activity.
- Take action on personal goals – If you’ve been putting something off, now’s a good time to go for it. You’ll have the drive to make things happen.
- Deal with conflict head-on – If there’s tension with someone, don’t sweep it under the rug. Address the issues, but try to keep your cool.
- Stand up in relationships – Whether it’s romantic or just with friends, be honest about what you want and need from others.
- Get competitive (in a healthy way) – Mars loves a challenge, so play games, compete at work, or push yourself to do your best.
- Be proactive about your health – It’s a good time to get checkups or tackle any physical complaints.
- Try something bold – This transit adds courage, so try that new hobby, take a risk, or make a big move you’ve been thinking about.
- Channel anger productively – If you feel extra irritable, use that energy to clean, organize, or fix something you’ve been avoiding.
- Practice being direct – This energy helps you be clear and straightforward. People might actually appreciate your honesty now!
What’s interesting about this transit?
Mars opposite the natal Ascendant is a classic “relationship trigger,” but if you dig into old texts, there are some pretty unique takes people had on this transit. Here are some rare or old-school ideas about what can happen when it hits:
- Disputes with open enemies: According to some ancient sources, especially from medieval astrology, this transit was thought to literally bring “open enemies” out of the woodwork. Not just arguments, but actually identifying who’s working against you.
- Sudden fevers or “hot” illnesses: Old texts sometimes saw Mars as a catalyst for fevers or irritations, especially affecting the head or face – so, spontaneous headaches, rashes, or irritability could be Mars showing off.
- Being challenged on your honor: In some Renaissance texts, this transit could mean being publicly called out or challenged, especially if you’ve got an important position, or if someone’s jealous of your reputation.
- A time for ‘duels’ (literal or figurative): Some rare interpretations linked this transit to actual duels or arguments, or at least the feeling of “squaring off” against someone, even in court or in business.
- Unexpected breaks in alliances: Certain old Arab texts hint that this transit could suddenly break up partnerships or friendships, sometimes out of nowhere or because of long-hidden anger finally coming out.
- Energy that’s hard to hide: Mars here was considered, in some traditions, as making any inner restlessness super visible to other people – so even if you try to keep calm, everybody can see you’re on edge.
Experiencing This Transit
With Mars moving opposite your natal Ascendant, it’s like the universe is giving you a big, loud “wake up!” signal about the way you relate to other people. Mars transits are always energetic, and this one tends to stir up relationships, push buttons, and call you to take action (or defend yourself). Any feelings you’ve been hiding might come to the surface, especially if you’ve felt irritated or walked over lately.
Here’s what this time can feel like, and what to look out for:
Challenges during this transit
- Conflict with others: You might notice everyone seems to be picking fights with you, or you’re less patient than usual. Something as small as someone cutting you off in traffic or a friend making a snarky joke can push your buttons more than usual.
- Trouble with cooperation: Working as part of a team can get frustrating, or you might feel like you have to “go it alone.” Misunderstandings can spin out fast, and people could see you as stubborn or aggressive.
- Blunt honesty: There’s no filter with Mars, and you might find yourself saying what you’re really thinking- to the shock or annoyance of those around you.
- Projection: Sometimes with this transit, you might see your own anger or issues in other people, blaming them for things that really start with you.
- Lack of subtlety: Mars isn’t known for its tact. Subtle hints or gentle nudges just aren’t your style right now, and you might burn a few bridges if you’re not careful.
Opportunities during this transit
- Standing up for yourself: If you’ve let others take the lead or walked on you, this is a great time to finally set some boundaries or speak up about what matters to you.
- Productive confrontation: Old grudges or unspoken issues in your relationships can come up, but that’s not always bad – clearing the air now can help you build healthier, more honest connections.
- Energy to take action: Got a project you’ve been waiting to start? Mars gives you the drive to just get going. You probably won’t want to sit still for long, so it’s a perfect time to be physically active or dive into something new.
- Learning from how you “show up” with people: This transit shines a spotlight on your habits in one-on-one situations, so pay attention- you can figure out what works for you and what doesn’t.
- Expressing passion: Whether it’s with a partner or in creative work, you’re not shy about going after what you want now. This is powerful energy, and if you channel it right, you can make a real impression.
How the Sign of Transiting Mars Modifies This Transit Opposite to Natal Ascendant
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Mars.
- Transiting Mars in Aries: Everything feels super urgent. Conflicts pop up fast, and people (including you) might act before they think. There’s a real “me first” vibe to any arguments or drama.
- Transiting Mars in Taurus: Issues are more stubborn and slow-burning. Disagreements aren’t explosive, but they stick around, and it’s tough to get someone (or yourself) to budge.
- Transiting Mars in Gemini: Arguments are likely to be about words or ideas. There’s lots of talking (maybe some gossip), debates, or even misunderstandings- watch for things getting heated over texts or social media.
- Transiting Mars in Cancer: Fights get emotional. People might get defensive, hurt, or passive-aggressive, so things might come out sideways instead of being addressed directly.
- Transiting Mars in Leo: Drama, pride, and ego are in the spotlight. Conflict can be more theatrical, with everyone wanting to be seen, heard, or right. You might clash over who’s getting attention.
- Transiting Mars in Virgo: Problems get picked apart detail by detail. Criticism or nagging can spark tension, and little things might bug you way more than usual.
- Transiting Mars in Libra: Arguments are about fairness or relationships. People want justice, but might also avoid direct confrontation by being passive-aggressive or trying to keep the peace (and failing).
- Transiting Mars in Scorpio: The stakes feel higher. Power struggles, jealousy, or old hurts can come up, and there’s often an all-or-nothing feeling to any drama.
- Transiting Mars in Sagittarius: Disagreements center around beliefs, opinions, or plans. People are blunt, and it’s easy for everyone to go overboard or to argue about who’s “right.”
- Transiting Mars in Capricorn: Fights are about control, ambition, or responsibilities. It’s practical but intense, and you or others might get bossy or try to dominate.
- Transiting Mars in Aquarius: People get rebellious or want to do things their own way. Arguments might be about freedom, group goals, or weird, unexpected stuff cropping up.
- Transiting Mars in Pisces: Drama feels confusing or indirect. Issues can get swept under the rug, but they might bubble up in passive or sneaky ways. People could play the victim or avoid the problem altogether.