Transit Saturn Square Natal Venus

Love and relationship tests

Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Saturn Square Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.

Avoid During This Transit

• Don’t start new romantic relationships- you might not have all the warm fuzzy feelings you want right now.
• Try not to make big decisions about love or breakups- you might be feeling a bit colder or more distant than usual.
• Avoid risky financial moves like big purchases, loans, or investments- you could feel a pinch with money or regret a splurge.
• Don’t ignore problems in your relationships- it’s easy to feel let down, but running away won’t help.
• Try not to get too focused on your flaws or feel unworthy- self-esteem can take a hit, so be gentle with yourself.
• Hold off on settling arguments or making demands- you might come across as harsh or misunderstood.
• Don’t expect instant gratification with pleasure, social stuff, or creative projects- everything might feel a bit “meh.”
• Avoid comparing yourself or your relationships to others- things might seem better elsewhere, but it’s just the Saturn vibes talking.
• Try not to overwork or ignore fun altogether- balance is important, even when it feels like a grind.
• Avoid bottling up your emotions- talk to someone if you’re feeling lonely or down.

Do During This Transit

• Take a closer look at your relationships and figure out what’s working and what’s not.
• Set healthier boundaries with the people in your life- even if it’s a little awkward.
• Save money and keep an eye on your spending; it’s a great time to get serious about your budget.
• Re-evaluate what you really value- in love, friendships, and even your personal style.
• Focus on self-love and boost your confidence; don’t look to others for validation.
• Work to repair or strengthen important relationships, especially if they’ve hit some rough patches.
• Let go of toxic or draining connections that aren’t good for you anymore.
• Put in the effort to prove your loyalty and commitment to the people you truly care about.
• Take a break from any drama or new love interests, and give yourself space to reflect.
• Embrace being a little more mature and practical when it comes to romance and money.

What’s interesting about this transit?

When Saturn forms a square to your natal Venus, most modern astrology talks about hardship in love or money. But if you flip open some really old or obscure astrology texts, you’ll find some odd and forgotten ideas popping up:

• Isolation by Beauty: Some old-school astrologers believed this transit could make you so focused on ideals of beauty or perfection that you start to isolate yourself, because nobody (not even you!) can live up to these sky-high standards.
• The “Withering Vine”: There’s an idea from Renaissance astrology that Venus (love, pleasure) gets “withered” when Saturn is harsh, so people’s charms, charisma, or even physical appearance might seem to fade temporarily- like flowers wilting when it’s cold.
• Costly Pleasures: In ancient times, Saturn-Venus squares were sometimes said to bring debts from overindulgence- like eating too much during festival season and then paying the price later (in more ways than one).
• Breaks in Traditions: Some medieval astrologers noted this aspect can break traditions around relationships or beauty. For example, a family might skip an engagement or marriage that would normally be expected, or change a long-held way of celebrating.
• Hidden Talents Uncovered Through Challenges: Older texts hint that Saturn challenging Venus can actually reveal artistic or creative gifts, simply because you’re forced to find new ways to express yourself when the old ones just aren’t working anymore.
• Disrupted Friendships: Some ancient astrologers specifically called this a “quarrel among companions,” warning that friendships- not just romances- might be tested or might cool off during this time.

Experiencing This Transit

When Saturn makes a square to your natal Venus, it can feel pretty tough. It’s one of those times when love, money, comfort, and your sense of self-worth get challenged head-on. Maybe you find yourself questioning what and who you truly value. It’s like life is forcing you to take a hard look at your relationships, your spending habits, or even your self-esteem, and making you tidy things up- whether you want to or not.

Challenges during this transit

• Feeling Disconnected: You might notice distance growing between you and a partner or close friend. Conversations feel heavier, or the fun just isn’t there like it used to be.
• Low Self-Esteem: All those little doubts about how you look, love, or your abilities might seem louder right now. You could feel like you’re not attractive or lovable enough, even if it’s not objectively true.
• Money Squeeze: Financial tight spots can show up, especially if you’ve been a bit carefree with money. You might have to tighten your belt or pay off old debts.
• Cold Shoulder Syndrome: Sometimes people around you just seem less affectionate, colder, or more critical than usual, and it can sting.
• Creative Blocks: If you’re usually the artistic or social type, you might hit a wall- coming up blank when trying to create, or feeling like your talents aren’t being recognized.

Opportunities during this transit

• Strengthening What Matters: This is a perfect time to cut out relationships or habits that aren’t good for you. The stuff (and people) that stick around after this usually mean much more.
• Building Real Self-Worth: Saturn wants you to see your own value, but not just for what others think- based on what’s truly important to you. It’s about earning self-respect, not just chasing after validation.
• Honest Love: Relationships that survive this transit often become a lot more real and sturdy- less about fantasy, more about honest connection. You learn who’s in your corner for the long haul.
• Financial Grown-Up Moves: Forced budgeting and planning now can actually set you up for future stability and confidence with money.
• Refining Creative Taste: Even though it’s frustrating, creative blocks now might nudge you to try new techniques, mediums, or inspirations- helping you discover a whole new side of your talent.
• Appreciating the Simple Things: When luxuries get cut out for a bit, you might realize you don’t need as much as you thought to be happy. The simple stuff starts to shine brighter.

How the Sign of Transiting Saturn Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Venus

Read the one for the current sign of transiting Saturn.

• Transiting Saturn in Aries: You might feel extra impatient or frustrated with relationship slowdowns. There’s more pressure to act solo or prove yourself, which can clash with the need for connection.
• Transiting Saturn in Taurus: Stability or financial stress comes front and center. You may notice blocks around comfort and security, with relationships tested by money or long-term planning.
• Transiting Saturn in Gemini: Communication feels tougher. Misunderstandings, feeling like people aren’t listening, or struggling to express affection can crop up more often.
• Transiting Saturn in Cancer: Old family issues or emotional safety stuff might pop up now. It’s hard to feel cared for, and getting close can feel scary or heavy.
• Transiting Saturn in Leo: You may feel invisible or unappreciated. There’s a push to be recognized or loved, but it can seem like you’re blocked from showing your real self in love or creativity.
• Transiting Saturn in Virgo: Criticism (from others or yourself) is a bigger deal now. Relationships get picked apart, and you might worry too much about the “flaws”- in you or someone else.
• Transiting Saturn in Libra: Partnerships really feel the pinch. You want fairness, but it’s tough to balance give-and-take. Any relationship imbalance becomes crystal clear and has to be dealt with.
• Transiting Saturn in Scorpio: Emotional intensity and trust issues get real. Deep fears about intimacy or jealousy may surface, making you want to protect yourself even more than usual.
• Transiting Saturn in Sagittarius: Freedom vs. commitment is a big conflict. You might question your values, beliefs, or future plans with others, feeling stuck or limited in where things can go.
• Transiting Saturn in Capricorn: It’s about long-term goals and responsibilities. Relationships can feel like hard work, with a stronger need to prove if they’re truly practical or worth investing in.
• Transiting Saturn in Aquarius: Detachment or distance can be extra noticeable now. You might feel out of sync with others or like you want more independence, but at the same time, you may crave true belonging.
• Transiting Saturn in Pisces: Boundaries can get confusing. You could feel let down by others or deal with disappointment around your ideals in love, facing reality checks about what’s possible or sustainable.