Transit Vibe: Confusing feelings in love.
Here’s what to do and to avoid when you have transit Neptune quincunx Venus. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
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Avoid During Transit Neptune Quincunx Venus
- Don’t jump into new romantic relationships: Your judgment about love and attraction can be pretty fuzzy. You might see people through rose-colored glasses right now.
- Avoid making big financial decisions: It’s easy to get confused or make mistakes with money when Neptune’s in this aspect to Venus. Hold off on big purchases or risky investments.
- Don’t ignore red flags in relationships: If someone seems too good to be true, trust your gut. You might be prone to putting people on a pedestal.
- Avoid escapism through unhealthy habits: You could be more likely to use food, shopping, or even substances as coping mechanisms. Try healthier outlets like music or art instead.
- Don’t overcommit to creative projects: Inspiration is high, but follow-through might be tricky. Take on only what you know you can finish.
- Avoid lending money to friends or romantic partners: Neptune can blur boundaries, and you might get taken advantage of- intentionally or not.
- Don’t ignore your instincts if something feels “off”: If a deal, friendship, or romance doesn’t sit right, pump the brakes. Your intuition is trying to help, even if things seem dreamy on the surface.
- Avoid gossip and drama: Misunderstandings are more likely now, so steer clear of spreading rumors or jumping to conclusions about others.
- Don’t chase unattainable fantasies: Stick with what’s real. Neptune loves to tempt us with “what ifs,” but this isn’t the time to chase castles in the sky.
To Do During Transit Neptune Quincunx Venus
- Reflect on your relationships. This is a great time to think about how you connect with others and what you really need in love and friendships.
- Explore your artistic side. Let your creative energy flow, whether it’s through painting, music, writing, or any kind of art. Even if you’re not “artsy,” just try something- see where it goes.
- Practice compassion and forgiveness. Emotions can get a little confusing during this transit, so be gentle with yourself and others, especially if things feel tangled or unclear.
- Daydream and let your imagination run wild. You might find inspiration or new ideas popping into your head- capture those thoughts, even if they seem weird at first.
- Pay attention to your intuition. If something feels off in your love life or about something you value, listen to that inner voice, even if you can’t explain it logically.
- Spend time near water. Being at the beach, a lake, or even taking long baths can be soothing and help you tap into the gentle vibe Neptune brings.
- Rethink your personal boundaries. Notice if you’re giving too much or not enough in your relationships, and make adjustments to keep yourself balanced.
- Be open to spiritual experiences. Meditation, prayer, or any practice that helps you connect to something greater than yourself can feel extra meaningful now.
- Avoid major commitments. If possible, hold off on making big promises in love or money- things can seem fuzzy, and reality might look different when Neptune moves on.
- Keep a journal of your feelings and dreams. You might notice your emotions and dreams are extra vivid now, and writing them down can help you make sense of it all.
What’s Interesting About Transit Neptune Quincunx Venus?
- Feelings of Dissatisfaction in Love (Alan Leo, 1913): Alan Leo in “The Key to Your Own Nativity” talks about Neptune making awkward aspects to Venus, like the quincunx, as creating an odd discontent or dissatisfaction with romance. Leo says you might chase “ideal affections that are ever beyond reach,” leaving you feeling like no relationship lives up to the dream.
- Mysterious or Secret Love Affairs (Sepharial, 1904): Sepharial (in “The Manual of Astrology”) mentions that Neptune in difficult aspect to Venus tends to draw secret or hidden romance, “such as impossible attractions or clandestine liaisons,” where the native isn’t quite conscious of what draws them in.
- Impractical Financial Decisions (Grant Lewi, 1940): Grant Lewi in “Astrology for the Millions” writes about Venus-Neptune tension causing people to be “entranced” by too-good-to-be-true bargains or scams during the transit, especially if the native is already a little dreamy or creative in how they handle money.
- Bizarre Taste in Art and Beauty (Isabel M. Hickey, 1970): Hickey’s “Astrology: A Cosmic Science” connects Neptune’s influence to odd or experimental tastes. With the quincunx to Venus, you might suddenly be attracted to strange, avant-garde art or music that you usually wouldn’t even notice.
- Longing for Spiritual Union (Charles Carter, 1951): Carter in “Essentials of Astrological Analysis” points out that Venus-Neptune contacts, especially in tricky aspects, can bring “a vague longing for transcendent love,” leading a person to get caught up in spiritual fads or even religious crushes.
- Mistaking Fantasy for Reality in Friendships (Marc Edmund Jones, 1941): In “The Guide to Horoscope Interpretation,” Jones writes that Neptune quincunx Venus might cause you to see friends and loved ones as either more wonderful or more tragic than they really are, blurring the line between fantasy and reality.
- Unusual Charity or Generosity (Dane Rudhyar, 1936): Rudhyar in “The Astrology of Personality” talks about this aspect as triggering a period when you’re open to giving or volunteering in odd or eccentric ways- helping people (or animals, or lost causes) intuitively but not always practically.
- Sensitivity to Colors, Scents, or Tastes (Ivy Jacobson, 1964): Jacobson in “The Foundation of the Astrological Chart” mentions this aspect as heightening the senses tied to Venus, so you might notice you’re suddenly sensitive to perfumes, flavors, or even how your home looks, sometimes in a bothersome way.
- Trouble with Artistic Commitment (Reinhold Ebertin, 1940): Ebertin in “The Combination of Stellar Influences” describes Neptune’s challenging Venus links as making people unsure about the direction of their creative work- starting lots of new projects but not finishing them.
- Strange Attraction to Outcasts or “Lost Souls” (Charles E.O. Carter, 1930): In “The Astrological Aspects,” Carter explains Neptune quincunx Venus may “draw the native toward those who excite one’s compassion or sympathy,” sometimes to your own detriment.
Experiencing Transit Neptune Quincunx Venus
When Neptune forms a quincunx to natal Venus, it’s like the universe is tuning your heartstrings to a weird radio frequency. You’re trying to find harmony and affection, but the signal is fuzzy. This is often a time when love- or even something as simple as enjoying yourself- doesn’t go as expected. There’s a sense you’re chasing a feeling, or beauty, or connection, but you can’t quite grasp it. Let’s get into what all this feels like, including both the rough spots and the silver linings.
Challenges during Transit Neptune Quincunx Venus
- Confusing Signals in Love: You might get mixed messages from a partner or crush. Maybe someone seems really into you, but is actually unavailable, or you idealize someone only to discover things aren’t what they seemed.
- Romantic Disappointment: It’s easy to fall for illusions- like thinking someone is your soulmate when they’re not (or maybe you’re caught up in a secret crush and ignoring reality).
- Money Slipping Through Your Fingers: Financial decisions may not be solid. You might splurge on things that don’t last or think you’re treating yourself only to feel let down afterward.
- Difficulty Setting Boundaries: Neptune makes everything foggy, so you might find yourself saying “yes” when you mean “no”- especially in dating, friendships, or joint money matters.
- Feeling Unappreciated: There’s a tendency to do nice things for others hoping for a little love or validation, but not really getting it back, leaving you feeling invisible or unfulfilled.
Opportunities during Transit Neptune Quincunx Venus
- Creative Inspiration: Venus and Neptune together can channel a ton of imagination- great for art, music, poetry, or just putting your heart into something beautiful.
- Learning Compassion: You get a chance to open your heart to others’ feelings, maybe helping someone without strings attached or learning about unconditional love.
- Spiritual Romance: Sometimes, instead of chasing another person, this transit nudges you toward connecting with your own dreams or the “higher love”- stuff like meditation, prayer, or just time in nature can feel especially comforting now.
- Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations: Even if it’s tough, seeing the fuzziness of this time can help you let go of fantasies and get real about what you need (and deserve) in love or money.
- Discovering New Aesthetics: Your taste in music, art, or style might change- maybe you fall for something totally different that moves your soul in a new way.
How the Sign of Transiting Neptune Modifies This Transit Quincunx to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Neptune.
Right now, Neptune is currently in Aries, so read “Transiting Neptune in Aries”.
- Transiting Neptune in Aries: You might feel restless in your relationships, craving new experiences or excitement in love, but it’s easy to act too impulsively or chase illusions.
- Transiting Neptune in Taurus: You could find yourself daydreaming about stable, luxurious love, but reality may not measure up. Watch out for financial confusion or unrealistic desires for comfort.
- Transiting Neptune in Gemini: Communication in relationships gets fuzzy- misunderstandings are likely, and you might get carried away by sweet words or mixed signals.
- Transiting Neptune in Cancer: Emotions run high, and you might romanticize family or home life. It’s easy to care too much or lose yourself in trying to please others.
- Transiting Neptune in Leo: There’s a strong urge for dramatic, fairy-tale romance, but disappointment can creep in if reality doesn’t match your heart’s fantasies.
- Transiting Neptune in Virgo: You may overthink love or worry too much about details, only to find that everything feels out of your control or just “off” with romantic routines.
- Transiting Neptune in Libra: The desire for perfect harmony and ideal partnership is high, but you might sacrifice your own needs or get caught up in people-pleasing.
- Transiting Neptune in Scorpio: Love and desire feel even more mysterious, deep, and intoxicating, but it’s easy to get wrapped up in secrets, jealousy, or unhealthy attractions.
- Transiting Neptune in Sagittarius: You long for romantic adventures or spiritual connections, but it’s hard to pin down what you really want, and you might believe in love stories that aren’t true.
- Transiting Neptune in Capricorn: You may doubt practical matters in relationships, like commitment or shared goals, feeling unsure if love and reality can really mix.
- Transiting Neptune in Aquarius: There’s a craving for unique, idealistic connections, maybe a wish to save the world together, but normal relationship rules seem foggy or unimportant.
- Transiting Neptune in Pisces: Emotions in love get super dreamy and sensitive. Boundaries really blur, and you might find it tough to see your partner- or yourself- clearly.
