Foggy self-image
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Neptune Square Ascendant transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t make major decisions about your appearance or identity- you might not see yourself clearly right now.
- Avoid starting big new relationships or commitments; people may not be showing you their true selves.
- Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not just to fit in with others.
- Try not to take on other people’s problems as your own; your boundaries might be a bit fuzzy.
- Steer clear of gossip and rumors- misunderstandings are easy during this transit.
- Avoid self-destructive habits like overindulging in alcohol, drugs, or escapist behaviors.
- Don’t blindly trust flattery or promises that seem too good to be true; deception is in the air.
- Resist the urge to run away from problems or avoid reality- you’ll need clarity.
- Try not to sign important contracts or legal agreements unless you’re absolutely sure what you’re getting into.
- Don’t ignore your intuition, but double-check facts before acting on hunches.
- Avoid taking on too much responsibility for how others see you- focus on your own truth instead.
Do During This Transit
- Pay extra attention to your intuition- trust those gut feelings, even if they don’t seem logical at first.
- Use this time for self-reflection and exploring your deeper emotions. Journaling or creative writing can really help.
- Try activities like meditation, yoga, or quiet walks to connect with your inner self and find some peace.
- Get into artistic or musical hobbies- you might be surprised how creative you feel right now.
- Work on letting go of old identities or negative self-beliefs that no longer serve you.
- Be open to spiritual practices or learning about dreams, symbols, and subconscious stuff.
- Be gentle with yourself if you’re feeling lost or confused. This is a phase where not everything is clear, and that’s okay.
- Surround yourself with uplifting and trustworthy people- you may be more sensitive to others’ moods now.
- Set healthy boundaries and practice saying no if others try to take advantage of your kindness or confusion.
- Keep your schedule a bit flexible. Sometimes plans might not go as expected under Neptune’s vibes.
What’s interesting about this transit?
When Neptune makes a square to the natal Ascendant in your chart, it's not just a modern mystery- it's always been a tricky player, even in the oldest astrology texts. Here are a few unusual and lesser-known thoughts about this transit from ancient or obscure sources:
- Mask of the Mist – In some obscure early 20th-century astrology books, they called this transit the “Mask of the Mist.” They believed it brought about a kind of spiritual disguise, so people might not see your real self, and you might not recognize your own reflection (in a metaphorical sense).
- Dream Walker’s Path – Ancient Renaissance texts sometimes said this transit could push someone to cross “between worlds,” enhancing sensitivity to dreams and even thin the veil to the realms of spirit, ghosts, and other ethereal beings- making a person feel like a “dream walker.”
- The Robe and the Jester – Some old sources mentioned that this transit could lead to trouble with clothing choices or appearance- either suddenly dressing extravagantly or, strangely enough, losing or misplacing important personal items (like hats or belts) more often.
- Mirror of Secrets – There’s an ancient belief that Neptune square the Ascendant can make your face and voice harder for others to “read,” leading to misunderstandings, lost messages, or even, as one old translation puts it, “conversations with one’s own shadow.”
- Ocean’s Glance – Some older astrological physicians suggested this aspect could cause temporary vision troubles (like haziness or double vision), or make you feel like you’re “underwater” in your own life.
- Disguising Influence – According to old esoteric astrologers, this aspect made for a perfect time in the past for performers, actors, or spies- anyone who needed to “become someone else” for a while.
Experiencing This Transit
So, what's it really like when Neptune squares your Ascendant? It feels a bit like living in a fog. Everything around you, especially how you see yourself and how others see you, can get confused or muddled. You might doubt your identity, wonder who you really are, or feel like you're playing a role in someone else's play. It’s common to have daydreams, creative bursts, or illusions about yourself and your relationships. People often become more sensitive- sometimes to a fault- picking up on the feelings, moods, and even problems of others, almost like psychic static. There’s a vibe of being “between worlds,” where things seem both more magical and more slippery than usual.
Challenges during this transit
- Confusing Interactions: You might notice people misunderstand what you mean, or you walk away from conversations feeling unsure if you understood them at all.
- Identity Issues: You question your image, your choices, maybe even your life path. Things that used to feel certain aren’t so clear anymore.
- People Draining Your Energy: “Energy vampires” pop up more during this transit. You may feel extra sensitive to others’ moods or problems and lose track of your own boundaries.
- Poor Boundaries: It’s easy to get swept into other people’s dramas or feel lost in crowds, overly influenced by what everyone else wants.
- Escapism: There’s a temptation to escape reality- whether that’s binge-watching shows, getting lost in fantasy, or just tuning out from the world (sometimes with substances).
- Deception: Watch out for being lied to or misled, but also be aware of the urge in yourself to fudge the truth, even by accident!
Opportunities during this transit
- Heightened Intuition: You can get really good at reading situations or picking up “vibes” from others- your inner compass is sharper, even if the outer world feels fuzzier.
- Creative Inspiration: Artists, writers, musicians, and even people who never thought of themselves as creative suddenly find themselves overflowing with ideas.
- Spiritual Growth: This is a great time to develop a spiritual practice- dream journaling, meditation, or learning about mystical traditions.
- Empathy and Compassion: You naturally tune into other people’s feelings. If you use this well, you can be a fantastic friend, counselor, or helper now.
- Learning to Let Go: Neptune teaches you to surrender what isn’t really you, to let go of old masks or personas, even if it feels weird at first.
- Changing Your Look: If you’ve been wanting to experiment with your appearance (hair, clothing, even just a new attitude), this is a creative time to play with your image.
- Connecting with Art and Nature: Music, painting, spending time around water, or just soaking up beautiful places can be soothing and inspiring.
How the Sign of Transiting Neptune Modifies This Transit Square to Natal Ascendant
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Neptune.
- Transiting Neptune in Aries: Confusion shows up in your urge to assert yourself. It might feel hard to know when to push forward or step back, and impulsive moves can end up being especially unclear or misunderstood by others.
- Transiting Neptune in Taurus: Your sense of stability or what feels secure could get fuzzy. You might have trouble knowing what really matters or feel ungrounded when it comes to money, comfort, or values.
- Transiting Neptune in Gemini: Misunderstandings with others tend to pop up more, and it’s easier to get lost in your thoughts. Communication can get slippery- watch out for daydreaming instead of listening, or for mixed messages.
- Transiting Neptune in Cancer: Emotions come in waves, often getting mixed up with old memories or family stuff. It might be tough to know what’s really yours to feel, and setting boundaries with loved ones gets tricky.
- Transiting Neptune in Leo: You may struggle with knowing who you really are, especially around creativity, attention, or romance. Ego and self-expression can feel confusing, like you’re missing your usual sparkle or confidence.
- Transiting Neptune in Virgo: Everyday routines and responsibilities can seem more overwhelming or blurry. Details get hazy, and you might second-guess your choices about work, health, or what’s helpful.
- Transiting Neptune in Libra: Relationships might feel extra confusing, and it can be tough to find balance or fairness. You may fall for illusions about other people, or want harmony so much that you ignore reality.
- Transiting Neptune in Scorpio: Intense feelings, secrets, or desires can become tangled or hard to understand. Boundaries around intimacy and trust may dissolve, making you super sensitive to hidden vibes or power struggles.
- Transiting Neptune in Sagittarius: Your beliefs or search for meaning can get blurry. You might be drawn to weird philosophies, or have trouble figuring out what’s actually true about your life’s path or big goals.
- Transiting Neptune in Capricorn: Plans, goals, or work stuff become less clear. You may feel a bit lost about your future, or find it hard to know who’s really in charge- authorities or rules seem extra foggy now.
- Transiting Neptune in Aquarius: Friendships and group vibes might feel fuzzy, or you may find it difficult to know where you fit in. Dreams about helping the world are big, but it’s hard to make them real or know who to trust.
- Transiting Neptune in Pisces: Everything feels softer, but also way more slippery. Boundaries can totally disappear, so it’s easy to get lost in fantasy, emotions, or escapism. Your intuition is strong, but so are mixed signals.