“Love illusions”
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Neptune Semisquare Venus transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t jump into new romantic relationships or make big commitments- things might not be as they seem now.
- Avoid lending money to friends, lovers, or anyone you don’t fully trust. There’s a higher risk of getting taken advantage of.
- Try not to make major financial investments or purchases; things could look shinier than they really are.
- Don’t ignore red flags in relationships. If something feels off, it probably is.
- Stay away from escapist habits like overindulging in substances, shopping sprees, or fantasy.
- Don’t idealize people or situations. Wishful thinking can lead to disappointment now.
- Avoid gossip, secrets, or drama- you might hear or believe things that aren’t actually true.
- Try not to put all your trust in someone’s promises, whether that’s about love, money, or anything else.
- Don’t compromise your values or boundaries just to please someone or keep the peace.
- Skip cosmetic procedures or major style makeovers. You might not love the results after the transit passes.
Do During This Transit
- Let yourself daydream and get creative, even if things feel a bit fuzzy or unclear.
- Work on art, music, writing, or any project that lets you use your imagination.
- Explore new ways of expressing love and affection, but don’t rush into any new romances.
- Practice self-care and remind yourself what makes you feel beautiful or good inside.
- Pay attention to your dreams- they might have messages or just inspire you.
- Volunteer or get involved in helping others, especially if it’s something compassionate or artistic.
- Give yourself permission to escape from harsh realities for a bit, but keep your feet on the ground.
- Read poetry, watch movies, or listen to music that moves you emotionally.
- Be gentle with yourself if relationships get confusing; use this time to practice forgiveness and understanding.
- Try some meditation, journaling, or gentle yoga to help connect with your inner self.
What’s Interesting About This Transit
- According to Charles E.O. Carter in The Astrology of Accidents (1932), Neptune in hard aspect to Venus- including the semisquare- can preside over a period when “romantic delusions may arise, even with little outward encouragement, and the native is apt to ascribe dreamlike qualities to people utterly unworthy of them.” Carter notes this can lead individuals to form attachments that seem almost fated, yet are based on misinformation or fantasy.
- From Sepharial’s Directions to the Natal Chart (1898), there’s a reference to Neptune-Venus semisquares as making people “prey to the whisperings of invisible influences,” challenging one’s discernment in relationships. Sepharial tied this aspect to sudden and unusual infatuations or feeling strangely dissatisfied with formerly pleasing relationships, almost as if “enchanted away” by unseen forces.
- In Astrological Essays (1933), Vivian E. Robson wrote that this transit could highlight “fondness for secret pleasure or causes,” meaning people might secretly support an unwise love or art movement, sometimes to their social embarrassment. The native may even “secretly finance, write, or support someone or something quite disreputable by subconscious compulsion.”
- Reinhold Ebertin in The Combination of Stellar Influences (1940) discussed minor Neptune-Venus aspects as giving rise to “suppressed artistic urges,” or the sudden “fantasy of a clandestine romance that never becomes real.” Ebertin also noted a tendency to become financially confused or swindled by promises of beauty or happiness that don’t materialize.
- In The Astrological Aspects (David and Ferguson, 1966), there’s the idea that Neptune semisquare Venus can trigger “periods of uncanny inspiration, but these are fragile and may dissipate if not put to constructive use.” Sometimes you might start a painting, songwriting, or romantic pursuit with wild enthusiasm, only to abandon it when reality checks in.
- Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson in Astrology: Its Technique and Ethics (1960) described this transit as a moment when “petty envies or unspoken jealousies color one’s affections,” leading to subtle self-sabotage- especially in love or friendship- by underestimating your own worth or projecting unrealistic longing onto someone else.
- In The Message of the Stars by Max Heindel and Augusta Foss Heindel (1918), it’s suggested that “temporary psychic sensitiveness in affairs of the heart” can show up with these aspects. This might mean sudden dreams about old flames, overwhelming empathy towards those who are suffering, or a fleeting sense that your love life is somehow fated or connected to spirits.
- Marc Edmund Jones, in Essentials of Astrological Analysis (1936), briefly refers to hard Neptune-Venus angles as a time when “involvement in unwise amusements is likely,” which he expanded to mean everything from get-rich-quick schemes involving art or music, to becoming obsessed with some fleeting, unsound fad around beauty or fashion.
Experiencing This Transit
When Neptune forms a semisquare (45°) aspect to your natal Venus, things around love, beauty, and even money can feel a bit hazy. It’s not as dramatic as a square or opposition, but it can sneak up on you. You might notice you’re more sensitive, dreamy, and maybe a little confused about your relationships, tastes, or even your bank account. The mood shifts quietly and you just might find reality and fantasy get a bit tangled up.
Challenges during this transit
- Muddled Relationships: You might feel drawn to someone new, but things just don’t add up. Mixed signals are everywhere, and infatuations might be based more on daydreams than facts. Suddenly, everyone seems mysterious, or maybe you’re reading too much between the lines.
- Unrealistic Expectations: There’s a tendency to put loved ones on a pedestal. Sometimes you’ll expect more than they can really offer, or get let down because they can’t meet your fantasy version of them.
- Financial Fuzziness: Neptune loves to blur boundaries, even with money. You might lend cash without thinking, overspend on dreamy “wants,” or lose track of your budget altogether.
- Confusion Over Values: Suddenly, you’re second-guessing what you like, what you find attractive, or even how you want to show affection. You might find your tastes shifting in odd or unexpected ways.
- Feeling Let Down: Because everything feels so dreamy, there’s a risk of disappointment- maybe because reality just can’t live up to the glittery vibe you’ve imagined.
Opportunities during this transit
- Creative Inspiration: This is a fantastic time to make art, music, or even just experiment with your personal style. Neptune fires up your imagination and adds a touch of magic. Even doodling or daydreaming turns out more beautiful than you expect!
- Spiritual Connection: If you’re into meditation, tarot, or anything mystical, this is a juicy period for tapping into your intuition about what (or who) you really love.
- Empathy Boost: You might find yourself feeling extra compassionate, not just toward partners but to friends, animals, or even strangers. It’s a sweet time for forgiving and letting go of old relationship hurts.
- New Artistic Tastes: Try out a weird playlist, watch surreal movies, or dive into poetry. You could discover new favorites you’d never expect!
- Learning to Set Boundaries: Sure, fuzzy boundaries can be a problem, but this is a great chance to notice where you get lost and practice saying “no”- or “let me think about it.”
How the Sign of Transiting Neptune Modifies This Transit Semisquare to Natal Venus
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Neptune.
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Transiting Neptune in Aries:
Feelings get impulsive and restless. You might chase after excitement in love or creativity, but it’s easy to misjudge what’s right for you. -
Transiting Neptune in Taurus:
You crave beauty and comfort, maybe even escaping into food, shopping, or daydreaming about luxury. Stable relationships can feel less secure or way more idealized. -
Transiting Neptune in Gemini:
Communication and curiosity are amped up, but it’s super easy to get mixed signals or swept up in sweet-talking flirts. Be careful about trusting every delightful thing you hear. -
Transiting Neptune in Cancer:
Emotions run even deeper. Family, nostalgia, and old memories could shape romantic decisions- sometimes in confusing or unrealistic ways. -
Transiting Neptune in Leo:
Romance feels glamorous and dramatic, but ego or craving attention can lead to letdowns. You may want to be adored or to adore someone- which blurs reality. -
Transiting Neptune in Virgo:
You get picky about love, looks, or what you “should” be doing, yet struggle to stick to practical details. It’s easy to long for a perfect match that doesn’t quite exist. -
Transiting Neptune in Libra:
Partnerships and fairness take center stage, but you’re likely to over-romanticize or sacrifice too much just for peace. Boundaries in relationships can get especially fuzzy. -
Transiting Neptune in Scorpio:
Everything about love gets intense and mysterious. You could fall for someone unavailable, get caught up in obsession, or find secrets showing up in relationships. -
Transiting Neptune in Sagittarius:
There’s a dreamy wanderlust vibe, so you may daydream about faraway loves or ideals. Watch out for chasing romantic adventures that aren’t based in reality. -
Transiting Neptune in Capricorn:
You aim for lasting, committed love or concrete creative goals, but promises can get slippery. You might worry about status or appearances and ignore the real issues. -
Transiting Neptune in Aquarius:
Friendships, group ideals, and unconventional romance can be big themes, but it’s easy to get lost in fantasies about “the perfect community” or very unique relationships. -
Transiting Neptune in Pisces:
Everything feels ultra dreamy and romantic. Boundaries fade, and you might slip into wishful thinking or delusion about love or creative dreams. Intuition is strong, but don’t ignore the facts.