Emotional growing pains
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Saturn Sesquisquare Moon transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t suppress your emotions or ignore how you really feel- it’s easy to get overwhelmed if you bottle things up.
- Try not to isolate yourself, even if you’re feeling down. Reaching out can help, even if it’s just talking to one close friend.
- Avoid making big life decisions based on fear or sadness, since your mood might be lower than usual.
- Don’t take on too many responsibilities- give yourself some slack instead of piling on more stress.
- Try not to dwell on past disappointments or failures. This transit can bring up old feelings, but ruminating won’t help.
- Avoid being too hard on yourself or criticizing your own emotions. It’s okay to have ups and downs.
- Don’t ignore self-care. Skipping meals, sleep, or downtime will make things tougher.
- Try not to get caught in arguments with family or people close to you. Emotions might be running high, so it’s better to take a step back.
- Don’t close yourself off from support- let people know if you need a little extra understanding right now.
- Avoid pushing yourself to be “productive” constantly. This isn’t the time to overachieve or burn out.
Do During This Transit
- Take care of your emotional health- give yourself permission to feel whatever comes up.
- Set healthy boundaries with people who drain your energy or make you feel guilty.
- Reflect on any old habits or patterns that might be holding you back, especially around family or home life.
- Organize your living space or get rid of things you no longer need- decluttering can help clear your mind, too.
- Journal about your feelings. Sometimes writing things down makes them less overwhelming.
- Reach out for support- don’t be afraid to lean on close friends or talk to someone you trust.
- Practice patience with yourself. This energy can feel heavy or frustrating, but it won’t last forever.
- Focus on self-care, like getting enough sleep, eating good food, and doing activities that calm you down.
- Revisit your goals and routines, and see if there’s anything you want to adjust to help you feel safer or more stable.
- Let yourself let go of old emotional baggage that’s no longer serving you. It’s a good time to heal.
What’s interesting about this transit?
Okay, let’s take a walk on the weirder side of Saturn sesquisquare Moon. This aspect- sometimes called the sesquiquadrate- doesn’t get as much love in modern astrology, but plenty of old astrology books have some real gems about it:
- Melancholy of the Ancestors: Some ancient astrologers believed this transit could trigger “ancestral moods”- feelings that seem to come from nowhere but are really, in their view, passed down through your family line. It’s like your grandma’s sadness suddenly pops up in you for a few weeks.
- Twisted Loyalty: There’s a rare interpretation that says Saturn sesquisquare Moon can mean struggling with crooked family loyalty or “serving a master unwillingly”- feeling trapped in family obligations or emotional debts you never chose.
- Household Spirits Stirring: In medieval times, the Moon was linked with the home, and Saturn with spirits or shadows. This transit was sometimes interpreted as “shadows moving in corners”- literal or metaphorical disturbances in the home, maybe subtle weirdness, like things feeling heavier at night.
- Old Wine, New Griefs: Saturn rules age and the Moon rules memory, and some ancient texts mention this combo as “drinking old wine”: resurfacing very old pains with a new twist. Feelings you thought you’d buried might bubble up in odd ways.
- Salt Tears, Dry Wells: From some old poetic sources, Saturn aspects to the Moon (especially these so-called “minor” hard ones like the sesquisquare) were called ‘salt tears, dry wells.’ This means crying over something but being unable to actually express it- feeling stuck between sadness and numbness.
Experiencing This Transit
When Saturn forms a sesquisquare aspect (that’s 135°) to your natal Moon, you might feel pressure, friction, or a kind of low-grade tension, especially in your emotional life. The Moon is all about how you feel, what feels safe, your habits, and home- you know, the soft stuff. Saturn is the tough love teacher- little bit bossy, strict, not afraid to say “no.” When they clash, even at these weird angles, you can really feel it in your day-to-day mood, your family life, and how you care for yourself.
Challenges during this transit
- Weird Sadness or Restlessness: Emotions might feel just slightly “off”- like being bummed out for no obvious reason, or feeling tightly wound but not knowing why.
- Old Hurts Come Up: You might remember stuff from way back that stings more than you expected, like childhood letdowns, feeling left out, or unresolved issues with your parents or caregivers.
- Tension at Home: A lot of folks get extra sensitive at home during this transit, maybe picking fights with family or roommates, or just wishing for more space and not getting it.
- Feeling Unsupported: There could be this nagging sense that you can’t count on others as much as you hoped. Maybe you ask for help and don’t get it, or people just seem extra cold.
- Hard to Talk About Feelings: Saturn makes it tough to really get in touch with what you need, and the sesquisquare adds a layer of frustration. You can feel misunderstood- or not want to open up at all, even to people close to you.
- Bodily Complaints: Sometimes this transit shows up as feeling tired, heavy, or getting “cold” symptoms more easily, especially if you’re ignoring your emotions.
Opportunities during this transit
- Clear Old Baggage: If old feelings or past issues are showing up, it’s a weird little cosmic opportunity to finally process them- or even just admit them to yourself. Sometimes just naming what hurts is progress.
- Setting Boundaries: Saturn’s “no” vibe can help you say no to people or situations that are draining you, especially at home or with family. If you always say yes, this transit might help you practice saying “not this time.”
- Finding Emotional Discipline: You might notice you’re better at not getting swept away by your feelings. Emotional self-control is a Saturn gift- maybe this is a time you get really good at not lashing out when upset.
- Mature Kindness: You get to see how supporting yourself when you’re low is its own kind of strength. It’s like learning to be your own grown-up, and that’s valuable.
- Home Improvements: Sometimes this transit pushes you to finally make your living space less cluttered, more “you.” The discomfort can motivate a refresh.
- Shadow Work: If you’re interested in digging into your emotional patterns, this is a great time for therapy, journaling, or just noticing what comes up when you’re alone. You can shine a little light on what Saturn wants you to grow through.
How the Sign of Transiting Saturn Modifies This Transit Sesquisquare to Natal Moon
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Saturn.
- Transiting Saturn in Aries: There’s more frustration around not being able to act as quickly as you’d like. You might feel like your emotions are restricted and you have to bottle things up when you really want to let loose and express yourself.
- Transiting Saturn in Taurus: You could feel the weight of financial or practical worries more strongly. There’s tension between wanting comfort or stability and feeling like it’s just out of reach.
- Transiting Saturn in Gemini: It’s harder to communicate your feelings. You might have mental blocks, trouble connecting with people through words, or overthink your emotions to the point you can’t relax.
- Transiting Saturn in Cancer: This can be extra tough emotionally, with home or family issues weighing heavier than usual. You might struggle with feeling safe or supported, or take on too much responsibility for others.
- Transiting Saturn in Leo: Challenges could feel like they’re pushing you to hide your true self. It may feel risky to express your creativity or emotions, and you might fear judgment or rejection if you do.
- Transiting Saturn in Virgo: You may get really nitpicky with yourself, worrying about not being ‘good enough.’ This could show up as stress about routines, health, or details, and you might struggle to feel comfortable just relaxing.
- Transiting Saturn in Libra: Relationship pressures take center stage. It can be hard to maintain balance in partnerships or friendships, and you might feel like you have to hold back your feelings so things stay “fair.”
- Transiting Saturn in Scorpio: Old emotional baggage is extra heavy now. You might feel forced to face deeper fears or jealousy, and secrets or power struggles could bubble up and be hard to deal with.
- Transiting Saturn in Sagittarius: It’s hard to see the bright side. Doubts about your beliefs, life path, or future may feel more intense, and you might feel restricted when you want to be free and adventurous.
- Transiting Saturn in Capricorn: The pressure is on. You might feel like the world expects you to be strong, practical, and in control no matter what. It may be difficult to lean on others or admit you need help.
- Transiting Saturn in Aquarius: Emotional distance can grow, even when you want to connect. You might feel misunderstood or like an outsider, and friendships or group situations can feel extra strained.
- Transiting Saturn in Pisces: Feelings of confusion, doubt, or disappointment might be stronger, and it can be hard to put emotions into words. You could also feel more tired than usual or emotionally drained, wanting to escape reality for a while.