Awkward Growth in Love and Values
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus quincunx Jupiter transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t overindulge in food, shopping, or spending- it’s super easy to go overboard with pleasures during this time.
- Avoid making big promises you can’t keep, especially in relationships or with money.
- Don’t assume everyone sees things your way- misunderstandings can pop up, especially around beliefs or values.
- Try not to jump into new relationships or partnerships too quickly; things might look better than they actually are.
- Don’t ignore the details or skip steps, especially with plans involving travel, education, or finances.
- Avoid gambling or taking risky chances, especially if you’re feeling lucky- luck isn’t as strong as it feels.
- Don’t brush off boundaries with others, whether it’s social, moral, or financial- respect goes a long way.
- Try not to overcommit your time, energy, or money. It’s easy to say yes now and regret it later.
Do During This Transit
- Take a step back and re-evaluate your relationships- see where you might need to compromise or adjust your expectations.
- Look at your budget and spending habits; try not to go overboard with shopping or treating yourself.
- Use this energy to work on self-improvement- learn something new or sign up for a class that interests you.
- Practice gratitude for what you have instead of always wanting more; this is a great time for a gratitude journal.
- Be open to advice from friends, but weigh it against what feels right for you.
- If you feel restless, channel it into creative projects or hobbies instead of jumping into big decisions.
- Work on your self-confidence and remind yourself that it’s okay not to please everyone.
- Try to see the bigger picture before making promises- avoid agreeing to things just to keep others happy.
- Get moving with some gentle exercise like yoga or walking to help keep your energy balanced.
- Try to laugh and not take everything too seriously- this transit can make things feel a bit exaggerated!
What’s interesting about this transit?
Venus quincunx Jupiter is a quirky transit that hasn’t always stolen the spotlight. But if you dig through some older astrology texts, you’ll find a handful of strange and curious interpretations. Here are some neat ones from the classics:
- Vettius Valens mentions that when benefic planets (like Venus and Jupiter) are in aversion (which includes the quincunx), it can create a “blind spot” with pleasure and joy – almost like not seeing where real goodness lies.
- Early Arabic astrologers sometimes called this combination “the misplaced gift,” where fortunes come from odd places or at the wrong time, making it hard to enjoy or benefit from them properly.
- According to Firmicus Maternus, this aspect can make generosity feel like an obligation or burden; you might find yourself over-giving or being generous with people who don’t always appreciate it.
- Some old European texts suggest this is the “feast that makes you sick,” meaning indulgence or celebration gets a bit out of control and leads to regret – like blowing money on something you don’t even want in the end.
- There’s an obscure tradition that Venus quincunxing Jupiter can indicate a secret admirer or hidden benefactor; someone wants to help or love you, but can’t or won’t step forward.
- Some ancient astrologers claim this aspect brings “unfashionable abundance” – basically, getting something good at the wrong time, or what’s popular completely missing your own tastes.
- There’s also a tradition that calls this a “misfit’s luck,” where you attract good fortune in weird, roundabout ways, usually by accident.
Experiencing This Transit
Venus quincunx Jupiter is an oddball energy. It’s like the stars are trying to give you something nice, but it just doesn’t quite fit right. There’s a feeling of wanting pleasure, fun, beauty, and connection (Venus stuff), but it doesn’t sit comfortably with your personal philosophy, sense of growth, or what you feel you should be doing (Jupiter stuff). You might want more – more sweets, more spending, more affection, more fun – but something’s a little off with how it shows up in your life, or how you try to go after it.
Challenges During This Transit
- Overindulgence with a side order of guilt. You might treat yourself or splurge, only to regret it right after. It’s that “why did I buy that?” or “why did I eat all that cake?” kind of feeling.
- Social awkwardness. Sometimes you’ll try to be extra charming or generous, but it lands weirdly. Maybe you give someone a compliment and it gets misinterpreted, or you try to smooth things over, but it just feels forced or fake to everyone involved.
- Mixed messages about values. What you want and what you think you should want aren’t lining up. You might feel pulled between following your pleasure or sticking to your beliefs (or your budget).
- Unrealistic expectations. Jupiter can inflate things, and in a quincunx with Venus, you might expect relationships or experiences to be more fun than they actually turn out to be.
- “Nice” opportunities that don’t go anywhere. Someone might invite you somewhere or offer you something, but it turns out to be not what you expected or impossible to fit into your life.
Opportunities During This Transit
- Trying something outside your usual comfort zone. Since this aspect doesn’t line up naturally, you might find joy or luck in new, unexpected places – the kind of thing you’d normally overlook.
- Laughter and learning from mishaps. Sometimes, things that don’t go as planned end up being good stories or teach you something about what truly makes you happy.
- Inventive solutions. A quincunx pushes you to adjust. Maybe you find a weird but perfect compromise between duty and desire, or you realize you can enjoy something without going all-in.
- Opening up to unlikely connections. This energy can bring people together from totally different backgrounds. Maybe a new friend, romance, or mentor comes out of nowhere – someone helpful but not your usual type.
- Growing your sense of gratitude. Since blessings show up in strange ways now, you can practice spotting the good stuff, even if it isn’t obvious at first.
- Creative inspiration. Venus and Jupiter both carry artistic vibes. You might stumble on a new way to express yourself, especially if you’re willing to experiment.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Quincunx to Natal Jupiter
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: You might feel extra restless or impulsive in love and spending. It’s easy to jump into things too fast out of excitement, only to realize your timing with luck or abundance feels a bit “off.” Try to pause before acting.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: Comfort and pleasure are tempting, but you could overindulge or spend more than you meant to. Simple joys compete with grand ideas, so check in with your bank account and your values.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: It’s a flirty, chatty vibe, but miscommunications about what you want could get in the way. You may struggle to say what you really mean when mixing fun and adventure, so slow down and get clear.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions and comfort needs get highlighted, but you may feel pulled between going big and keeping it safe. Family, home, or sentimental cravings might not line up with your dreams of more freedom or expansion.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: You’ll want to shine and might find yourself craving attention or splurging to impress others. But you could feel like things turn out flashier than you planned, or drain your energy more than you hoped.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You want things to be practical and tidy, but Jupiter’s optimism can feel messy compared to Venus-Virgo’s preference for things to make sense. Don’t get so picky that you miss out, but don’t overpromise, either!
- Transiting Venus in Libra: There’s a real urge to keep things sweet and balanced, but it might be tough to please everyone (yourself included). You could end up trying so hard to be fair that things feel more complicated than they have to be.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Deep feelings or secret desires could clash with your need for expansion. You might crave intense connections, but something about the vibe feels like you have to pull back or can’t quite go “all in.”
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: Freedom calls, but it’s easy to overdo it- whether with big plans, adventures, or promises. You might feel overstretched, or like your heart is bigger than your actual resources right now.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You’ll want things to be structured or “worth it,” but your growth plans could feel restricted. You may get caught between craving solid results and wanting to enjoy life more- so try to balance duty and fun.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: Expect a pull toward unique friendships or quirky pleasures, but it could be hard to make your ideals work in real life. You might want to break out of routines, but find others don’t quite follow your lead.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: There’s a dreamy energy- everything can feel magical or super idealistic. You could end up letting things slide or ignoring reality, so stay grounded, or Jupiter’s luck might just float away before you catch it.