Emotional adjustments in love
Here’s what to do and not do when you have a Venus quincunx Moon transit. Below that are some interesting things about this transit.
Avoid During This Transit
- Don’t make big decisions about relationships or love- your feelings might be confusing or shift unexpectedly right now.
- Avoid acting on jealousy or emotional insecurity; try not to jump to conclusions.
- Don’t sweep emotional problems under the rug- face them gently, but don’t ignore them.
- Try not to overspend on comfort items or buy things just to feel better; retail therapy could backfire.
- Avoid starting new creative projects that require a lot of emotional investment- you might feel less inspired or conflicted about what you want.
- Don’t ignore your own needs to make others happy; watch out for people-pleasing.
- Try not to take things too personally- sensitivity is higher with this transit.
- Don’t force affection or try to fix relationship issues overnight; patience is key.
- Avoid clinging to the past or old emotional habits- let yourself stay open to changing feelings.
- Don’t ignore self-care; just make sure it’s healthy, not just indulgent.
Do During This Transit
- Take some quiet time to check in with your feelings- you might feel a little out of sync emotionally, so don’t rush yourself.
- Practice a little extra self-care, like taking a nice bath, journaling, or pampering yourself at home.
- Pause before having heart-to-heart talks- your moods and emotions might be harder to share or fully understand right now.
- Let yourself enjoy simple comforts: favorite foods, soft music, or cozy spaces can feel extra soothing during this transit.
- If there’s tension in relationships, try to listen more and judge less, since misunderstandings can pop up easily.
- Channel your feelings into creative outlets like drawing, music, or even baking- artsy stuff feels extra satisfying.
- Be gentle with yourself if you’re feeling a bit sensitive or insecure. It’ll pass, and you don’t need to fix every little thing right now.
- Try not to make big decisions about love or money today- wait until your head and heart are more in sync.
- Spend time with people who make you feel safe and loved, even if that’s just cuddling up with a pet.
- Let go of perfection for now. If things feel a little off, it’s okay- that’s just the energy of the moment.
What’s interesting about this transit?
- Some old astrologers believed that Venus quincunx the Moon could make a person extra sensitive to “phantom affections”- suddenly feeling attached or sentimental for people or situations that don’t really make sense.
- In texts from the Renaissance, this aspect was said to bring “domestic confusions by way of tokens,” meaning you might misinterpret gestures or gifts from loved ones, reading way too much into small things.
- Ancient astrologers sometimes linked this transit with dreams about lost loves, saying you could experience memories or feelings for past crushes or partners, even ones you’d forgotten.
- In some old charts, Venus quincunx Moon was a warning for “secret discontents”- feeling irked or dissatisfied about relationships or home life but not knowing why, kind of like an itch you can’t reach.
- There was a belief that this aspect could make someone especially “impressionable to scents and sounds,” so you might react pretty strongly to perfumes, flowers, music, or familiar voices in surprising ways.
Experiencing This Transit
Venus quincunx Moon isn’t one of the easiest energy mixes. Venus rules how we relate and want pleasure, while the Moon rules emotions and what feels safe. A quincunx (or inconjunct) is all about things not quite matching up- they just don’t work smoothly together. So, when these two meet this way, it can feel a little awkward inside. You might want comfort and affection, but you’re not totally sure how to get it, or how to fit those desires into your everyday life or relationships.
Challenges during this transit
- Feeling emotionally “off”- like your reactions and wants aren’t lining up. For example, you might crave someone’s company but also feel weirdly irritated or touchy around them, without really understanding why.
- Trouble expressing feelings: You want to be loving, but something just gets lost in translation. Maybe you text someone and they take it the wrong way, or you try to help, but it comes out awkward.
- Nostalgia that doesn’t make sense: You could get caught up in remembering old crushes, heartbreaks, or friendships, and this makes current relationships feel confusing or unsatisfying.
- Restlessness at home: Stuff at home or with family might feel just a bit “off.” Maybe someone’s being passive-aggressive, or you get annoyed by little habits that usually don’t bother you.
Opportunities during this transit
- Learning about hidden needs: If you pay attention, you might notice patterns about what your heart really wants (even if it’s not simple). Maybe you realize you actually need more quiet time- or more hugs!
- Creative expression: Awkward feelings can fuel creativity. Try journaling, art, music, or even just rearranging your room. Sometimes, beauty comes out of not fitting in.
- Empathy for others: Since you know what it’s like to feel misunderstood or out of sync, you might be kinder to friends or family who are acting a bit strange themselves.
- Small pleasures: Odd little joys can really comfort you now- your favorite music, a sweet snack, watching silly videos. Don’t be shy about giving yourself little treats.
How the Sign of Transiting Venus Modifies This Transit Quincunx to Natal Moon
Read the one for the current sign of transiting Venus.
- Transiting Venus in Aries: Emotions clash with a push for independence. You might act on impulse in love or money matters, then feel unsure about those choices.
- Transiting Venus in Taurus: There’s a tug-of-war between craving comfort and needing emotional change. You may really want stability but feel restless or unsettled inside.
- Transiting Venus in Gemini: Communication gets tricky. You’re torn between wanting to talk things out and just wanting to be understood without words.
- Transiting Venus in Cancer: Emotions run super high. You want to nurture others or feel cared for, but it can feel like no one’s on the same wavelength as you.
- Transiting Venus in Leo: You crave adoration and fun, but your moods might be all over the place. What feels good one moment can suddenly feel way too much.
- Transiting Venus in Virgo: You’re really picky about relationships or spending. The little things others do might annoy you way more than usual.
- Transiting Venus in Libra: You want harmony and connection, but little emotional hiccups make it tough to keep the peace. People-pleasing can backfire now.
- Transiting Venus in Scorpio: Intense feelings come up, and jealousy or secret desires can throw you off. You might not trust your own emotions.
- Transiting Venus in Sagittarius: You want freedom and excitement but feel pulled by old emotional habits. Being stuck between routine and adventure is frustrating.
- Transiting Venus in Capricorn: You try to keep it all together and act mature, but feelings bubble up under the surface. You might be hard on yourself or others.
- Transiting Venus in Aquarius: There’s a craving for space and something different. Old emotional needs feel a bit outdated, but it’s not easy to just let go.
- Transiting Venus in Pisces: You’re extra sensitive and maybe a dreamer now. Escapist urges are strong if real life feels a bit ‘off’ emotionally.