“I Love Security”
The first secret to know about a Taurus in love is that it does NOT refer to a sun-sign Taurus person. Only someone with the planet Venus in Taurus will be a “Taurus in love.” (Find out your Venus sign with our Venus Sign Calculator.)
Whereas Aries in love prefers starting new relationships, Taurus enjoys a steady, long, comfortable relationship. Taurus is the first earth sign and is prepared to work for the long haul at maintaining a comfortable relationship. Here is a dependable lover who loves to be by your side and shower you with valuable gifts. He’ll court you with fancy dinners, trips to a museum, or simply driving around in his classy car. He loves material possessions, and Taurus in love considers you his possession as well. This is the original 1950s male chauvinist. If your Venus in Taurus lover is a female, pat yourself on the back- you’ve got a sugar momma.
These lovers, however, are stingy with emotions and possessive because they fear losing control. They fear emotional vulnerability. They just don’t operate well on the emotional or mental wave-length. These are physical, material, earthy creatures who care about money and security, not feelings or abstract ideas. You may have to pry hard to get them to talk about their feelings, but it will do them good because they have an underlying need for emotional security.
Venus in Taurus likes nice clothes, but classic and comfortable rather than trendy. They care more about comfort than looking good. They don’t care about the brand name, they care about how it feels on their skin. Classic luxury is their preference.
Venus in Taurus hates change. Stubborn is an understatement for them. They will avoid change with remarkable endurance. Venus in Taurus will think long and hard before asking you out. Even if they love you, you may have to make the first move. Once in a relationship, they are committed and will stick around long after the loving feelings are gone. Here lies the danger. Although Taurus is loyal and faithful, their comfort is first priority. If your relationship ceases to be comfortable, they may seek comfort elsewhere. They will do this behind your back because breaking up with you would be too uncomfortable for them. They’d rather work to fix a relationship than to end it.
Taurus is the first physical earth sign and you’ll see what that means in bed. Be ready for hours of physical ecstasy. However, if you’re looking for an emotional merging, it is not likely to happen with a Taurus lover. Your spirit-level needs will have to make do with the heavenly scent of the expensive fragrance they’re always wearing. Take an inhale, Venus in Taurus always smells good.
Physical looks are important to the Venus in Taurus man, but just as important are manners, grooming and cleanliness. He prefers natural beauty instead of artificial beauty, but breast size is important to this guy. Fertility turns him on; this guy is looking for a girl to impregnate. Birth control confuses him. The Venus in Taurus lady is not a gold-digger per se, but she’s looking for someone who knows how to earn and save money. She is classy. If she’s committed to you, she will stand by your side even through poverty. Princess Diana (Princess of Wales), her son, Prince William (Duke of Cambridge), and Johnny Depp have Venus in Taurus.
How to Love Venus in Taurus
To make a Venus in Taurus feel loved, forget making goo-goo eyes and sweet whispers. Be prepared to spend money. They love material comfort, luxury, and beautiful physical objects. Buy quality, timeless gifts, nothing cheap or trendy. They love being served dinner and fine wines. They love the traditional dinner and a movie more than most. If you’re rich, they’ll propose immediately.
If you’re short on cash, you may still have a small chance of catching Venus in Taurus. Cook meals and serve them at home. Treat them with tons of respect, use good manners, bathe frequently, and dress well to do the dishes. They love to lounge around, doing nothing. They deeply appreciate physical sensations: sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch. Let them spend their days lounging on your sofa and they may fall head over heals in love with you. They also enjoy contact with nature. Take them on an old-fashioned picnic on a blanket. Above all, never talk of change. Don’t change your hair color, your perfume, or your favorite meal. It makes them uneasy. Prove yourself a dependable lover. You’ll be rewarded with a dependable lover with a promising bank account.
Note: Your Venus sign shows your characteristics in close relationships, not necessarily in any other area of your life. Conjunctions to Venus from the outer planets will alter your love style.