This is how Virgo gets along with others, based only on their Sun signs. These are compatibility interpretations for all 12 possible combinations with Virgo.
Yes, this is a limited and incomplete way to determine compatibility. But, Sun-sign compatibility is still the base for overall harmony in a relationship. We explained this in one of our synastry lessons where we said that it’s best to start with compatible Sun-sign elements.
The rule of thumb is this: yin and yang do not see eye to eye. Yin goes with yin, and yang goes with yang. While relationships between yin and yang can succeed, they require more work. The earth and water zodiac signs are yin. The fire and air zodiac signs are yang.
Virgo and Aries
This is a difficult relationship to consolidate. Virgo and Aries both have a strong personality and their goals are quite different. Aries is a personality of action while Virgo does not stop analyzing and shredding every situation that arises. Aries needs to move, and Virgo blocks Aries with Virgo’s criticisms and reprimands. With much effort, maybe they will find the way.
Virgo and Taurus
Virgo and Taurus make an excellent relationship with enormous possibilities of becoming stable and solid. Virgo and Taurus are two earth signs that share many qualities. They have similar tastes: they both love the home, they love to plan projects, better themselves, cultivate their minds, analyze expenses and household demands, etc. Of course, they should be careful not to fall into a rut.
Virgo and Gemini
It would be too complicated for a relationship between Virgo and Gemini to last and become stable, due to the different ways they express their natures. Virgo and Gemini are both mutable signs and are both ruled by Mercury, but they operate on different wave lengths. Gemini is an air sign and Virgo is an earth sign. Gemini is dispersion and variability personified. Virgo, on the other hand, leaves nothing to chance: Virgo analyzes its steps to infinity. For Gemini, this quality is a heavy burden to constantly cope with.
Virgo and Cancer
A relationship between Virgo and Cancer can become really great, if both members manage to create spaces so that they do not suffocate each other. Virgo and Cancer share much of their needs: they will seek affection, help each other in difficult moments, feel protected, share lots of hugs and pampering. Virgo is the one who must take care not to fall into the habit of constant criticism.
Virgo and Leo
A relationship between Virgo and Leo will involve a huge amount work. Virgo is excessively perfectionist and critical, and Leo will not be very willing to let their partner point out the mistakes they have made. On the other hand, Leo needs constant flattery, and giving such flattery is not a quality found in Virgo’s sphere. Virgo and Leo must get to know each other deeply, and give a few inches, if they want this relationship to be successful.
Virgo and Virgo
A relationship between two Virgos will be almost impossible because the each one will try to control the other. Virgos are meticulous and detail-oriented, so they will criticize each other’s actions in order to maintain control over the relationship. Neither one has the ability to loosen up and limit their own mental rigidity. Very difficult.
Virgo and Libra
A successful relationship between Virgo and Libra is hard, but not impossible. Virgo and Libra should try to compromise so that the relationship can succeed. Virgo must stop being so critical. Libra should try to put the brakes on its habit of seduction, because Virgo is ultra-faithful and will not tolerate inappropriate behavior in the relationship.
Virgo and Scorpio
A relationship between Virgo and Scorpio can be very good. Scorpio will feel satisfied with its beloved Virgo, since Virgo will recognize Scorpio’s successes and will not be as critical as with other signs. Virgo, thanks to its brilliant analytical ability, will know how to handle Scorpio’s outbursts and jealously in an appropriate way.
Virgo and Sagittarius
It is almost impossible for a relationship between Virgo and Sagittarius to succeed. They are so incompatible that they can hardly get to know each other. Virgo will not tolerate living with a volatile, changing, unstable and irresponsible being. Sagittarius will flee quickly.
Virgo and Capricorn
Virgo and Capricorn will form an excellent relationship. Just be careful not to fall too deeply into a suffocating rut. Both Virgo and Capricorn find it difficult to actively enjoy life. They should help each other in this aspect. As for the rest, smooth sailing.
Virgo and Aquarius
A relationship between Virgo and Aquarius can work, but after a lot of effort. Virgo is too demanding for Aquarius: Virgo restricts Aquarius’s freedom. Aquarius is too unstable and irresponsible for Virgo: Aquarius exacerbates Virgo’s need for organization and control. This will require a lot of patience and dedication.
Virgo and Pisces
For a relationship between Virgo and Pisces to work, Virgo must learn to keep its criticizing under control. Pisces is so sensitive that it cannot bear to be called out for mistakes. In this case, Pisces will tend to retreat into their world of fantasy, in which case, Virgo is dismissed from the relationship. This is not a healthy dynamic and it may be easier to go their separate ways. If they both decide to pursue the relationship, these issues can be worked on. Virgo and Pisces are opposite ends of the axis of health, and they can find common ground in that they both aspire to do good.
Virgo in Love and Passion
When it comes to expressing their love in a physical way, some Virgos show a certain shyness.
They like everything to be pure and transparent, they need to find the right atmosphere to relax. If their partners give them the confidence they need, they will become open and uninhibited lovers.
They are very faithful and demand the same in this regard. Virgos, who detest chicanery, try to be frank and direct with everyone.
They are not overly sentimental, and sometimes their skepticism prevents them from creating too deep and lasting ties.
Because of their innate concern for others, some fall into the hands of unscrupulous people who are willing to take advantage of their generosity.
Virgos find it difficult to give priority to their own needs, and it is up to others to ensure that the Virgo is not systematically neglected.
They try to share their hobbies and lead an active and pleasant life as a couple.
Virgo in Marriage
They are generally supportive of marriage, although they need to resolve their financial situation before committing themselves.
On the other hand, they should moderate their tendency to argue and criticize, if they do not want to undermine their partner’s morale and endanger the relationship.
In general they fight like no one else for the survival of their marriage, but if they believe that the differences are insurmountable they do not hesitate to cut it short.
Virgo women, who are very flexible, know how to reconcile work and family obligations. They need order and efficiency in marriage, and to achieve this they fulfill their marital duties with the best possible attitude.
Virgo men are also hard-working and take their role as father and husband very seriously. Moreover, they are not sexist and would never tolerate their spouse doing more than their equal share.